I need advice on my life?
Ok so I'm 20 moved in with my bf so I can get my life started cause I was feeling trapped well sadly I still feel trapped and it wasn't were I was or anyone else making me feel this way it's me I want so bad to be a actress and singer I know the odds and all that but it's what I want and oneday I will get it but I need a career my life is nothing right now I was gonna go for cosmetology and be able to do hair and make up and get on movie sets and do that but of course some people were like no no no you need a real career that's there's a check for sure then I was gonna go for theatre and music media but once agian no no no your wasting money I'm at to a point were idk what to do Im tired if wasting my life and I don't wanna wake up everyday hating my job I just need a career I would love to do if my music writing and acting don't work out please advice needed
Advice for a friend who is ruining her life!!?
My friend is female and only 23 years old. She has had 3 children and all different fathers. she had all her children taken away by the state. One was just a baby, and i wanted to adopt him. She only calls me when she is in trouble. I feel sorry for her kids and her. she has a mental condition bi-polar, manic deppresive. she called me a few hours ago saying her boyfriend (one of many) kicked her out. I picked her up walking down the street, looking really hung over. She tells me she had just taken a pregnancy test, and she's pregnant and doesnt want another baby. She cant keep her legs closed and is addicted to drugs, hangs out at bars and sleeps anywhere. she has no home . One of her boyfriends used to beat her till she was black and blue, he works with my husband and now hes in jail for stealing or something. She wants to go back with this guy when he gets out in 3 months. Her life is a mess. I dont know what to do for her. She uses everyone.
What would be your advice for teens?
Dream.All teenagers should dream!But first let’s meet few dreamers,He is Christopher Beale, Youngest ever to write a novel at the age of 6.And he is Dimitrios Loundras, Youngest ever Olympic medalist at the age of 10 (Won in 1896).Meet Tanishq Abraham, Youngest ever to graduate college at the age of 11.Now say Hi to Mauricio Baldivieso, Youngest ever to play Professional Football at the age of 12.Btw she is Sajjida Shah, Youngest ever to play International Cricket at the age of 12.And OH he is Jordan Romero, Youngest ever to climb Mount Everest at the age of 13.You might know her, she is Martina Hingis, Youngest ever to win a Grand Slam at the age of 15.We all know her, don’t we ? Malala Yousafzai, Youngest person to receive a Nobel Prize at the age of 17.You might don’t know her but she is Ruth Lawrence, Youngest ever to achieve a Doctorate Degree at the age of 17.And this is the pride of India, Suhas Gopinath, Youngest CEO at the age of 17.He doesn’t look 18 but he is! he is Andrew Bynum, Youngest player to play in NBA at the age of 18.now let me introduce you to Amobi Okoye, youngest player to be drafted in NFL at the age of 19.And finally, Alexandra Andresen, Youngest Billionaire at the age of 21.What did you see?I saw young dreamers . Teenagers who didn’t let the world define themselves! (Some are not even teenagers)From climbing the Himalayas to being a billionaire, from playing international cricket to graduating college at the age of 11 and from starting a company to winning a Nobel prize a teenager can do anything. What do you want to do?****But don’t do drugs. NEVERAnd Parents, NEVER EVER DOUBT THE POTENTIAL OF YOUR TEENAGER!!! and never down talk. EVER!!!Let them dream and provide them with right guidance and atmosphere. Your kind can do miracles! Believe me.
Circumcision Advice?
There are some decisions with life-long consequences we make for our children when they are too young to decide on their own. Circumcision is often one of them, inoculations are another, what they eat is yet another. As they become adolescents we continue to make other decisions they aren't prepared to make, about things like bed-times, who to hang out with, chores to perform, what school to attend. As a parent, you have not just the right, but also the responsibility for making these decisions to ensure a decent life for your child. Somewhere in the progression though, your children start to acquire the desire to make their own decisions. They might even be acquiring the ability to do so, if you've been doing your job right. It will depend on the nature of the decision and the relative maturity of the child, but personally I'm inclined to think that a 12-year-old boy has the right to decide - with the relevant age-appropriate information made available to him - if he is going to be circumcised for optional reasons. And further, I think the 12-year-old potentially undergoing the procedure for medical reasons should be fully involved in that decision as well. Having responded in a manner that may suggest I'm anti-circumcision, let me add that I'm not, and I caution you against paying too much attention to the sometimes hysterical hyperbole promulgated by the so-called "intactivists." I was circumcised as an adult (for medical reasons) and I've lived life fully (if you know what I mean) on both sides of this question. I much prefer being circumcised and frankly wish I'd had the procedure done when I was an infant. Hygiene is much easier, there was absolutely no loss of sensation and every single woman with whom I have been since (and I'm straight) has preferred me this way...including women from countries where it is not a common practice. There is absolutely nothing about being non-circumcised that I miss. And in an age where we commonly get gaged, pierced, tattooed and augmented, all this yak about circumcision being a "mutilation" is just stupid. I also endorse the comments made that you need to consult with a specialist, someone who not only specializes in this procedure but also in this age will offer not just physical treatment but also emotional/mental support as well. And don't hesitate to get a second opinion for the son being advised for medical reasons.
Help!!! I got my girlfriend pregnant! ADVICE?
OBVIOUSLY sex is a two way street and you are just as responsible as she is! You should have taken your own precautions without her having to tell you! Does she tell you how to dress in the mornings? Does she tell you what to eat? If you can do big man things like having sex then you best bet you can man the hell up and do what needs to be done. What makes you think you are so hot?? So what if she gains a little weight??! You're just a little prick who needs to learn how to keep his dick in his pants since he obviously cannot handle the responsibility!!!!! I say she should leave you since you are a shallow worthless sorry excuse of a man! She doesn't need you! But be prepared for when you get a court order to pay some child support! Welcome to the world of parenthood! Where that baby comes before you and all your wants and needs. What is wrong with people these days??! FYI JACKA**: no one is going to help you. There is nothing we can do. We don't even know you. We are online for crying out loud. You need to man up and take some responsibility for your actions, YES: YOUR ACTIONS. She is having to deal with this and cope with this, and I'm sure she isn't acting like a complete douche in the process. If you are 14 and she is 13 you shouldn't have been having sex if you don't know how to use some protection. Scratch that, you shouldn't have been having sex AT ALL. All I can say is that if you choose not to help her, and you choose to keep acting like you are a victim, then you are a sorry person. You chose to crawl in that bed with her, so don't act like you're innocent. Oh and something else --- go to a doctor, I think you're missing some balls. Because a REAL MAN takes care of his baby. OHH it does help, it just means you are trashier than I thought :) Have a nice day ********!