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Where Does The Line Go Between Being Nice To A Teacher And Being Toady/kissing A**

I kissed my teacher!?

help.. I'm 17 years old, if you want to know what i look like just look at my other question and follow the link. Anyway there is this really hot teacher at my school, she's in her twenties, and generally all the guys have a crush on her. So i left my math book in her classroom, and i needed it for my next lesson, our school is a really big building and her classroom is across the other side, so i had to run to get it, so i got a detention for running -_- Once i got there she was just marking some work, i took my math book and she said something like this (she noticed the detention slip in my hand) "How come you were running, all the girls chasing after you for a date again?" i said " no i had to get my math book" then this was when she leaned closer to me ,she whispered in my ear that it was hard not to get distracted when she was teaching me because i was so cute, hot (LOL,she is a real ego booster :) then i kissed her, she started to deepen the kiss, then she started to unbutton my shirt but then the bell rang so i had to get back to class. This is not the problem, but today i received a video text with me kissing her and it said that it'll be posted to the principal in 3 days unless.. then the text ended. This teacher is a really great teacher and i don't want her to lose her job. WHAT DO I DO? thanks

I kissed my teacher :/ ?

Amelie,

I understand your embarrassment and really do feel badly for you right now. I can only reassure you that it will get better with time.

Your feelings for your teacher are not at all unusual! Many students find themselves having feelings for a special teacher. The student / teacher relationship is like any other relationship where there is one person who has a position of authority (the teacher) and one who does not (the student). It is also similar to the relationship with a therapist and client, a doctor and a patient, or a minister and a member of the parish. Because of that, the teacher cannot, or should not, have feelings back for the student. It is his or her responsibility to see that the line is not crossed. When you kissed your teacher, he understandably became afraid for his job. Maybe your teacher should have seen the cues of your crush on him and gven better signals before ths happened so you would know that he was not available to you in that way. But he didn't. I am most certan that they had conversatons with hm as well about his responsblity to be aware of crushes.

I am very glad that the conversation with the principal and the counselor happened that day and they told you it would be confidential. They have experienced this on other occassions with other students and teachers. I am sure understand it and do not think that you are a bad person. As painful and embarrassing as this is, the best thing that could happen was that it would stop there and also not remain a secret between you and your teacher.

So, the feelngs are common, the desre to kss your teacher is understandable, and the line between student and teacher has been clarified. It is emabarrassng and awkward rght now, but it wll get better. I am sure your school counselor would be very open to talking with you further about your feelings and that might help. You are not the first girl (or boy) to experence this and you will not be the last.

My very best wishes, Amelie!

Preschool teachers hugging/kissing students?

So my question here is, is it strange or taboo for my 3 year old son's preschool teacher to hug and kiss him if he isnt the one initiating it? Hugging is okay, I think it shows a good bond between student and teacher, but the part that I feel a little uncomfortable with is she will discipline him (my son is a delayed child and has behavior/learning issues which the teachers are working on with him, as well me I am) and immediately after she goes "alright now give me a hug" and kinda grabs his face and then kisses him. So to me its almost forced, especially because at this point he is trying to get to me as this is happening during the time I am picking him up from school.
I'm just not sure how I should feel about this situation I guess.

My teacher kissed me?

TBH i have had a crush on my teacher its a he and he is magga fitt he called me in so i could give him my homework and we both stopped and he kissed me YES IM TAKEN WITH DAVID but my teacher (Dain) kissed me all i did was run out but when i whent back to class about 2 hours later he was crying and begging me not to tell anyone and i ran away again now i dont know what to do im at home and i carnt even face my boy friend OR HIM! please help im like confused and feel abit sick oh yes i dont want to upset him more and make him get the sack (IM 19 YEARS OLD HE IS 21)

My math teacher kissed me!?!?

Okay so today i stayed for extra help because i really dont understand the topic an were having a test tomorrow and he was helping me there were other kids in the room so he wasnt really being too weird but when the other kids left and i was about to leave he handed me back one of my homeworks and he grabbed my arm and kissed me!! Hes really really cute and hes young in his early 20's i like him but i didnt want to tell him but now i dont know what to do. HELP!!!

Ahhhhh!! I kissed my teacher! I'm 18!?

There's only a six year difference in your ages,

He's not your teacher anymore, and

You're both attractted to each other, so . . .

I say, no big deal.

As a matter of fact, I bet it was a blast for both of you - the "forbidden fruit" syndrome so to speak.

Help! My teacher kissed me!?

I'm a junior in high school and my sophomore year I had a rather very friendly teacher. He was my geometry teacher and every day that I'd come into class he'd greet me at the door but he'd always say something like "You look lovely today!" Or "Jeez you're go beautiful." Now this I just brushed off because they were just compliments although one day I had been upset because my boyfriend of a year broke up with me. He had told me that I was too good for him and he was also a athletic coach so he heard the guys talking in the locker room.

He was sitting a little to close to me and just pulled me into a hug. At first I was surprised because none of my teacher are this friendly, a simple pat on the back was all that should have been exchanged.

Another time I was sitting in class and a friend of mine was flirting with me through out the whole class. After class 'Mr. E' had asked if he was my boyfriend to which I responded with a no. He smiled and said "Thank god, he doesn't seem like your type." That had confused me but I shrugged it off.

The 'incident' in which is why I'm certain he likes me is during third period I had asked my best friend Megan if she wanted to ditch and go to Mr. E's room, he didn't have a fourth period and although he'd say I should be in class he let us in, but only for a couple of minutes.

Megan had to use to restroom and I was left alone in the room with him. We chatted about silly things and he was sitting in the desk next to mine. He had asked me if I was okay because my ex boyfriend decided to date one of my ex best friends I told him no and he put his hand over mine. I have no idea why he did this, but he kissed me! After I processed this I pulled away and left his class and he tried talking to me every day since about it.

I ignored him and now school is starting and I'm afraid to see him. It's not that I'm not attracted to him because I really am. I'm just thinking adulty and I don't want him go get in trouble. Any advice?

I kissed my teacher outside of school?

I know most of you won't believe this story because it doesn't even sound true but it honestly is! Here goes I'm 16 left school (last friday)but the friday after that I saw my teacher down train station i had just split up with my boyfriend and was in tears so he being a kind teacher put his arm around me,as we was talking we become closer and closer to the point were our faces were touching,we held like that for a few mins then we both looked up at the same time and snogged lasted like 1 and a half mins then his train came and he pecked me goodbye. In the last week he wasn't in but he was in on our last day he called me and friends into his classroom to give us "last minute exam prep" then he kept me behind to help me further and we kept Purposly making out bodies touch then at the end he hugged me goodbye as he did to my friends and he put his hand on my **** and pinched looked out and saw noone outside then we had a quick snog before we hured someone down the corridoor and seperated In the goodbye assesmbly we hugged again he wispered he'd miss me. He then slipped his phone number into my pocket I've only jsut text him today,he said we should meet and talk
Would any thing between us be wrong now I've left? I'm 16 will be 17 in sept his 24?
Because I'm seriously crazy for him!
Could he lose his job over this?

Is it normal for a teacher to kiss you on the cheek when you're hugging her?

Actually a teacher ( she was young, in her 20s) kissed me when I was in 1st grade . She found me to be very cute and like a teddy bear. She asked me to kiss her on her ‘Cheeks’. I was super duper shy and everyone in the class was looking. She said she will close her eyes and i can kiss her quick on her cheeks. I did and I was so so, embarrassed. After that, she kissed me ( of course) on the cheeks few times and would hug me often in school.There was NOTHING perverted in it. She loved me in a way a mother would love her son or rather in the way an Aunt would love her nephew( she was closer to my mom’s younger sisters in age) . She was very affectionate towards me . The best part was NO ONE in class ever made fun of me for that ( of course, we were mostly 5 and 6, pure innocence ) . God bless her , wherever she is.

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