Where to meet women after highschool?
So here's my deal, as of recently I lost 145 pounds and cut my greasy long hair for the first time since I was 8 (lol), now I dress sharply (sharply I said, not super trendy), I'm clean cut and in good shape workin out 3 times a week with a trainer, always wear nice cologne, good hygiene etc, etc. But I find that now that I'm out of highschool (I'm 18) it's harder to meet women and just people in general. I find girls I've known but wouldn't want to pursue now show interest in me, but I'd really like to branch out and meet new people but I'm sooo shy I just have no idea how I'd approach a girl in a random place like the mall or what I'd say? Any advice? And by the way joining an activity group or something of the like wouldn't fit in my work schedule and I'm not too made of money so keep that in mind with your answers, thanks!
How to meet high school girls?
How old are you? I think you will have enough time for meeting guys. Like when you're in college! But I totally understand that its difficult for being on an all girls high school, so why don't you go out with your GF to the village or city? Have some fun... Ask your GF is they don't know any guys, meet up with them and have fun! Next time they will bring some more friends and before you know it, you will be having tons of guys friends :-)
How do i meet other gay guys in high school?
Hi. i know that this question comes up a lot on these types of sites, but i haven't been able to get any real answers that would work. I'm 15 and a sophomore in high school. I almost fully came out of the closet last year (almost everyone but my parents), and to my surprise, only 1 or 2 people have given me a hard time for it. they don't anymore though, and I've been able to live a happy life in my area. there are only 3 other guys that i know to be openly gay around my area. 2 of them are seniors, and i don't have much interest in them, and one goes to the middle school still, I've only seen him once or twice at our football games. some girls in my school started up a GSA on Facebook, and we haven't had any luck in starting it up in school. I Googled the word gay, then my town name, but there weren't any places to go other than law offices, and a furniture store. one of my friends talked to me about a "Bi Party", where you went in, used a fake name, and hooked up with other guys, but that's not what I'm looking for. i figured that in a school of over 800 kids, there would be more gay guys than there seems to be. even though I'm out of the closet, i still feel like I'm alone. My straight girl friends can only do so much to make me feel better, and there are lines that my straight guy friends wont cross. I know some lesbian girls, but there's still something that makes me feel alone. I just want at least one gay guy friend, maybe even a boyfriend. I want someone that shares my feelings, and knows where I'm coming from, someone that i can talk about anything with. so please if there's anything that could lead me on the path to finding some gay guy friends i would love to hear it. (keep in mind that I'm only 15, and it would be best if my parents didn't find out (my reason is not that they would be angry, but that they would never let me do anything around guys anymore, and they would be SUPER protective of me))
Where can you meet girls in high school? My school only has 30 people.
There were only about 120 in my high school. One pair of my class mates found each other and became husband and wife. At least two other classmates found there husbands in classes ahead of ours. My wife (from a neighboring, slightly larger school) found me at a during-the-class-day Junior High basketball game at my high school.It is possible in a small school. But, try church or other public venues.
How to meet new girls in high school?
act stupid ... like your lost or something on the hall way and dont know where the bathroom is or maybe you dont know where the lab or a certain class is. or if she is still in your class ... act like you cant see the board and ask her what does it say over there and maybe again and throw a joke in between like "you should be my navigator" :P good luck buddy
How can I meet gay guys in High school?
Going out of your way to show your sexual preference while you are in school, or even on your job is not a very good idea if you can help it. It's best to keep your personal life personal. That having been said, it is a good idea to have a personal life. I would suggest at your age that you check out the gay and lebisn community center near you; perhaps they have a youth program of some sort. Also go online, see what gay venues your area has, hopefully you will find something like a gay oriented coffeeshop and reading room. They are becoming popular with non-drinkers of all ages, and you can bring or just read a book, have a coffee or soda and watch people. Your area MIGHT have a Metropolitan Community Church, also, and they have youth groups. Finally, explore the Internet. Google " Gay.......(the name of your town) and see what comes up. PlanetOut may have some youth oriented sites. Be careful who and how you meet people. ALWAYS meet the first time in public, very public places like the Mall or one of those reading rooms, etc. If you catch someone in a lie who you've chatted with, drop them, they probably are full of lies. My advice is to be leery of advice given by women in this category, they think differently than men, and the advice seems directed into making you a perfect little lesbian instead of a gay man. You might as well ask your mama, or bratty little sister. Good luck to you.
Is it possible to meet your soulmate in high school?
It’s certainly possible in high school to love deeply and devotedly. Feeling when you’re in the midst of adolescence are real and they are deep. At that age (roughly 15 - 22, you feel fully and the memory of many of those feelings may stay, at least as a pleasant memory, with you for the rest of your life. This can be a good time.However…lots of things change, and to assume that a person you’re in love with when your fifteen or sixteen will still mean as much to you ten years, ten months, or even ten days from now is almost certainly a mistake. I’m not saying you should guard your feelings, but you should seek to avoid actions which can place you in difficult to solve problems.For instance, you should not get pregnant or cause a pregnancy because you’re in love at sixteen or seventeen. The next ten years of your life will be times of great changes in you, your loved one, and society. Nothing is certain, so try to be proportional in the decisions you make, to avoid making mistakes you may later regret. I never would have laughed at Romeo and Juliet, but their end was sad, and they died young. They provide a great object lesson.
How can someone meet girls in high school?
Aight here’s the freaking super secret recipe.I have literally no clue why I’m answering this.Maybe it’s because I have no energy left because my Chemistry teacher siphoned all of it.Okay anyways here’s the super secret formula (assuming you don’t go to an all-boys school)Step 1. Commute to schoolStep 2. Walk within a 30-foot radius of them.Step 3. Throw on the shades because you just met a girlStep 4. Realize that was lameStep 5. Repeat until eventually step 6Step 6. They strike up a conversation with youStep 7. Ruin the conversationStep 8. Start overMoral of the story?Don’t.You are is kind of very welcome.
How do I make close friends in highschool?
My high school is about 900 students. It's small and big at the same time. It can be really hard to make friends especially in high school. Sometimes you need to come out of your comfort zone though.If you are going to make friendsBe nice to everyone. By nice I don't mean give people money, let them copy your homework, or carry their books to class. If you do that people will walk all over you. Hold the door for people, say good morning if you see someone from you math class in the hallways, help people with their work, or just help people if you see they could use a hand.Join clubs You can meet great people when you join clubs that intrest you and make good relationships with them. However what people fail to do is keep those relationship outside the clubs and programs. That's how you lose those connections. And I can say that I've made some great friends from the programs and clubs I do in and out of school.Be spontaneous but don't be too spontaneous, keep it cool. If you can sit where you want in class, sit next to people you don't know and get to know them during the class. Or On the first day of school walk up to someone in lunch and say “Hey my name is XYZ what's you name?” These acts can be the start of a very long friendship. One of my best friends did this to me on the first day of 7th grade and we've been friends since( shout out to you best friend).I don't really think it's hard to make friends, well at least for me anyways. I really do believe that when you are nice to people and respectful, and you be yourself, people will naturally come to you and want to get to know you.Also don't call everyone your friend because they are NOT. You will get to know a lot of people but they aren't you friend. You just know them. They are acquaintances and nothing more.Thanks for reading.~Safiyyah
Is dating worth it in high school?
Yes, I would definitely say so. Of course, dating in high school is not absolutely required or essential, but it totally has its benefits.At an earlier age, you become more aware of other people and their emotions/fear/concerns, and in my opinion, emotional intelligence is one of the most important yet understated skill anybody can have. You also learn early on what your own emotional or moral strengths or weaknesses are.If you find yourself in unsuccessful relationships, you learn how to handle heartbreak early on (so you’ll have time to recover) and you learn how to handle rejection which is a skill a lot of adults don’t even haveYou also begin to develop your taste in partners, which can help you skip some steps later on. For example, you may learn early on that you tend to fall for domineering men, but they end up usually not working well with your personality. So when you’re in college or in your 20s, you can be aware that you usually are attracted initially to domineering men, but you should steer clear anyway, you know?Dating in high school can also help you understand your sexual orientation more clearly. You may realize/confirm that you’re gay, lesbian, bisexual, asexual, straight, etc. in high school.You may just happen to find long term partners/spouses in high school! It’s not very likely, but it’s certainly not impossible.But as I said, dating isn’t necessary. If you’d rather focus on studies or other things in your life, then definitely do that! Also, if you think you’re just not emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship and you think you may cause excessive emotional damage to other people, then definitely hold off on dating. So don’t feel like you should force yourself to date, but I definitely think it’s worth it. I am immensely happy that I dated in high school (still going super strong with my high school love), and I’m even happy that I “dated” in middle school (though 100% of those relationships were failures) since I really grew emotionally because of it.