GIRLS: Do girls ever go with nerds and geeks? Meaning do nerds ever get hot wives, or is that only jocks?
What do you consider a hot girl? You have a good chance of being with a hot girl, unless you consider girls who aren't nerds to be hot. You especially have a good chance of being with one who is a nerd that you have something in common with. Someone gave me the advice early on in my life to only date nerds/geeks, because they'll treat you the best, and other types of people are more likely to be shallow or only want a trophy girl. I've listened to that, and it was easy for me to listen to because I'm a nerd myself and would probably always prefer them if I had a choice.
DUMPING NERD BOYFREIND FOR JOCk?
I am a cheerleader and one of the most popular girls in the school but I am secretly dating a nerd who I love so much. I keep it a secret because if people found out I was dating a nerd it would ruin my reputation. So should I date this jock, he used to be a jerk to me but ever since I became a cheerleader he became a sweet heart and If I dated him we could be the most popular people in my school. It is a real difficult situation because my nerdy boyfriend treats my like a queen but I can't be sen with him. What shud I do?
Should I dump my nerdy boyfriend for a jock?
I am a cheerleader and one of the most popular girls in the school but I am secretly dating a nerd who I love so much. I keep it a secret because if people found out I was dating a nerd it would ruin my reputation. So should I date this jock, he used to be a jerk to me but ever since I became a cheerleader he became a sweet heart and If I dated him we could be the most popular people in my school. It is a real difficult situation because my nerdy boyfriend treats my like a queen but I can't be seen with him. What should I do?
How many girls fall for nerds?
For most girls, it seems normal that at aome point, they end up with the nerdy type.... look at people that have been married for a really long time... out of those people, the more attractive the woman is, usually the less attractive and more nerdy the guy is. Not necessarily a bad thing. There are much more important things that KEEP couples together than just looks. Granted, physical appearance is the ULTIMATE reason why most people are attracted to each other, whether it is external appearance or sexual compatibility.... but those things don't KEEP people together. Most women like to be mentally stimulated and turned on by someone who will talk to them and connect to them, which is why a "nerd" may be a great choice... if your really want to call them "nerds." Most "nerds" aren't really that, they usually leave high school and go on to be very physically well-built, have $$$,$$$ in the bank, take care of themselves, and obviously know how to talk... I know, I used to be called a nerd and now I'm 27 and married to a 31-yr-ol model. And believe me, she didn't marry me for my money... but for our physical and sexual compatiblity and our intellectual conversation and emotional connection... I think what most young people would consider a "nerd" is acually what most adults would consider a "man."
Why don't girls date nerds?
Its not about whether someone is a nerd or tough guy. A girl will go out with any guy who shows interest in her, that shows respect towards her, and is outgoing. Nerds can be just as fun as tough guys, but if nerdy guys don't try to initiate anything, it seems like they are the uninterested ones.
Why don't girls date the nerdy shy guys in high school?
Women don’t like shy guys. The problem isn’t exactly about being nerd. I mean there are cool nerds. You can be a logical and smart guy and have girls. But if you are shy around women then you are in trouble.Because of society norms, at least in most countries, girls still expect guys to make the first move.If you are too shy to do it then it’s very… very hard for you to meet girl. As girls very, “rarely” approach guys. Also they never invite guys out.I am in my thirties now. For many years, I had problems meeting women because I was shy. I can tell you, “I never ever had a single girl asking me out”.Actually, I only realized this a few days ago. Yes, I had a few cases of women approaching me. I can even count those situations with my fingers. But asking me out, never!I guess you are young… so that is the reality.Despite whatever women say, I bet some women here will tell you that they love shy and nerdy guys. Even if they are saying the truth, or probably being polite and not trying to hurt your feelings.The fact is most women don’t like shy guys.So if you are shy then it is a harsh and muddy road ahead. Fortunately, shyness isn’t a terminal disease or something. You seriously need to force yourself to get outside of the box.By starting being more bold with girls.A thing you can try doing… is… walking down the street and start asking girls for time. Once you get comfortable with this, ask for directions. Afterward, say, “hi” to them, etc… and strike a conversation from there.Of course, you don’t need to do all of these in a single day. Do one for a week until it feels boring, then pass to the next exercise. You can also search online for social freedom exercises.I did this in the past to overcome my social anxiety and shyness. It helps a lot!As I said, the problem isn’t being nerdy. You have women for all types of men. But the real issue is being shy.Also I must remind you that most girls, even though they may talk loud with their friends, around guys they tend to be shy themselves.
Do any women actually find nerdy looking guys sexually attractive?
From what I've found, nerds have the best personalities... which, (hate to break this to you) sometimes...just sometimes... women DON'T care so much about looks and would instead like a guy with a killer personality. Hint, hint, Hero. Bry.. where the hell is Kenny? Maybe we tease him too much about his small wee wee? lol