Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most? Why?
Trust is an integral part of love. If you can’t trust the person you love then there can be no loyalty to each other. That’s why hurt from a loved one is so much more painful.
Why do we hurt the ones we love the most?
may be becaz we r so much free wit those people that we never know when we r hurting them
What would you say to the person who hurt you most in life if you had just one sentence?
I would say ‘Thank You’.Though that person made me hit the rock bottom of life and made my life almost unbearable, as the saying goes ‘life’s best lessons are learnt at our worst moments’ the experience that person gave me makes me wiser and stronger. I love who i am now. That hurt makes me discover my true self. It is only after that experience that i begun to take deep interest in me and truly love myself. As that person made me feel so unvalued and even led me to the point where i lost all my appetite, i started to appreciate every little thing which i used to take for granted and make me value the people who were always there for me. The way i see life changed in a better way. Now, i am that person who see ‘the donut instead of the hole’, the grateful person who loves to count my blessings instead of my problems.In short, i thought i was robbed of my happiness but actually i was given the much better version of me.
Zodiac sign that hurt you the most ?
my best friend for years was a scorpio. it ended ugly. sun: gemini
''Sometimes the ones you hurt the most, are the ones you love the most'' Do you agree/disagree?
True. The closer a relationship between two people is, the greater one can hurt the other. The people you love can hurt you more because you have let them get closer to you. Think about it - if a person on the street says something to you, it won't bother you that much. You'll probably forget it within the hour. If someone close to you said the same thing, it would have much more effect on you. So, "You always hurt the ones you love," because they're the only ones you really can hurt.
Why are the people you love and trust the most the ones that hurt you the most?
“Why are the people you love and trust the most the ones that hurt you the most?”I am sorry, but that isn’t the question, that is a fact. Because if you don’t love someone and don’t trust them you can not get hurt. There is not enough emotional investment in a person that can cause you mental damage if you dont like them.They will always be this way:Believe me or not, I have been back-stabbed by a lot of a people, cheated on and used.It is just human nature. Just learn to identify the situation and walk away from it. It is human nature that we tend to hurt those people that take us for granted. Example? Remember the time when you were arrogant 14 years kid. see?You should love without any expectation:You should always give without of expectation of getting anything in return. Because our expectations are our biggest enemies and lead us to disappointment and hurt.Being taken for granted is worse:This is my personal theory, being taken for granted is of the worst things that can happen to you. You should let people know that even if you love them from the bottom of your heart, you will not be here if things don’t go your way. Show them you have higher self-esteem and be willing to cut them off of your life.I hope this helps. I hope you heal soon if someone hurt you. This is the world we live in and we cannot change its nature in one day or millennium.
Why does the person you love the most hurt you more?
“We don't love the person who hurts us.But our loved one hurts us the most.”When we love someone unconditionally even a small change in them hurts us to core.This is unintentional.Sometimes they take us for granted just because we don't leave them.This is intentional.Rarely they hurt us just to ensure that we leave them.This is intentional.We get hurt because we expect.Getting hurt is directly proportional to expectation. So reduce your expectation. It is your strategy to love them unconditionally. So don't expect the same from them. This is one way to reduce getting hurt.( This applies for unintentional ). Make them realize or explain them how bad it feels and hurts. Give them sometime. See whether they try to comfort you. If not it is not unintentional. It is intentional.Stop begging if they do intentionally. Because it is not going to make any difference to them. You are going to lose your self respect, time and energy. Just leave them. Wait for a while to see whether they make any effort to calm down you or long for your presence. If they don't, you too don't. Just move on. It's your life. Don't give a damn about it.Live happily by embracing reality.