Have you ever accidentally flashed someone?
I once flashed my whole class my chest. I'd still been drinking my coffee when the students came in that morning, and someone hit my hand with a bag and caused me to spill coffee on my shirt. It wasn't a big deal since I had a zip up sweater on too, so I went to the bathroom and removed my inner top. At some point during class I got hot and forgot that I wasn't wearing anything underneath the sweater, so I unzipped it all the way and kept talking about China in the 1970’s. It's not usually a subject that causes students to sit up and pay attention, so I quickly became aware that they were all a little too alert. I looked down and saw that my bountiful breasts were on display in nothing but a lacy bra. Strangely enough, I didn't have time to get embarrassed, because I was too worried that I'd be accused of sexual impropriety. My students were kind, and no one complained.Yesterday I kinda flashed one tit to a whole supermarket full of people. When I got out of my car I thought that one of my tires looked really low, so I bent all the way over to check it out. I really don't know how I failed to notice that my left tit had popped out of my bra and was resting a few inches above its sister. It is currently quite warm here so I was just wearing a thin cotton top. The outline of my escaped titty was clearly visible, but I had no idea. I walked into the store and did my shopping, vaguely registering that people were avoiding eye contact with me. Finally a kind woman came up and whispered to me that one of my breasts was flying free, and I quickly corrected the problem. I'm still a little pissed at all the people who saw me and decided not to tell me!
What is the correct thing to do when a female bends over in front of you and you can see down her shirt?
I had friend, a girl, who was not my girlfriend, she had a boyfriend. I was single at that time. We hanged out together a lot. There was some sexual tension between us, but since she was in relationship nothing really happened between us.One day we were driving in my car. She had a polo shirt with all top buttons unbottoned. It was hot. Every time I would look to my right, I could see her perky breast and her nipple, covered, but completely visible from my angle.I tried not to stare, but it was in my peripheral vision all the time.We stopped at a red light and I had an impulse to just go for it. I leaned to her, opened the shirt to release the full breast and took her nipple into my mouth. I expected a slap, a yelling, but she did not react. I must have kissed, sucked and licked her nipple for about a minute.Drivers in other cars probably saw everything.At green light (I don’t remember if she said anything or if I noticed it), I straightened up and we drove off. Neither of us said anything all the way to her home (some time later she said this was the sexiest part). Her breast remained uncovered. She only fixed her shirt when we turned into her street - her parents or neighbours could be outside.Nothing really changed between us. This didn’t ruin our friendship, and it never progressed further. The sexual tension and some teasing remained between us though.So to answer the question - don’t do this unless you feel very strongly it will be accepted. I’ve never done something like that with someone who was not my girlfriend except that one time.I have looked many times, tried not to stare, but was still caught several times. Reactions were varied - from stern looks to smiles or even a wink. So I guess some women do it intentionally, but you can’t really know until you see their reaction.
My parents treat me so unfairly compared to my younger brother?
Yes, I've had my fair share of sibling problems as the older one in the family. My brother gets rewarded bountifully for a small achievement, while when I get an A on my exam, I barely get a glance and a "get an A+ next time." My brother gets away with blaming everything on me, so my life isn't perfect either. I like to think of it as my parents think I have more potential then my brother. Where you said, "It's as if my parents want me to get a degree, get a good job, and give all of my money to my brother." Think of how embarrasing it must be for your brother to have his sibling raise him. "He's grown to be spoiled and is rude with literally no manners." Well, good luck finding him a girlfriend. "But that's not the case, he's going to be a junior in highschool and soon entering college yet they're so submissive to him like he's 5 years old." Your brother is going to think your parents don't care about him. "When my brother wants to buy $200 worth of clothes my parents pull out their wallets without hesitation. When I try to get TWO t shirts, they seem uncomfortable and I always end up buying only one. My brother would also get gifts on MY birthday." When your brother grows up, and your parents are too old to support him, he's going to learn the hard way that he doesn't get everything he wants handed to him. YOU though, by that time, will have already learned that lesson. Younger siblings can really be a pain, but everything will eventually turn out right. Like Kelly Clarkson said,"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger!"
Can a girl tell if you have an erection when she sits on your lap?
Sorry, this is just so embarrassing (to me anyway) I just had to hide my name.When I was 13, I went through this overalls stage. Just overalls. Socks and shoes only if required. Nothing else.Overalls are baggy so hard ons are generally not too noticeable, a good thing considering how many times a day a 13 year old gets a hard on. On this particular day, I'm at a family get together. Not my family but my brother-in-law's family. Lots of pretty young things I didn't know well equals lots of imagination and lots of the obvious end result.So I'm sitting in a chair when the four year old daughter of my brother-in-law's sister plops down in my lap. Guess what she lands on. She lets out a little exclamation, scootches to one side, reaches down and grabs it and says “What's that?”Being a brain dead teenager totally embarrassed and not knowing what to say I said “Um, that's me.”“No really. What's that.”Still brain dead. “That's me.”Her eyes get big and round and she says “Oh!” then pops down and trots off. I found out later that earlier that year that four year old girl had received a fairly thorough explanation of the birds and the bees, but mine was probably the first piece of equipment she had actually grasped.So embarrassing…
Is grabbing your girlfriends arm to keep her from walking away during a confrontation physical abuse?
(The guys above me have the correct legal version. Touching someone against their will is considered assault. I was answering in a way that I find morally correct.) If you caused real pain then yes. Like she screamed, not in anger but pain, if she cringed or stumbled from pain, if you bruised her or caused her to bleed. You can hold someone's arm without squeezing hard. Basically if you caused her a substantial amount of pain then yes you hit her. If you just held her then no obviously not. It's like the difference between arm wrestling and holding hands. Did you use force?