Why are people so eager to get married?
This is a myth... Sex or great sex has nothing to do with marriage. If you have great sex before marriage You will have great sex after marriage Once you get your first child If things start falling apart... it is mostly because of the man. Man comes home and does not show interest in his wife Does not help with kid either Woman is tired and cannot be bother making herself pretty for a man who does not care. Man even show less interest now. Woman is too tired to have sex and is not even thinking about it. Man still want sex... but not really with her. He start blaming her for his lack of a sex life.
Why are women so eager to get married?
these women usually watched too many fairytale movies and yearn to wear a cinderella type of wedding dress & basically visualize a fantasy wedding like how princess diana rode to the chapel on a horse carriage.it's like how some men fantasize about marrying a super hot woman,who resembles a celebrity for example and probably won't settle for anything that's not close to 'perfection'.some women may also feel a need to get married because some of their friends have already settled down and they're jealous of how 'happy' their married friends seem.it's one thing if you're rich and can easily afford a big wedding but people who can't but plan an expensive wedding anyway just to show-off,are crazy and will probably get divorced early since they're in a such a rush & add onto the statistics lol maybe they want to get married & have kid(s),so that they'll be a future hot milf instead of an old hag mom.men aren't as eager because their sperm lasts a lifetime while womens' eggs expire faster.marriage requires sacrafices,such as some of your freedom/independence,which some aren't willing or ready to make.it seems like some people marry for the wrong reasons because they still have an immature mindset(even some older people still act immature,so i don't think older people are necessarily more wiser than anyone else regarding their decision-making capabilities) i also don't think one should marry just to please their significant other's desires and be miserable,instead of compromising so both are happy:)
Why are people so eager to get married so fast these days?
I believe in taking your time to find the right person, you should not marry the first person you date, but the more people you date, the better you know what you want. I just came out of an 11 month relationship where it moved way too fast too soon. I am only 20. How can anyone be thinking of marriage so young? My partner thought of marriage ever since we met. Why? She wanted to find someone to marry. I just wanted someone to date, and it later lead into a relationship. My question is.....Why are people so eager to get married so fast these days?
Why is everyone getting engaged/married so young?
I can't explain it but I feel the exact same way. Literally over half of my senior class (500+ kids) are pregnant, have kids, are engaged, or are married already. I don't get it. They don't have degrees and they don't have good jobs. It really makes me wonder just how they support themselves and their children when they are only making minimum wage at 40 hours a week. Personally, I would NEVER get married before I finished college, got a job that suited my degree, and paid off my student loans. It just doesn't make sense to me to enter into a lifelong commitment when you have no idea about how to handle debt. I would guess that these girls are very naive and believe that they are mature enough to commit the next 50+ years of their life to someone (a product of the Twilight phenomenon, no doubt lol) and they have dreamed of their wedding day for their entire lives and they just can't wait any longer to try on the pretty dresses, get all dressed up, and have a sparkly ring. Yes, there are probably SOME who will actually spend the rest of their lives together. The problem is, most of these people aren't really ready to grow up. They still want to go dancing and have parties and flirt and have fun and they think that they can still do that when they're married. They don't understand that with marriage comes worrying about bills and working at the relationship, not only love. One of my friends (19-years-old) married his 23-year-old baby momma out of a sense of responsibility for his son but he's horribly unhappy and so is his wife. He tried to join the army but failed boot camp on purpose because he didn't want to by in the army anymore. Now all he wants to do is hang out with his friends and play video games all day. He still wants to be a young kid who isn't tied down by a wife and kid to provide for. It's just stupid, in my opinion. I'm pretty sure that when I see these people at our high school reunion and they're divorced, I'm going to laugh at the thought of my wonderful husband and the fact that I made sure that i could take care of myself before I got married.
Why are women more keen on getting married than men?
Women want to have babies before their ovaries stop functioning, while men have virtually no expiration date on their fertility.As a result, women want to solidify a family partnership earlier than men. This gives a power advantage to men and results in women being the more eager for marriage.Men can play around throughout their thirties, knowing that they still have a chance to reproduce if their current relationship doesn't work out. Women who spend their thirties with a man want to stop playing and get married because they might not have time to establish another serious relationship before conception becomes difficult.Of course, there are also societal reasons that compound the power dynamics that results from this biological reality. Women want a wedding more than men.The wedding industrial complex is targeted at women and girls. Men's wedding attire is classy but standard. Tuxedos have little variety, and there are other occasions to wear them. Wedding dresses, on the other hand, are magnificent:Bridal gowns are masterful pieces of art. From a very young age, girls dream of the day when they will be a beautiful bride, not only because these dresses are truly stupendous but also because girls are socialized to decorate themselves in a way that boys are not. Women so desperately want to wear a white dress that they'll put themselves through the torture of wedding planning.There is also some cultural holdover from the days when women felt marriage necessary for financial security. Women now hold their own in the workforce, but the cultural idea remains that a woman needs to marry - older bachelors (who are referred to as "confirmed bachelors" or even "playboys") are regarded much better than older bachelorettes (who are tragic according to Sex and the City and Bridget Jones's Diary and are even less kindly called "spinsters").