How come when white boys date interracially?
how come whenever white american boys/guys or any white guys of european descent interracially date it's mostly with asian girls or black girls and not alot with latina/hispanic girls ex (mexican, puerterican, cuban, dominican, venzuelean, chiliean, argentina, el salvador, ecudor, columbian etc) latin?
Interracial Dating?
What do people think of black girls interraicially dating with hispanic guys, and caucasian guys? Are there any guys out there that actually interracially date black girls? I'm black. And I've found myself more attracted to hispanic or white guys. what do you guys think?
What do black girls think of black guys dating white girls?
I agree with Alexandria. What I've noticed is most whites simply do not understand some of the dynamics at play among African Americans tied to our history as second-class citizens and slaves (how could you know? you have to be in the shoes of the person/people).So you do have a pool of black men who really want a white woman as a wife and mother of his children. Please don't get offended by my saying this; this is very true (though denied). And, what white women do not see is that this pool of men avoids black women. I don't know a black woman who hasn't experienced -- several times over --being blown off by a group of black guys at a bar/club and then witnessing them send over a round of drinks to a table of white girls who, in return, send them back (because they don't date black men). It happens all the time.What is sad is that black women lose twice: First, black women have almost no one to date, not even black men. Second, black women are now labeled as being really rude to nice white girls with black men, as having "attitudes" and having "issues."It's not about saying interracial love is wrong. That is exactly where we should be headed. But black women aren't wrong for having serious concerns about the trend if they clearly know that the trend is hurting, rather than helping them.
Interracial Dating and Relationships: Why do some white guys like Korean girls?
For many men around the world (and especially those who are aware of the "Korean Wave" http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kor...) the ladies of Korean pop group SNSD (Girl's Generation) represent an iconic ideal of beauty, cuteness, and sex appeal. In the words of a White male friend of mine, "Who can resist that sweet face...and those legs?" The Korean entertainment industry churns out singers, models, and actresses with this same type of appearance at an astoundingly fast rate, which might lead people to believe that all Korean girls look that way! I realize this is not about White men in particular, but that's because I don't believe there's really an explanation specific enough to that group.
Why do MOST white guys get angry over interracial relationships (BM-WF), while the women tend to not care?
I'm half white half black myself... It just seems like white guys get so defensive or jealous when it comes to a black guy wanting to date a white woman. It's like hypocracy a little bit... come up with the phrase "theres so many fish in the sea" but then when it comes to someone dating a white girl, all of a sudden, oh no thats wrong... Does anyone know what im saying? I have no problems getting girls of any race maybe because my skin is so light... but growing up mixed, i see through all the bullshit so easily. When you grow up mixed like me, you know that race doesn't matter.... Let's be honest, if you give me ONE mature, realistic, and non-extreme example where skin color mattered in a relationship, i'll give you props...
Why do white girls mostly prefer to date white guys?
It may just be a matter of numbers influencing whether people step outside their comfort zone, which from a very long-term perspective is just dating your own race. For most of human history, it was impossible to get with people of another race because they weren't in your village.White people are the majority of the US population. White women can date more than 50% of men if they only date white men.Asians are about 4% of the US population. Restricting dating to their own race would eliminate a huge number of people.It's also somewhat common for there to be just one, two, or three Asian families in a small town. In these small towns, most white people don't date Asians (I don't mean on principle but actually having the experience - there are just not enough non-whites to pull a significant amount of white people out of the I've-only-dated-my-own-race paradigm). The Asians in these towns, on the other hand, would probably have dated white people, just because that's what the options are.Additionally, in the small-town scenario describe above, there might be some pressure against Asians just dating Asians because it might be perceived as "cliquey" by classmates, or the Asian parents encourage their children to assimilate into the community. For the white people, there is no cliquey stigma because white people are just the majority.I think that probably it's not so much that the white girls you mention are unwilling to date outside their race but that they have no experience with it, and it's often easier to stay on the path you're set on than to grow as a person.
I have a question about black woman white man interracial dating?
I'm a black girl and I've actually had a few conversations about this with some of my female friends who are also black. First off, I wouldn't recommend dating someone just because it's a "trend". Date them because you like them. Secondly, when I was talking about this with some of my friends I found that it was sort of a touchy subject. One girl did feel like submitting to a white guy would be "disgracing the black race" and disrespecting our ancestors because of slavery, and the fact that many slave owners that forced themselves on black women. She even went as far as to make a vow to never lose her virginity to a white man (which I found out she kept). Personally, I think she was a bit too harsh. While I sort of see where she's coming from, I don't think it's fair the blame entire white race, as there are those who aren't racist and have nothing to do with with happened back then. Suffice it to say, we bumped heads a bit when I said that I wouldn't mind being submissive to a white guy and that actually, I'd really enjoy it. I've always been attracted to white men, and I've always been attracted to dominant men. The two together would be amazing. The problem I find though, is that most white guys I've encountered expect us to more dominant or they're too intimidated to even make a move. Confidence is sexy as hell when it comes to a guy and, to me, one of the key characteristics when it comes to a dominant partner-- but I guess with the whole interracial dating thing still being considered taboo, a little hesitation is inevitable. While there are many "strong, independent, black women" who like to be the dominant partner in the relationship, there are also many who enjoy being submissive. I'm one of them, and I know similar black women. Like with every other ethnicity, it really just depends on the girl and where she stands on the topic. You don't have to avoid black women, because you do have a shot. Out of the nine girls I spoke to, two had a problem with it-- the rest of us were okay with it. Hope I helped?
Interracial Dating and Relationships: Why do Asians, Black guys, and Latinos keep asking if white girls like them?
Some people view a romantic relationship with a white person as an achievement. White people sit at the top of the implicit racial hierarchy, making a white partner or spouse a status symbol and a sign of having “made it”, i.e, fully assimilating into and succeeding in Western society.As some of the other answers have mentioned, there’s also the issue of cultural hegemony; for example, the promotion of a Eurocentric beauty standard by the media. This isn’t quite as sinister as some people make it out to be — white people are, after all, the statistical majority in countries like the US, the UK, and Canada, where interracial relationships are relatively more common than in other parts of the world. Nevertheless, it contributes to an unbalanced view of race relations wherein the ability to “get” a white woman is seen as a measure of a man’s masculinity and desirability. Of course, some women who aren’t white also share the same mentality, but women’s approach to dating and relationships, interracial or otherwise, typically doesn’t intersect with the toxic ‘pick up artist’ culture.That being said, it isn’t acceptable to accuse individual ‘people of color’ with white partners of racial self-hatred, social climbing, and white-worship, accusations that are unfortunately far too common among ethnic minority communities, and are usually directed at women.
I am an Asian who prefers to date white girls. What do you think about it?
I think interracial love is beautiful and I hope one day race doesn't matter when dating.What I have honestly found, however, is many people bring race valuing to the table when dating. In other words, a man -- no matter his race -- will show through his actions that he sees blondes as worthy of the most effort, Asians as worthy of some effort and black women as worthy of the least and so on. Meanwhile, the women will have their own return valuing -- based on the actions of men towards them -- of what someone will have to do for them to "cross a line" (if they are open to crossing a line at all).In real life, for instance, I have had white female friends over the years see black and Asian men as an option only if those men treated them exceptionally well or only if those men were very wealthy or future athletes. So, as "minorities" I think we are wise to be observant of this. Watch actions, not words. If you are strong enough to deal with truth, you will see these patterns very clearly. When/if you happen to meet a great white person who is as attractive, smart, successful, wealthy, fit, kind, spiritual, etc., as you are and they make the same effort as people in your race who have those qualities and you like that person, I say then it's a non-issue. I strongly believe that THAT is when race is not a factor and that is when you are participating in a healthy interracial relationship based on love, respect and mutual valuing.