Should disabled men date date disabled women?
Disabled men should date women who they're compatible with, are attracted to and who feel the same way about them...just like everyone else does!
Would you date someone with a disability?
Bad guys are people with disablities!Bad guys....have bad intentions who spoil girls life....!They are manipulators,they boast about themselves,they make awesome stories...They will roam around with their fancy bikes and cars thinking that money will attract females,they will also touch women inappropriately......!Some Bratty girls do get attracted to these men thinking that they will offer security to them.But security and confidence are not prime pillars.A guy has an option to turn into Good or Bad.....Never blame society for such circumstances!Its just an excuse!Girls realize 'this' after they get engaged with them.......! One wrong decision will make your life go to hell...! Anyways One by one, they must all fall down into the greatest depths of hell and hell with burn with fire!
Why won't women date a man on disability?
As a disabled person, I have read many studies regarding this issue. Because most women date with a long-term relationship in mind while men tend to date primarily for “fun and sex” in the US, disabled women can more easily get dates but not long term relationships and disabled men have a harder time getting dates but an easier time getting long-term relationships is spite of having a more difficult time getting a date. Women decide very early on if an obvious hurdle to long-term relationship exists and simply refuse the first date after the determination has been made.Women are still the primary person responsible for the house as well as the emotional “caretaking” and they carry financial responsibility as well. Even “healthy” men do not typically share half the “work” of the relationship and the lives of the people involved. If the disabled man can overcome the initial concern that a long-term relationship with him will not be significantly more unbalanced than even the typical relationship, the women will date him and if she becomes emotionally involved she will not care about the disability. If you want dates, you must be support equal distribution of the “work” . If you are unable to perform some household tasks make it clear you will “make up the slack” in other areas because women want equal partners and they are measuring you to see if you can be an equal partner from the very beginning. On the other hand, a disabled woman only needs to be “fun” and able to have sex to get dates BUT they will not typically be considered “marriage material” with that determination not made until after many dates. In conclusion, women will make a determination very early on as to whether the disability is deal breaker, usually before the first date but the man will date for a while before he considers if the disability status is a deal breaker.The odds of a disabled man finding a long-term relationship are declining (it has always been much higher than the odds for a disabled women) and the odds for a disabled women finding a long-term relationship are increasing.When you want to ask a women on a date, you must manage to “telegraph” that you can maintain a household and emotionally care for a women to eliminate any concerns that she will going on a date with someone not “marriage material” due to old stereotypes of male/female roles.
Does not wanting to date a disabled man make me a bad person?
It means you are honest with yourself, probably much more honest than I was when I was in your situation.One of my old friends has muscular dystrophy. He walked with a pronounced limp, and visibly struggled with fine motor skills, but also took joy in pushing himself to the limit by running, jumping and joining a Live Action Role Play group (LARP). Mentally he was brilliant, and I’m attracted to brilliance in both my friends and partners. So I genuinely liked being around him, and found parts of him I did find attractive and thus was in a very similar situation. Wondering what it would be like, and then being reminded that I couldn’t cope like that…I like rough physical activites like hiking and swimming, want to travel and would want a healthy partner I would reasonably expect to live as long as I did. He couldn’t provide that for me.However He did like me, and even asked me out, giving me gifts and such.I was a fool. I never turned him down in fear of him not wanting to be my friend, or getting the idea that nobody would want him because of his disability. This kept going with me never saying yes, but never saying no, just dancing around the topic and leaving him with the hope that it could happen. It came to a conclusion when he tried to ask me out, I agreed to go, and then completely forgot about it. This meant that my poor friend literally sat in a suit and tie (yeah he appearently got all dressed up), and sat alone in a resturant, waiting for a girl who would never come.If I ever had one major regret…it is this memory. The memory of forgetting, of remembering only after I saw him the next school day, and then of him slowly turning everything good I ever had against me. I’m not saying that he was a bad person, but this was highschool and everything came with drama that had a ripple effect, and it all could have been prevented by telling him how I really felt.So talk to the guy, let him know that you can be his friend, that you enjoy his personality/want to hang out…but that it would only ever be in the pretext of friendship. You can learn from my mistake. It’s time that we, as humans, can be honest.
Would you date a girl with physical disabilities?
My answer would be a Yes.I'd like to date a person who is physically disabled, if I have a chance.It was last year, I was at work and during lunch hours , I saw a beautiful girl sitting opposite to me in cafetaria. I was conversing with my colleague and happened to stare at her, gulp my food ( not in the literal sense of gawking her, however). I was observing few things, like everyone around her were being extra nice , by getting what she had ordered and a glass of water to her etc, I couldn't understand firstly about the attention she was getting. I moved my chair and looked over my peer's shoulder to realize that she didnt have her left hand. She did give me a stare and she realized that I was observing her from a while now during her lunch. I must tell you, she was the most beautiful girl I've ever come across, every minute details I felt really attractive about her, even a small bindi on her forehead shining like a star from the cafe window's sunlight. I felt for the first time, a girl being most approachable with every stare. Too bad, I was surrounded by 50-100 people in cafe and thought it would be indecent to go talk to her, because its my work place. I really wanted to know her more, so I waited literally near the soiled plates section, to see if she comes alone and I can say a 'Hi' perhaps. But I didn't get a chance to see her again. I lost her somehow in the crowd. I never saw her again.I regret for not approaching her and I lost my chance then. At least her name would do, I can look up through our employee database and find ways to approach her next time :)
Why won't people date disabled people?
Hey, I'm feeling a little down today. I'm a 21 year old female, only had 1 serious relationship during my teenage years but since I left school and college, I can't seem to date and if I do show a interest in a man I turn invisible and get rejected because of the wheelchair issue :( I don't have a sever disability, I have spina bifida and I'm fairly independent, what advice would you give and how not to feel so depressed over it? I feel I'm going to be single forever and never going to meet that special someone who will see past my disability and love me for me.
Do women like men who are disabled?
It doesn't matter who is disabled and who isn't. Those that aren't disabled, tend to be shallow, until they themselves or someone close to them becomes disabled. Just remember that one day, the ones' that aren't disabled, could become disabled. It would be an unfortunate way for them to learn to be nice to disabled individuals.