Who is the BIGGEST loser you've ever met in your entire life?
Way to go Kenny... I'd like him to meet my cousin Chris. He's forty-somethng, lives with his (and my) grandmother. Has NEVER paid her a single penny's worth of rent.... or other means of his own upkeep. She asks him to help her (she's 85 now) to start the lawn mower. He won't bother himself to come out of his room. His favorite reply, "Not my yard... not my car... not my ... you fill in the blank. He has a job now and then.... but nothing steady. And they typically don't last very long. The rest of the family is literally purple-faced with anger because she won't throw him out. "He's my grandson!" No, Gran, he's a blood sucking leach! 30 years he has lived there.... 30 YEARS! Even if he had only paid $600 a month in rent... thats OVER $200,000! Ohhh...he makes me sick.
What teacher has made a lasting impression on you?
I had a professor in college who taught probably hundreds of students. She knew everybody by name!She was walking by me one day on campus and my name didn’t come to her right away. I had to stand there until she recalled my name! And she did remember it.What I learned was that addressing someone by their name rather than you, is more courteous and respectful to that person. And it’s more meaningful to them that you remembered. It shows that you care about them.My question has always been how did she do that?
Do You Think I Made A Good Impression?
There was a chic i met at drill in may and we always talked n bullshited and stuff but last night was the first time we chilled outside drill and on base ok we met at this reasuate thats like from the 50's it was real good food but a lil pricey that wasnt to bad i paid then we walked around the historical district downtown for about an hour talked to whole time and every time i looked at her she had a smile on her face so do u think i had an good impression on her Ladies opinion
Can you describe the biggest change you have made in your life?
Yes, i have made one !I am the sort of person who always loved everyone to make them feel loved and make myself feel helpful. Never had any boyfriends. And suddenly someone came to my life. The point is, being in love wasn’t the biggest change that happened to me. But, loving someone who changed my life and gave me reasons to love myself and find good things inside me was the biggest change of my life. And the most amazing thing was, i was his choice .. and i never thought about it. All i understand is, to be in a relationship .. to tell someone that you love them is very easy. Takes few mins to gather guts, but .. when you make your loved person feel all the real things of his/her life, and those realizations and experiences that goes above heaven. And that made me change so much, that nowadays i feel my life very much, i feel like there is actually so much life despite of inhaling those oxygens and exhaling those carbon dioxides.Love changes people. Never blame love. It’s always the person you choose. It’s your choice for which things happen. Blame your choice !Love,Rimmi ♥
What is your biggest achievement in life that changed your entire world?
To share my personl experience bout the above asked question, one might say I'm being silly or so but for me it means a lot.So, I'm a 21 years old girl and to pin point, the youngest in my family. Pampered by every other person in my family be it my parents my relatives my cousins or my brothers and sisters.Being the youngest and the most pampered child in the family, though being 21, i havent travelled alone or to say i wasn't ever able to. Ther was always someone to pick me and drop me off or go places along with me. I was and have always been carried along with someone and never been left on my own.So, one day as i was very upset due to a fight with my boyfriend, i wanted to do something for myself and leave that particular place where i was. So i planned to head towards pragati maidan where the annual book fair was taking place. Its almost an hour away from my home. So i simply got out, boared a metro and bought the tickets for myself and simply enjoyed the fair.For many it might not be a big deal but for me it was. It made me feel happy that yes i am not relied on any other human being. It made me feel independent. It gave me courage that yes i can do stuff on my own.It was good knowing that i dont need to take care and look for someone or maybe not being looked after by someone.It felt good that yes i am no one's responsibility for that moment but mine.And that was the day which chamged my whole world and my perspective to look at things.
Is life all about impressing one or the other?
Life is all about making your impressions to the world.You cannot live with same impression about anything or anyone for your entire life.People change, situations change and eventually your impressions and perspective change.Never care about what people think about you and don’t judge anyone.All the best!!
The biggest mistake you've ever made in your life?
Staying with my ex for as long as I did. He was very abusive and forced me to have a miscarriage while I was carrying his child (he through me through a glass door) I know that everything happens for a reason though
What is the biggest change you have made in your life in the last year?
I have stopped to overthink situations. Just creating situations in our mind which may never happen was my habit. If I had said something to someone, what must that person be thinking? Retyping texts multiple times, just to not make it look odd. What people might think about me, had such a huge impact on me, that I forgot what my own choices were. I was too obsessed with what others thought of me. That made me so unhappy, depressed and frustrated every single time I had a human interaction. This year I tried improving that.I value my own thoughts first. Let people have their opinion. It's tough but gradually I am more free and a little happier. Not soooo afraid of going out, maybe.Managing my anger. It so happened that I used to snap at every silly thing, maybe not even analysing the situation properly. My behavior lead to a lot of problems, probably my break-up too. She wasn't able to handle my attitude. Not her fault. After all, without any reason it's pointless to react. Right?I tried to control and eat up my emotions. I am pretty good at this with other emotions, except anger. So I tried to listen to what the other person's perspective is, before diving into a conclusion and throwing everything off the table. A proper conversation has helped to dissolve many conflicts that may have risen in those situations, and I am glad I am making some progress slowly.I wouldn't say everything is all right now, but in a positive direction maybe.