What do you do when no one in your life really cares about you?
It doesn't matter that they don’t care, move on with your life. It’s very simple. Anyone who doesn’t care about you is not worth your time. Do not spend an extra second even thinking about him or her, regardless of whomever they may be.If you still feel like you should do something, my advice is to be a total asshole when dealing with them. Some ideas:Look at your phone when they are talking to you and start browsing the Internet. Laugh loudly a few times.Ask them to repeat what they said, several times, even if you heard them. Pretend not to listen. Then shrug it all off.Dismiss everything they say as silly and unimportant. Say things like “Oh we don’t have to worry about that.”Make them feel self-conscious. Keep staring in the general direction of their hair when they talk. Look really disgusted, then look away.If this seems like too much work, observe this picture, study it, practice in front of a mirror and use this expression every time you see them.Good luck!
Is saying 'no one cares' really rude?
Hi, everyone seems to say 'no one cares' these days and if someone has news at school, someone will say 'no one cares.' is it always rude? It seems pretty damn rude, but is it rude to state that you don't care? I've never said it, I have had it said to me though. Like I would say something about myself like 'I love that song' and someone would say 'no one cares.' are they in the wrong or me? Like is it rude of the person saying the news for being boastful and the people saying 'no one cares' are totally justified? What do you think? Xx
At what point did you realize no one cares about you?
I thought everyone around me was with me only for who I was. But I was hit hard with the reality only at the end of my college life.I always kept myself open to anybody and everybody. I try to help others with their problems.I thought people really liked being around me. Only later I found out that everyone used me and no one was ever real to me.All the people you meet at the age between 18–25 are fake. Only those who are with you from the childhood will be always there for you.In such a competitive and selfish environment, everyone will try hard to pull you down for their own well being. I learnt it the hard way.No phone calls.There was no messages in the everbusy WhatsApp group,it was not even a week after the final exams of my college had ended. Everyone bid farewell and exchanged good byes. Everyone parted their own ways.Things were entirely different back during the beginning. The groups were buzzing. No day will end without a phone call from the so called BFFs. During college days I was the go-to boy for everyone. Need notes?? contact me. Need new movies??contact me. Group studies?? Contact me. Need money?? Contact me. I always tried to help others within my capacity. I am like the clown who people enjoys during performance but later gives a damn. I have only faced betrayal from them.Not even a single person has messaged me since then.I thought they cared for me. But they really used me.The friendship you think which will continue till the end of your lives will end along with your college life.Everyone has their own life to look after. No one will be ready to spend time for you. Everyone will be busy when you need them.No one ever checked on me about my well being. Only if they need anything, they will message me.Only at this point,I learnt that no one really cared about me,but rather faked their feelings.So never believe anybody other than parents in your life. Only they care for you truly from their heart. The rest are like passing clouds.The worst thing in life is not ending up alone.But ending up with people who make you feel alone.
What do you tell someone who says no one cares about them?
ive been talking to this guy and he and his girlfriend are going thru a rough time. he says that if she breaks up with him he literally is going to die because no one else cares about him. i told him i do and he says its nice to know someone does. what should i say to him. i dont want him to kill himself
Its my birthday and no one cares....?
Jess, You are correct: You are over-reacting and being dumb. Birthdays are only a reminder of our own ultimate mortality. I'm guessing that you're probably at an age where Death is no longer a distant thought, but a dark speck on the horizon. Your family, friends and husband all probably realize this. They thought, "Let's buy her a watch or a clock." But then someone probably said, "No. The ticking will only remind her that she's running out of time...(sob)...we're all running out of time." And then something good came on TV, like a Burger King commercial, and they dismissed all further notions concerning you. Birthdays are only important to the people that are having them. Unless alcohol and nudity is involved. Which is less often than most of us would probably like. So, you're right in one regard: No one cares... That's the awful sad truth about Life. No one ever cares. For example, today is my birthday. No one bothered to get me a cake or a stripper. Not even a tiny one. Not even a cupcake and a midget. My parents orphaned me on my first birthday. I know they did it on purpose; that they didn't want to celebrate anymore with me. The novelty of them had passed. I have no siblings and my dog got run over by a drunk driver this morning. I know I shouldn't have been buzzed while behind the wheel, but if that dumb mutt hadn't looked at me like that, he'd still be alive right now, instead of in a garbage in my trunk... Did I mention I found a gray hair this morning? I didn't? Well, I did (find a gray hair this morning). And it wasn't on my head. There's also a mole on my back that keeps talking to me. Not in English, which would make it easier. But in Spanish. And I flunked Spanish in high school... But, no one cares about that. It's someone else's birthday today. Even though it's really mine and I was probably here first. But, whatever... Happy birthday. Did you get any presents? I didn't.
I feel like no one cares about me ,social media only cares about beauty how do I fit in?
If the only people your reaching out to are on social media, your correct that their vane and shallow. Therefore your experiencing the emptyness of isolation. Your correct they don’t care about you because they’ve never met you.Instead of making social media your world why not exist in real life? If you want people to care about you then you should be where real humans exist…not in cyber space that’s beaming itself from outer space.If you “…want to fit in,”…Ha! ... you never said where you we’re at? Where where you trying to fit in at? Does this place exist? Where you ever really there? You never said you went there to fit in…where is it at?They never met you…did they? How can you fit in with people you’ve never met?
What is a good comeback for "no one cares"?
This is something I rarely hear these days. I do hear “who cares” which is fairly easy to answer.Perhaps the mostPractical answer would be:True, how can we change that?The reason this is good is because it starts with agreement and is followed by an open question. If their statement is hollow - such as just an expresssion of frustration - they will not follow through. If it is a genuine social observation they will want to answer your question with further dialogue.I am unsure if this is where you were going with the question or not. I hope it helped.Alan.
I care about everyone but no one cares about me. What do I do?
Today I was in my creative writing class.The assignment was that we were to read from our professors’ collection of poetry—a deeply personal set of poems. Some of them address abuse and death among other topics both grim and light.We were also asked to write a poem inspired by one of hers.Many people responded to her more depressing work, so throughout the class we were learning much about the individual poets through their telling of their past traumas. Someone even broke down crying during class while reading their work.Everybody was really supportive of each other and the professor told us that this happens quite often in her class: people share their stories, touch other people’s lives, and support one another on their individual journeys.Our professor told us that sometimes people approach her at the end of the semester and tell her how powerful it was to hear somebody else address their personal demons and traumas.She summed up these experiences quite simply: “you touch peoples lives, you just don’t realize!”We often underestimate how much we mean to other people. We often underestimate how much we help others.I appreciated the woman who read her poem and cried in class because I saw myself in her.I once read a script I wrote to a class and nearly started crying. I summoned great strength to avoid doing so, and it worked, but the urge was nearly overwhelming.Presenting my work makes me anxious, and presenting work that is specifically related to personal events, makes me really anxious. Seeing that other people feel the same way makes me feel a part of the community of humanity.I feel connected.And I have that woman, who I’ve never spoken to, to thank for this today. And she doesn’t even know I feel this way because I forgot to thank her in person.She doesn’t realize, but she touched a life.That woman is me and you too. It is highly likely that you’ve touched a life.Keep putting yourself out there and doing things to help other people.
How does it feel when no one cares for you?
Dark, but you make small happy moments when you start feeling your independent. Ontop of the world because, you become proud of the person you are, no one can think like you, no one is as strong as you, no one can lift you up better then you. Till you get that longing for connection, buts it's not there. So you pay for it, because people associate money with time you work, for money. So the time you spend must equate to the same value as money, wrong.But to turn on a bright note. There are hotlines for extreme purposes, or hit up an old folks home and volunteer. Fixate your mind on helping other people, not people with your same problemas you or jealously might ensue if they get better aND you don't, or they fake it better then you do. Attain that inner Joy of joking, laughing, passion that's attained from enjoying what your doing. And realising an hour has past, when you thought only couple mins have. Easier said then done, first you need to motivate yourself out of the Rut, that is a personal battle on its own. Find a routine.. and aND stick to it for a day, for a week, for months. Till your ready to introduce that professional third party into that routine ; career development, therapy, volunteering, or something you've done before that's a manageable stress. Not a new stress, that can bring on new butterflies.