My friends mom died?!?!?
My friends mom died today! Weve been good friends since the 1st grade and now her moms dead! I feel so bad for her! She was really close to her mom since she was the only girl in her family and she doesnt really like her dad too much. Her mom was soo nice too! She used ot take us out to eat durring lucnh and my mom used to always talk to her durring swim meets and tennis matches. I just cant believe she died! Shes been back and fourth in the hospital since Spring break but my friend didnt think it was too serious till this past week they had to put her back in the hospital and marked her down as terminal yesterday. I feel so bad for my friend and confused too. Its going to be pretty hard for my friend; shes only 13. Ive talked to her today for a little but but I decided to give her some space. what should I do to make her feel better?!
What should I say to a friend whose mother has died?
First, I have to say "good for you" that you are going to use the phone and not email. I am horrified when people use email to inform others of someone's death and/or to respond. I had to get that said.When someone dies, we are always sorry regardless of how well we knew the person or what we thought of him or her. So, that is what you say: "I am so sorry to hear that your mom died."Next, we want our friend to know that we care. So, that is what you say: "f there is anything at all that I can do for you or the family, you will ask me, won't you?"Most people want to empathize with how painful this is for their friend. So, go ahead and say it: "I am sure you are really hurting OR this is just the hardest thing OR I know it's going to be tough going on without your mom's love to support you."When we have known the person well enough -- say in this case, your friend's mom had you over for dinner countless times or treated you like you were a part of the family -- we say something about how important they were to us. So, go ahead and say it: "I just loved your mom. She had such a wicked sense of humour. I am really going to miss her."Lastly, avoid platitudes. They are as empty as the thought that went into them. No, never, not at all say thing like these: I'm sure she's in a better place or she is at peace now or at least the suffering is over. further, the only appropriate occasion to mention anything religious or spiritual is when you attended the same church or shared the same faith. If not, stay off the subject.In short, the most important things to say are the simple, heartfelt things. Trust me. Those are the words that mean everything.It is nice that you want to be thoughtful about this. You must be a kind and caring person.
I was at the pool with my mom, my mom's friends and my friends and she bare butt spanked me.?
She shouldn't have done that in front of all those people. She should have pulled you aside and told you how that made her feel, but you shouldn't have disrespected her like that. I agree 16 is too old for spankings especially if they have never done that before.
I hate my mom's friend!!!!!!!!!!! Advice?
My mom made this new friend, lets call her Dot. When Dot came to my house for the first time ever, she sat down with my mom and grandparents and had tea together. I was in my room studying for a test on Monday. Anyhow, my mom came into my room about 2 hours later and told me to say "Hi" to Dot. So I got up and went into the living room (where she was). On the way there, I heard her say my name, so I stopped and listened. I heard her say, "Your daughter is not disciplined enough. I do not think that she has depression, she is just being selfish and demanding. She is using depression as a excuse to get what she wants." I didn't listen to the rest of the conversation because I ran into my room crying and started to slice my wrists. :'( 1) Dot never even met me. 2) She doesn't know my horrible childhood and personal problems. 3) Who gives her the right to judge a 13 year old girl that she NEVER MET?! Oh, and during that time, my mom was in the bathroom, so she never heard the conversation. Whenever Dot comes to my house, my grandparents treats her politely, but also somewhat coldly. Any advice? That fact that I tried to kill myself because of Dot is serious, right? My counselor knows about this btw.
I had sex with my best friend's mom (who's married). HELP?!?
This isn't trolling. I'm in a horrible, HORRIBLE mess, and I need advice quick... We've been friends for 7 years, we are like brothers (I'm 19 so is he). But his mom is hot and always thought she was. Anyway...on Monday nights we make it a regimen to watch a game over at his house. So yesterday I went over as normal, but my friend had to work that night which he never does, and his dad was at his usual night shift. So it was just me and her alone, which was kind of awkward at first,,Anyway, I just sprawled in the living room waiting for him to get home, and his mom sat in the living room with me. She went on how such a good friend i am to her son, how she loves having me over, and she complimented my body definition (I weight lift). Before we knew it our conversations got more intimate, and next thing I knew we were in her bed having sex, her servicing my tool, me taking advantage of her body, etc. Now that it's over, the guilt is settling in...and it's hitting me like a thousand knives. I feel like I betrayed my best friend. I DID betray him. And what's worse is she's been married for 18 years, so I really pulled a total douchebag move in this case. I can't tell him or else our friendship will be gone for good...,and he and his dad will kill me. After the sex was over me and her agreed this would stay between us. My conscience is weighing on me...WHAT SHOULD I DO in a situation like this?! Help?
What should I do if my best friend’s mom hates me?
Have some self-respect for yourself. You should never take the blames for things which you are not.It often happens that mothers can’t see how crooked their kids themselves are and judge outside influence for the sorry state.It’s her problem and not yours so I don’t think you need to prove anything.Do you need to break friendship? Most probably not but you should also ensure that you are not carrying any blame for the sake of friendship.Friendship is pure and lovely and out of world experience but it should also not be blindly misused. If it is taking you down or breaking your self respect, maybe you need to stand up for yourself.Sometime being selfish is wise. Let his mother sort out her own problems. You don’t have to prove anything.
My best friend's mom doesn't like me?
I have the same problem. It's truly frustrating, I know. Just be nice. Don't give her any reason to dis-like you. (wearing revealing clothes, foul language yadda-yadda) just be nice and if it doesn't get better then you know who cares its not like your trying to be bff with her, its just ur best friends mom not the biggest problem in the world right.