Sometimes I wish I was ugly?
Don't get me wrong. It's not like I'm super duper attractive or anything. I'm a little above average I guess but I hate the way guys stare at me sometimes like they want to own me. They constantly find excuses to touch me (by poking me and patting me on the back and putting their arm around me and trying to hug me but it makes me feel really uncomfortable and I tell them to stop). There's this guy I've known for a while now and he keeps asking me for a hug but I don't feel comfortable giving him one so I tell him no. Everyday he has his arms out and keeps on asking me. I don't want to be a ***** to him but he doesn't get the point. Today I guess he got fed up and just forced a hug on me while I was trying to get away. Maybe he thought I was being hard to get or that we were playing or something but this was definitely not the case. I felt sort of violated and now I resent him. I feel like this wouldn't have happened if I was uglier. Is this normal? Have any of you ever felt this way?
Why am I only sometimes ugly?
I look in the mirror for a large portion on my days -- I have certain mirrors and times a day I look better in. In the morning, I look best in the downstairs dining room mirror, and at night, I look best in my dad's room. When I look at the close-up mirror in my dad's car without the bright light, I look absolutely amazing, but when I turn the light on I look so hideous! I look just decent in my room, it doesn't matter what time of day it is. I get how lighting effects your appearance, but I'm having a sort of identity crisis. I'm craving to know what I actually look like! I get compliments sometimes, but I have been called ugly three times in the last three years. (I don't take criticism well)
Why do i look ugly sometimes?
everyone has bad days and good days
Sometimes I feel pretty, sometimes I feel ugly?
It’s perfectly normal. Even guys experience it. I have times when I feel pretty, then other times when I don’t. I solve this problem by doing a really good workout and maybe some yoga, eating a nutritious meal (sometimes when you don’t exercise and eat a little healthier you tend to feel a little down on yourself) taking a long hot bath, actually taking my time to properly shave my legs instead of rushing, putting on a really good smelling lotion, putting on a really good face mask, and waxing my eye brows. This may seem weird, but nothing makes you feel prettier than dedicating a few hours to just pamper yourself. I’m the kind of person that doesn’t feel good unless my hair, nails, skin, and clothes look nice. Oh and if your into getting tan, go to a tanning salon. The beds are extremely relaxing (Not the booths because you have to stand up and I have an expresso tanning lotion that is very relaxing) Hoped this helped and no, I am not superficial but I really love to look and feel nice. Nothing wrong with that is there?
Why do i feel like im ugly sometimes but handsome sometimes...?
i hate this shift. ill look in the mirror and think im good looking then i might look in a different mirror and think im ugly.. why does this happen am i really ugly? especially when i have pimples i just feel 10 times uglier
Why do ugly girls sometimes appear much hotter?
Ok 5 things offhand.Makeup - seriously when done up, you wouldn't believe what almost every woman is hiding.Clothes designed to shape the body, or outright lie to you. Butt padding, push up bras, all sorts of devices.Camera angles. See celebs without makeup, omg brutal on the eyes usually.Your hunger level, believe it or not, you probably go for bigger girls when you need a cheeseburger.That thing that guys have, the pointer that does the driving. Yeah it's busy sapping your blood flow, and releasing hormones to help interfere with all the rational thought that would make you realize any of this, or how potentially insane she might be.
Why do I think I look decent sometimes, but other times I just feel like ugly trash? Is anyone else like that?
I thought that should have been obvious. Even the best people I know have their own ups and downs.Sometimes it's a fashion choice mistake. Sometimes they are sick so they just don't look good. Sometimes the world just hit them with depression so they are uncaring of their look. Sometimes they are stressed out so they binge eating to the point the skin gets oilier than usual, they get indigestion, the skin breaks out, etc.So yeah.. these people usually look fine/decent but they have days where they are just not.. nice to look at.. as well.I don't know how they are feeling inside at that moment but I definitely feel ugly a lot when that happens.As for the why, well… because it's probably the truth. Still, be kind to yourself. Accept the situation and move on. There's more to life than just one's look.