Why am I so emotionless and careless now?
You are numb from Typical American Diet and Lifestyle. I'm guessing youre also in your teens, a time when there are many normal (sometimes abnormally compounded into more detrimental) factors to increase likelyhood of depression. These would be hormones, peer pressures, new influences coming from every direction, maybe substance use. You could try meditation/breathing exercises, it's amazing how easy it is to breathe improperly and how just breathing right can improve so many things in your being. If not actual exercises, try to once a day, just take 3 slow, deep breathes. http://www.bcbsnc.com/assets/common/pdfs/Stress_Management_Belly_Breathing_U2979a.pdf video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H5H_Qrcmxdg I would say the in summary the best 3 things you could do are : 1/ eating a healthy, whole foods, nutrient dense diet 2/ take a good quality multi vitamin 3/ exercise
Why am I starting to get careless about everything?
Where I used to live I was very happy. I had good grades,great friends,good relationship with my family,and happy. Ever since I moved from Las vegas to Miami, Ive been so careless about everything. Im starting to not go to school,when back where I used to live I would try to never miss a day. Im not what I used to be anymore, which was very outgoing,careful,talkative,creative. Now that I moved everything was a big change and now its turned me into a careless lazy person. All I want to do is stay in my room and listen to music, but if this was Las vegas I would most likely be out doing something. I really don't know what to do anymore, even my parents changed. I don't get to talk to them like I used to anymore. Now Im very independent. What should I do about my carelesness and music crave?
Why are Americans so stuck up and careless?
Some people have this attitude of "It's not affecting me so i don't care," like really? Where's your humanity? And it's not just for the children in Africa, it's for children all over the world who are poverty stricken and they don't have food. And it's not like they got to choose how their life would turn out or where they wanted to live. No one had a choice. For the kids in Uganda, I just don't understand how people can have such an apathetic attitude towards that, like they can't even be moved. You don't have to donate money. How someone can be so heartless can't even get past my brain. I would imagine, if my child got taken away from me & got abducted and raped, i would make sure that the person who did that to my child would get murdered. And to think that people our age are going through that, imagine how depressed they feel. They don't have family members. They're alone. They're poor. It's not just America that should do this, but other countries too. Maybe if this movement succeeds, the world can cooperate better...more awareness in other countries. BTW Why are most of the people above me getting mad that they were called stuck up? If you're not by any means affected by the video, then obviously there's something wrong with your compassion. If you had to get offended, that means there was some hint of truth in it.
I feel like I am heartless. Why is that so?
You’re posting this question on Quora. That means you are alive, that means your heart is working fine and that implies you are not heartless.Emotionless, you can say this. You lack emotions, and that is pretty normal as I think. Bad experiences and incidents can sometimes make you emotionless. You stop caring about people, or even if you care you stop yourself from showing it because of the insecurity of losing a person and getting hurt. I have the same things with me.There are some good things and bad things associated with this emotionless nature. Even emotional people have ups and down because of their emotional nature.Positive Points:You don’t trust someone easily and take every step in life after a lot of thinking. This reduces the chances of getting hurt.With less emotional and attachment with more people, you can concentrate more on your life and live your life more independently.You can better take care of yourself you don’t have more people to take care of.Negative Points:You lose good friends because of trust issues. You lose people who really care for you.You can make people sad, because of your careless nature for them and almost almost every time you end up getting apart.Maintaining distance from everyone, you’ll feel lonely at the times you have something to share. You will have no one at that time.You can be depressed that can make you sad.So, instead of being an emotionless person, I always try to improve myself. Being emotional is human nature that is why we, humans, are called social animals. Yes, it is difficult for people like us to be normal again but yet possible. Try opening yourself to people who understand you, people you trust you.I am making improvements, hope you’ll too get out.
Whats the meaning of a careless whisper?
I feel so unsure, As I take your hand and lead you to the dance floor. As the music dies... Something in your eyes, Calls to mind a silver screen, And all those sad goodbyes. Chorus I'm never gonna dance again, Guilty feet have got no rhythm. Though it's easy to pretend, I know you're not a fool. I should have known better than to cheat a friend, And waste the chance that I'd been given. So I'm never gonna dance again, The way I danced with you. Chorus Time can never mend, The careless whispers of a good friend. To the heart and mind, If your answers kind... There's no comfort in the truth, Pain is all you'll find. Repeat chorus What am I without your love? Tonite the music seems so loud, I wish that we could lose the crowd. Maybe it's better this way, Wed hurt each other with the things we want to say. We could have been so good together, We could have made this dance forever... But now, whos gonna dance with me? Please stay. (Alternatively): And now it's never gonna be That way... Repeat chorus Now that you're gone... Now that you're gone... Now that you're gone... Was what I did so wrong? So wrong that you had to leave me alone? whats the maning of these lyrics?
Is it a bad thing to be forgetful or careless?
I'm really pretty careless and forgetful and sometimes it gets on my friends nerves. It's not that I have issues in school or with motivation or anything like that. It's more like a thought process, or personality trait. I've been like this for as long as I can remember, and I'm only 16. I will put something somewhere, and three seconds later, I won't know where it is, and usually I'll just move on. I never know the date, and lose track of time easily, but that's besides the point. My friends read in to it and take it as that I don't care about them, and that nothing in life really matters to me, and that nothing is important. When someone dies, or move away, I'm sad, but you know, life goes on. And I don't really get mad that often, I just kind of, let it go...completely, I forget it ever even happened, literally. Some people would say it was good to be able to forget, but is it really? I just do it to do it, and have fun, and move on. I know it sounds selfish, but I'm just wondering, if I'm the only one? Or if I should take efforts to change? I mean, I've tried, but it never really helps. I can't change who I am, but I wonder.... is it a bad thing to be forgetful or careless?
How come when I am too happy, I do careless things that come with consequences later?
It happens with everyone, maximum people think that when they get too happy something bad will happen as it is said from the very starting “ Jo Jada hasta hai vahi jada rota hai” “the one who laughs the most will cry the most” or something like this. Actually what happens is that when we are too happy we care less about other things, we don't want to focus on things which makes sad at that time and that what happens we care less about those things which we should be more careing , or we over think those things which effects us less but gets worse when we over think it again and again. It's not us it's just the situation which changes and sudden change from happiness to sadness makes us think that it's the consequences of being too happy, but we already know it will going to happen. And that's how people frame it “ being too happy leads to sadness”
Why have I become so careless and self righteous ?
All I can think about is the things people have done wrong to me and I can never forgive or forget. My Temper has increased so much I find myself losing it over the smallest things and things I used to feel sorry for I just dont see remourse as a feeling thats worth "feeling" I just hate what the worlds become around me and I dont trust anybody anymore I confide to myself and write music thats about it. I know my lifes sucked and parents abandoned me because of drugs. Theres a whole lot to it I dont have the time to explain on here but lately I realized how much ive changed. I only do things for my own gain I dont care about anybofy else's. I guess its the one part of me thats trying see the point of caring asking this question ? But to fix it I have to know why it started in the first place.
What do the lyrics of "Careless Whisper" mean?
Careless Whisper is about a guy that cheated on his girlfriend and a “good friend” told her. Through his guilt, he is determined not to love another again - the way he loved her.He then talks about it’s better that she found out this way because they would have said nasty things to each other if they broke up another way.He then sinks into a bit of self pity because he has found himself lonely and single.LyricsI feel so unsureAs I take your hand and lead you to the dance floorAs the music dies, something in your eyesCalls to mind the silver screenAnd all its sad good-byesI'm never gonna dance againGuilty feet have got no rhythmThough it's easy to pretendI know you're not a foolShould've known better than to cheat a friendAnd waste the chance that I've been givenSo I'm never gonna dance againThe way I danced with youTime can never mendThe careless whispers of a good friendTo the heart and mindIgnorance is kindThere's no comfort in the truthPain is all you'll findI'm never gonna dance againGuilty feet have got no rhythmThough it's easy to pretendI know you're not a foolI should've known better than to cheat a friendAnd waste the chance that I've been givenSo I'm never gonna dance againThe way I danced with youNever without your loveTonight the music seems so loudI wish that we could lose this crowdMaybe it's better this wayWe'd hurt each other with the things we'd want to sayWe could have been so good togetherWe could have lived this dance foreverBut no one's gonna dance with mePlease stayAnd I'm never gonna dance againGuilty feet have got no rhythmThough it's easy to pretendI know you're not a foolShould've known better than to cheat a friendAnd waste the chance that I've been givenSo I'm never gonna dance againThe way I danced with youNow that you're gone(Now that you're gone) What I did's so wrong, so wrongThat you had to leave me alone