Why Am I Scared To Punch Someone In The Face?
This has happend afew times! This guy hit me in the face... I took it & didn't hit back, he did it again an then threw another punch, An i should of kicked the **** out of him after the last one as it did hurt a little but i just walked away. I mean, i manage to stay calm in those situations (takes ALOT for me to get wound up) but i dont get why i dont just punch them back? i think i'm scared of what i;d do to them if i threw a punch? How can i get over this fear? I think i'm scared of getting in a fight more so cause when that adrenaline kicks in ino if i was to start hitting them i wouldn;t stop.
Why Am I Scared Of Hurting Someone In A Fight?
When someone wants a fight with me i start to panick an can feel the adrenaline kicking in pretty bad. I'm not a fighter atall tbh. But when it comes to a fight i'm not afraid of fighting because i might get hurt, I;m just scared of hurting them? I know that sounds stupid but why is this? I know i could really hurt someone if i was to have a fight but when that adrenaline kicks in an if i was to hit someone i wouldn't be able to control myself an i'd just skits.
Someone scared me and now I have chest pain, am I hurt?
PANIC ATTACK!
Im scared that i might go crazy or hurt someone?
Im 17 years old and im terrified. Ive always been a nice kid or people have told me i have. Lately Ive been so confused i started have anxsious(sorry i suck at spelling) thoughts everyday. It started fear of being homosexual(I have nothing against homosexual people I just was scared that i was one) I got over that and now theres a fear that i might be going crazy or im scyso and I might hurt someone a lot of thoughts that pop into my head i have to double check out of fear that I might start hearing stuff and things like that just last night i read a quote that basically states that "We need to learn from nine elven" and then i become scared that i might blow up a building to make people come together like after nine eleven. Let me be clear i would kill myself before i every did to anyone else. Not to label but im a pot smoking hippie i dont wont to be violent. I dont think im scyso might be anxiety but im so scared I havent heard voices or seen stuff yet but I just want to find some peace in my life. Any help would be nice it would be really cool if a pychatrist answered but anyones welcome. Thank you and peace love and happiness to you.
Why Am I Scared To Pysically Fight?
I know i could really kick the shitt out of someone if i where to fight back but even if i get hit first i'm scared to hit them back, why's this? I mean, the other night i was out partying minding my own buisness an this guy came over an punched me in the face... i didn't hurt so i just walked away. Seen him again in another club later on an he hit me again.... i still did nothing, but then he cracked me on the corner of my eye (got a massive black eye) so he got thrown out of the club. I later wnt out side for a smoke, an he came over to me + about 25 of his mates were all starting on me, i thought what was the point. I wouldn't of been able to do out anyways as it was me on my own against all of them. I think i can take a good few punches of people an it doesnt bother me (dunno if thats a good thing?) but im more scared about hitting them... whys this?
Whats a good song for someone who is too scared of getting hurt to love someone?
Im absolutely in love with this guy but im so afraid of the day that its going to fail/ end and that he doesnt really love me. Im afraid of being vulnerable and feeling that pain of loving someone who is going to leave you. Anyone have any good song suggestions??
Are "I am not ready" and "I am scared of hurting you" only excuses?
It doesn’t matter.When someone says these words to you it shows their intent. It shows where they stand and that means, for me, “I am moving on. Have a nice life.”Therefore, I won’t care why.I won’t care if that is love because love is not enough. I wish people get with it and grow up and stop making love as the saviour.It doesn’t do shit on it’s own.Love is not enough.People have challenges, fears, insecurities, and a whole lot of issues and therefore, if they are unwilling to overcome these, love isn’t going to do jack. That means, the person may love someone but they are unwilling to go through a certain pain, or challenge, or whatever to be with the person.If the pain, discomfort is greater than the pleasure, the desire to be with the person then they will say anything to avoid being with the person. They won’t say no because they are avoiding conflict and awkwardiness.So they come out with all these “busy, not sure, I don’t know, not ready, don’t want to get you hurt.”Which is all a load of bollocks because they are the ones who don’t want to get hurt, scared and really not into the person to be with them.They have shown their true intent no matter what it means.So you move on.If it’s not a FUCK YES then it’s a no.There is then no need to look for why, how come, what if, but..this and that. They have shown their intent.It should be then you have boundaries and standards.If I hear no, but, I can’t, I am not ready, I’m scared of hurting you, blah blah, and it is not a YES 100%, then I don’t care why.I found out what I need to know and say bye, bye and move on.
Why are guys scared getting "hurt"?
He is scared shiteless of women and he uses alcohol to overcome that which is not a good thing for him.. If you really want to help him then you might try to force the issue with him or you cuold get him to relax by doing something he likes. but in the end it will always come back to him being shy and it will be up to you to make the first move. Be careful though because if he resists then it could get ugly.. I would tell you how to help him but im not sure it is the best way to help him.. Take him back to your place or his and just get to know him better, i dunno =/ Only do this if you trust him that much though or if you dont know him well enough to be alone with him then bring a friend along too. Have some fun ^_^ Once you get him past the shy point he will get better. Just gotta get that shyness out of him. All the best to you Pat
Why am I scared of meeting classmates in public?
Well, my town is pretty small and everytime I go into public, like outside of school and I see someone from my class or my school (unplanned) I instantly get nauceious and have to get out of the place or hide somewhere. Even if I am friends with that person, I just have this stupid fear of seeing someone I know outside of school. Do you know why that may be? And what can I do about it?
I get scared whenever a guy likes me. Am I just afraid of being vulnerable and hurt?
I have a feeling you are like what I was in my early 20's: desperately afraid of emotional intimacy and the potential hurts that come with it. There may also be a little, nagging fear that someone might not like you once he gets to know the "real" you... not the "you" that hangs out and just has fun. So, how did I get over this fear? By doing something really nerdy! With every guy who was interested in me, I'd write a pros and cons chart. Haha. If, in my mind, he seemed like a good fit, I let myself give him a try. Once I became comfortable with being in a relationship, things got less scary. Once I discovered that he liked the allergy season (sometimes grumpy and not so attractive) and the stressed at work (tired and not so attractive) versions of me, it was easier to open up. Yeah, there are going to be heartbreaks along the way but you don't know from the start where a relationship will take you. (Well, unless your friend has a history of breaking hearts left and right.) This could be really good for you both growth-wise and love-wise. So, make your list and see if you think it's worth a try. My suspicions are that it is worth the risk or you wouldn't be asking for guidance. Best wishes!