Want to have sex wwit bf but scared????
After reading all that, I pretty much want to ignore you.
Im scared to say i love you?
Let him say it first. It's very early in the relationship to feel love. Lust is normally what makes people feel like they love another. That big initial part of the relationship wears down in around the 3rd month. The fourth month is when you should evalutate your feelings and think of saying the love word, not before hand. With it being so early in the relationship, you saying it might make him run.
Are you still transgender if you don't want, or are scared, to have surgery or hormone therapy?
A note for Sophia de Tricht, and I apologize for going anonymous but my wife values our privacy more than I value telling people of my experience.First: Straight male, very sexually active, 60 years old. Dominant, kink friendly. Life was good.Second: Then prostate cancer. Advanced prostate cancer. Lots of Hormone Therapy to kill the cancer, temporarily incapable of intercourse (but erections possible, they just hurt like hell to touch). When the same drugs are given to child molesters, they're called “chemical castration.” I completely lost all sex drive.To be fair I knew what I signed on for and that was to give up 18 months of my life in treatment for the chance to get another 30 years—and that was an easy decision to make. I started out knowing I would definitely lose sex function for 8–9 months and if the surgery required removal of some nerves to save my life, I could lose sex function forever.The surgery was successful. However the neoplasms (tumors) had grown around and implicated both left and right nerve bundles and they were removed during surgery.So I know your fears (I think). I loved sex, couldn't stop thinking about it all day. Loved orgasms. I often thought the main reason I worked out and ran was to keep my sex experience regular, frequent, and powerful.But the truth is that today I don't miss it. It's just no longer a part of me. I'd be sad but you can't miss what your brain won't let you conceive. My worry was baseless. I'm still a good man in every other respect.I'm not trying to be a downer. But if the bad happens with you, I hope you'll talk to a counselor and at least ask if my experience is worth discussing.(I still love women, I still think they're beautiful and wondrous. Being asexual doesn't change my orientation. I love cunnilingus and giving is still very good.)Hope you think this was worth addressing it to you.
I'm too scared to say 'I love you' first....?
You might scare him away if you tell him first, just wait and remember that good things come to those that wait. What if he wants to be the first to tell you and you ruin it by telling him.
Why are we afraid to say what we feel?
Well there could be hundred reasons for that, my friend Madan. Anyway if we think from the roots of ourselves I can get few reason for that:Most of the time what we have in our heart are our own beliefs. And we are afraid of what others might think about ourselves because of those beliefs. And so we feel shy to share them to others.We ourselves are not sure about what to say. We even don't know that what we are thinking and why we are thinking that. We are not sure about it ! Yeah it can happen . Normally boys are more vulnerable to such conditions. And usually girls are the reason.And so be confident on your feelings and beliefs , believe in them and feel free to share them .. but only to them who cares for you, and yesss don't give a damn about what others might think of you.. just go ahead ad bang on..! And if the case is about girls… then go ahead be confident and start little conversation .. give them some signs of what you feel.. and I bet “girls are intelligent” enough to understand Ur feelings…So good luck..!And yeah thanks for such a great question… It made me THINK..!
I think I have BV? And I'm scared about it.?
You can get it without having sex, it's just a common bacterial infection. Every doctor has seen it a million times. You WILL need to go to the doctor, over the counter treatments just don't work. At all. Just tell your doctor your symptoms, and explain to her that you aren't sexually active, and ask her what she thinks it is, even though you have your theories. You're not a doctor, but you very well could be right. Don't be nervous, doctors see this all the time. She'll give you a prescription for antibiotics, and it'll go away in a few days.
I have no friends. I feel like crying. I am scared. What should I do?
Be your own friend first. I mean it. Most of the times, we do tend to unconsciously act different in front of people. Accept yourself. Accept your shortcomings, your strengths, your weaknesses, even the habits that suggest you're a loose screw. Have the confidence that you are a good person with a healthy mind. Believe that whole-heartedly. You are just one step behind those folks you see hanging out with their friends. They have embraced themselves. They know what they are, they're happy with what they are, even if they're not so good to others or bad in general. If those folks can have friends, so can you. Once you start liking your own self, your personality, your mind, your tastes, your choices, you will automatically start exuding confidence. Just don't be rude to others. People will be automatically be curious about who you really are and will want to approach you. Once they do, some will be repelled with what they find, while some will not. For some, you will simply be resourceful, while some may not have anything to do with you. In the process, it may also happen (and it usually does) that you find someone who's somewhat like you. Maybe they will think like you, have the same approach to life, have same priorities, have similar tastes as yours. If you are lucky, maybe they will be just as 'weird' as you. As opposed to others, they would find you completely normal, and what's more, they might actually like that side of yours!So first, you've got to befriend your self. That's how it's all going to start. :)