Why am I bad at everything in life?
Dear Friend don’t be worried too much…Life is all about ups and downs. Though it is an antecedent statement said by many other people it’s true.Firstly, stop thing about your past in a negative way. Most of us do this.Why do we do this?CASE-I: Consider a case where something really bad had averted by your decision. What will you think? You’ll say THANK GOD!!!! I’ve made a RIGHT CHOICE because you overcome a trouble with out even tasting it.CASE-II: But if in the same case if you made a choice which lead to the trouble. What do you think? You’ll say OH GOD!!! I’ve made a BAD CHOICE because you’re afraid of facing a trouble.The moment you start facing trouble you will jump to conclusion that yours is a BAD CHOICE.What if you over come that trouble CASE-II and achieved a pinnacle? Don’t you say that you have made a RIGHT CHOICE.Don’t be afraid to face a trouble. Who knows what is there in line after trouble.Trouble is a problem, you have to solve it for result. What if you know the direct answer of the problem, without even knowing what the problem is? It’s a mere waste. You didn’t gained any knowledge. Once you start solving the problem you’ll be gaining a lot of knowledge in that aspect. If you had it wrong it’s an experience. First find out the mistake that’s it you succeed. It doesn’t matter if you solved it right or wrong you have experienced a problem and you will be ready for that in future.If you started facing troubles in your life it’s a indicator that you are moving ahead in your life gaining experience.Be ready to face the consequence of your choice though it is good or bad. If it’s good enjoy the victory, if it’s bad gain the experience.What most of the people collectively do wrong is to jump to conclusions quickly.Don’t come to conclusions too quickly. Stop dwelling over the past which is no more in your hands. Forgive the past but don’t forget it.At last it’s your attitude that matters.Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it.All the best!!!!
Why is Life so hard?????????????
Darlin, me old sainted Grandfather always used to say that "it's not the life that's so hard, but the living of it, and that was hard because we made it so". I learned he was a very wise old man, even though I didn't understand what he was saying for many years. Of course he was full of old Irish proverbs, like the one about being in heaven 30 minutes before the devil knew you had died..
Why am I so bad at literally everything I do and never get better?
No one is born with the ability to be the best neither you, nor me or anyone in the world n that's where the saying comes PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT.If you love sports, or painting, or singing or studying or maths keep practicing. It is the love, the hard-working that takes you to the top. Rome was not build in a day, it takes years to master, but you can do that, you can succeed only when you try. You have to keep on trying.Secondly, change this perception of your own self that you are bad, no one is bad. You have to work hard to achieve.Thirdly, positive thinking makes things way better. Start thinking positive that you can do it. Say it in your mind before sleeping and wake up thinking that the same I assure life will be better.Shun this negativity and keep moving forward, never say I will do it, Say I can do it now.All the best. I'm sure you will do great in life. :)
So you think your life is bad?
Hey everybody, im a 20 years old male and my life has been terrible so far. I feel like im cursed. as a young kid i was the happiest child ever always playing soccer and making friends. In middle school my best friend back then who became jelous of me was talking bad behind my back. I lost all my "friends" and ended up changing schools. Well in my new school it was worse. The only 2 guys in my class wouldnt talk to me. And nobody really gave me a chance from the beginning. I was so lonely at this point it was years ago i had some fun and everyweekend im sitting at home. Just being lonely. i wanted to kill myself. I had enough of it and eventually they pulled me out of school. I am the most lonely guy on earth. Started developing sleep problems. I still got them till this day.No friends, never had a girlfriend, never even kissed. i had some girls who liked me in the past. But i never really did something with it. Or i had no confidence. Fast forward things went better im less paranoid, gained some confidence, im going to school for adults. I had some really good contacts. But as soon people know i dont have anybody, they back off. At this point i want some affection, being loved. I started to feel empty again and i didnt want to go trough this **** anymore. And ended up doing something really really stupid.i went to some hooker. She scammed me.She gave me some really bad head.And took my money.i feel dirty.When will this be over?its emberassing to even type this. Please help!
Why am I so Unfortunate in life..?
I know how you feel. I have been through much worse. But think about it, there are billions of people in the world and half of them are suffering way more than you and me. Just remember you're not alone.
My Life Sucks So Bad?
Oh, honey. I'm 14, too. I've never been kissed, or had a boyfriend, but i'm perfectly OK with that,because I know that some day someone will love me for who I am, don't lose hope, things will get better, just don't lose hope. From time to time I feel like my life sucks, because I get made fun of. I'm chubby, and my parents/ uncle and aunt would call me fat. Seriously, they would adress me like that. ''Hey, fatty, get over here!'' They would even tell me this in public, they wouldn't even use my first name. I would be called this at school. I had this at school, and my family members called me names, how do you think I felt? I feel so hated for my life, I want to commit suicide. I've tried to suffocate myself with a plastic bag, hanging myself, cutting myself. I felt ugly, too. I didn't even want to go to the mall, or stand up in class because I felt HIDEOUS. That my face wasn't worth seeing like other people's faces were. It's hard for me to meet new people, without having to hide my face. But, listen to me, if your friend's are like this, tell them to stop, or if it continues, just stop being friends with them! They're not 'friends' if they make fun of you. Now, for why I told you my story, Don't let anyone get you down! If you're feeling bad, stop feeling bad, you're just letting them hurt you. I stopped trying to commit suicide because I wanted a future. A better life, when I grow up, and I wanted children so I could give them a better life than I had, or ever wished for. Everything you described in your school, is exactly the same as mine. However, thank goodness, I have 3 great friends that aren't into those stuff. Except football players are what's popular. Again, don't let anyone bring you down, if you start feeling like crap, you're letting them! Ignore them! I deal with the same thing, too. Don't loose hope. As for the ladies, maybe you're beeing a bit too kind to them, just wait for the right one, or you're going to get one of those girls who are only into jocks. Don't loose hope, dump those friends of yours if they keep calling you names, and things will get better, trust me! Good luck!
Everytime my life starts to get better something bad happens?
I have been in a deep depression. Over the past week I have started to come out of it. And I felt wonderful. Now I feel it creeping back into my life. Why do I deserve this? I have been nice as I possibly can to everyon me. I. Just don't understand. I feel hopeless and worthless..