Why am I so sad?
It's like I gaven up on my self and so did everyone else. All I do is smoke dope all day I'm always around drugs all there is is fighting in my house Im so lost my parents care but they don't see me being anyone or don't believe in me at all my mom is a meth head but she's been sober for 2 weeks but it's stupid she will be back on everything in i say another week or two it's like this every time. And then they scream at me and say what's wrong with you or why are you like this I'm selfish I'm shes heartless or she dosent care about anything or anyone. It's so hard for me to go to school i go to a school away from my friends because of some other reasons but I barley even go last time I went was 3 weeks ago I sit by myself everyday at lunch no one talks to me all day everyday not a word exept the teachers but I want to finish highschool I really do but I can't even function when I'm there I need help i feel sufficated with everyone I'm sad and I can't be my self anywhere. I don't know how to get help i want help but no one i guess thinks I need help or care enough to get me any help. Why do I feel like this why do I have to go through this with out anyone by my side why do I always feel so alone
Why am I so sad?
I'm sorry that you feel this way. Whenever I feel sad I write out how I'm feeling and listen to music or read specific verses from the bible and just try to pray to God and talk to him about everything. I know its hard to find some alone time but its actually really good for you when you do. You can start off by being thankful for everything you have. Writting might not work out for you so find a good friend that you can just talk to about everything. I think church is probably not helping you out much because you're not seeking the help from God, which is the main reason you feel sad. Once you realize how much He loves you and what he has done for you, you'll find no reason to be sad at all. Also make sure you take the extra mile to help people in need. Trust me its the BEST feeling in the world. I'm very thankful for everything I have and thought that I was happy but it wasn't untill I started going out of my way to help other people and visit orphanages, hospitals and feed the homeless in the US as well as outside it etc. that I truely felt real Joy. And ever since then I can't stop doing it especially when I see people that do more than me. I usually go with a bunch of friends and with a couple of different bible studies and we try to do stuff like that at least every weekend. One of my co-workers just wanted to come with us this last service to mexico because she wanted to see how mexico is, she came and she enjoyed it so much that she signed up for all of the upcoming events. Its truely amazing. You get to travel, meet new people, take pictures, hang out with friends and reach out and help others. Just being able to unite with other people that you've never met before in service fulfills you in such a way that nothing in this world would ever be able to do. We truely feel God's presence in the midst of us. I highly recommend that you try to organize something like that. You wont regret it. If you're interested in taking up stuff like that you can go ahead and contact me at tina.awad@ yahoo .com and I'll help you either start one or you can come join us for our next project. Good LucK and I wish you the best. God Bless.
Why am I crying, I don't know why I'm sad.?
crying is words from the heart that can't be spoken. i know its hard. TRUST ME. i've been there. parents never know how to deal with their kids at your age. I feel awfule that she doesn't approve of you crying, my mom was always very supportive of it when i cry. it shows vulnerability which is a good think. its always portrayed as begin bad, and its SO not. Try writing. Listening to music always helps, which youre already doing. But yeah writing. Do like, a livejournal. and just write down all of your thoughts. not what you think is wrong, not why you think youre crying. just what you're thinking about. go back and read it tomorrow and the next day, and add to it. you may not be able to vent to your mom, but you can certainly vent on paper. best of luck.
I'm feeling sad but I don't know why. What should I do?
Once Buddha was traveling with a few of his followers.While they were passing a lake, Buddha told one of his disciples, "I am thirsty. Do get me some water from the lake."The disciple walked up to the lake.At that moment, a bullock cart started crossing through the lake.As a result, the water became very muddy and turbid.The disciple thought, "How can I give this muddy water to Buddha to drink?"So he came back and told Buddha, "The water in there is very muddy. I don't think it is fit to drink."After about half an hour, again Buddha asked the same disciple to go backto the lake.The disciple went back, and found that the water was still muddy.He returned and informed Buddha about the same.After sometime, again Buddha asked the same disciple to go back.This time, the disciple found the mud had settled down, and the water was clean and clear.So he collected some water in a pot and brought it to Buddha.Buddha looked at the water, and then he looked up at the disciple and said," See what you did to make the water clean. You let it be, and the mud settled down on its own, and you have clear water."Your mind is like that too ! When it is disturbed, just let it be. Give it a little time. It will settle down on its own.You don't have to put in any effort to calm it down.It will happen. It is effortless."
Why do I feel so sad lately?
Well, it probably will pass. Sometimes people get depressed, it could be your stress at school, it could be hormones, or it could be something else you don't realize yet (or even a combination of those three). The biggest thing, don't beat yourself up about it, this type of thing happens to everybody at least once in awhile. It's part of life. Nobody is happy all the time, just like nobody is sad all the time. But, the best part about bad times is they do end! You can try talking to some friends, or a close family member, a teacher you like, a pastor or priest, your family Dr., or a school counselor. Even if you don't have something specific to talk about, sometimes it just helps to let someone know you are feeling sad and discouraged. And when you are by yourself, try to focus on the positive instead of the negative. That should help. When a negative thing pops in your head, tell yourself you will not harbor unhappy and negative thoughts, and then try to think of something you are happy and glad about. A good friend, a good relationship with your folks, a good grade in school, even a TV show you like. As long as it is something you enjoy and it makes you happy, it will always help to focus on something positive instead of negative. If your depression continues for much longer, or you ever feel suicidal, talk to your folks. You may need to see a counselor, Dr., or get on some medication. There is no shame in any of those things, it is simply taking care of yourself. Good luck, I hope you feel better soon!
I'm so sad I don't have a boyfriend....?
I don't have a boyfriend and I'm 15 and I'm really sad about it cause I've never had one. I don't know what to do because a lot of my friends already have homecoming dates and here I am-dateless. How can I get a date and boyfriend? What can I do to get one? I really really want to feel loved by someone.... Please help and no rude comments please.
Why am I feeling so sad all of a sudden? ?
It sounds like you may have some slight depression. Not knowing why you cried is definitely a symptom. With depression, many feel like they can't concentrate and have no energy (ex: didn't feel in the mood). Others feel irritable constantly. Symptoms vary from person to person, however, if you're not "in the mood" for two weeks or more, and these feelings are interfering with your daily life, you may have depression. You could go to the doctor - he may suggest anti-depressants for you. I personally don't like anti-depressants, as I was depressed for some time after my father passed away - I was in my early teens, and being on them almost made me feel worse about my life and care even less. If you're into natural methods, and herbal supplements, I might suggest first taking some St. Johns Wart once daily. I would also suggest, even though you might not feel like it - get outside, get some air, enjoy the outdoors. Learn to enjoy natural beauty - nature. With someone, like myself, previously having depression (you can get over it &/or learn to live with it without drugs), I found that the best thing I could do was to get outdoors, enjoy nature and sometimes force myself to be happy. From experience, I know the thing NOT-to do is to ignore it, but sometimes almost embrace it. I hope this helps, and you're in my prayers.
I miss my ex bf.. I'm so sad and don't know what to do?
Hi, i suppose every female knows how you feel, we have all been there. What do you like to do(hobbies)? I have found out if i keep thinking about him all the time i would end up a MESS!!! I would call him he would hang up, i drove by his house in other cars just to see if he was home, cry, cry and cry more. Eventually i had to take control of me and not let some guy destroy me with the depression and feeling i couldn't go on without him. When i took my life back, left him alone, started dating someone else, guess who was knocking at my door? We were together 18 years after i took control of my life and left him alone. I felt alone, no body understands, i can't live without him, i love him so much, like i said i was a mess. You need to get your life back for you and forget about the past. Honest if you leave him alone and go forward you will hear from him again in time because he is curious about you. There are always friends if you want them you have to make the first move. Get your life back and you will feel so much better mentally and physically!!