Why Am I So Super Shy

Why am i so timid/ shy?

When someone is shy, it is usually because their self confidence is low. I was super shy growing up, but now, I will talk to most anyone.

Try taking some self confidence boosting activities, like karate. Volunteer. It puts smiles on others faces and helps you lift your spirits while at the same time meeting people while you are helping them.

When you walk, walk with your head upright. Look at people and smile a genuine smile. You have a lot to offer people and they won't know, unless you become confident. God made you in his likeness and you are a special person. Don't forget that.

When you shake someones hand, make it a firm handshake, not the kind that you only use the tip of your fingers. Be self assured that you are a good person too. Don't be afraid of everyone who may or may not see the things the way you do. We are all different and it is good to embrace each others differences. You included.

Hugs to you and May God Bless you always.

I'm a Scorpio, but I'm super shy? Why is this?

I have never seen any decent astrologer describing Scorpio as loud, blunt, and aggressive. Scorpio is a water sign, therefore naturally quiet and reserved. They don't announce their goals loudly like a Fire sign would. They work hard and let the results speak for themselves. Also, Scorpios can be defensive and quite cruel if they feel threatened but I wouldn't say that they are aggressive. Loud, blunt, and aggressive would be the perfect words to describe the sign of Aries for example, but no way a Scorpio.

Why am I super shy around girls?

You don't say how old you are, but (from experience & wisdom) I will tell you that many people (girls & guys) are very shy around the opposite sex. It's natural to be nervous (especially if you really like the girl or guy). It's difficult to adequately answer this question without first knowing how old you are, because if you are asking this & are 50 I would answer it much differently than I would if you are only 15 (LOL). I'm going to "pretend" that you are in high school (or around that age) & tell you to just try to be yourself & relax around girls, because (chances are) that many of them are probably at least as nervous as you are (& maybe even more so).

P.S. ***We don't "bite" either (unless you want us to)...(: (JUST KIDDING-GOOD LUCK-IT WILL GET BETTER-I WOULD BET)

Why am I so shy in college?

Hi, im a freshman in college and i am super shy. I have a hard time connecting with people. My communication skills are really low. In high school i had no friends and stayed at home all day with my family. When im with my family i feel very open but around other people im super, super shy. I dont know how to shake it. I didnt realize how shy i really was until when everyone was in the car singing a song and i was to shy to sing along. I feel very alone and i want to have friends so badly. Me and my roommates dont really get along and i sit in my room all day long. I im involved in clubs and stuff.but from 1pm until bedtime i am in my room by myself. Changing rooms isnt a option.

Why am I so shy around girls?

I was exactly like you at that age, Brother. But I still had an ego and just assumed something would happen sooner or later. I missed out on a few great girls.

You should look for classes (or meetings) in your area for "pickup artists" or dating coaches. Women like to be approached. They are natural talkers and just waiting for a guy to show a little class and charm so they can start talking. You just need to memorize maybe 5-10 charming/funny/clean lines to say to a girl.

Like those girls giving you flirty looks. You should have smiled and tilted your head towards the nearest snack counter and slowly walked towards it to buy a snack. If she follows you, then you say hello and ask her name. Tell her you saw her in the group and you were wondering if she was smiling because you're 1) Cute 2) Adorable 3) Handsome ) Hotter than Christian Bale. Of course she will giggle and say you're cute. Then you ask if she's having a fun "girls' day out." She will start yakking away. After a few minutes, you ask for her phone number. (Keep a pen & scrap paper in your pocket at all times!)

Call her in 4-5 days asd ask her to meet for lunch or coffee. No dinner date yet.

Why am I so shy and socially awkward?

Idk how old you are. If you are young you might just have not gotten out of your shell. If you are 20+ years old you might have social anxiety which is treatable with therapy. I know what it's like because I'm like that too.