Why Am I Such A Failure

Why am i such a failure?

Apparently you are good at telling me exactly what is wrong with you, (not much), so that's a plus. Honestly, if there is one person out there who can tell you they haven't felt this way, then they are liars. Those who claim perfection, have just gotten good at hiding the truth.

Let's start with sports. Holy crap, I am not down about myself as you are, and I can't even begin to touch a football, run track, do any of that crap, that fact that you have beaten people at all, and go out there and do what you do, makes you head and shoulders above most of the jackasses who go to your school, my school, and most people all around.

Failing your classes, I get, I am a senior with senoritas, and I get not wanting extra help. But trust me dude, get it. It helps more than anything I can imagine, except for maybe, Einstein beaming his brain into your head...though, he couldn't tie his own shoelaces, so don't feel bad.

Suicide, bad call on your part. Exceptionally bad part of everyone else for not caring enough to pay attention. They don't care enough about you, doesn't be you aren't worth caring about. It just means that they are jackasses, who need a better grip on reality. You know my first girlfriend was in 11th grade. And my first sexual experience damn near gave me Hepititis. So count your lucky stars bub.

The next thing you do: Brush your teeth, take a shower, towel dry your hair, you are a guy, look like one. Don't put too much effort into your look. My hair is 1/3 an inch long. EASY to maintain. I am not exceptionally good looking, I don't think, and girl don't look my way, or so I suspect, yet, I know for a fact some of them do, and they do for you too. Essentially, giving up is certainly not ever an option, unless you give up football for the AV club, while staying in Track, giving you the intelligence and the Bron. You'll have girls, friends, and if you are lucky, NO HEPATITIS. Good luck.

Why am i such a failure/loser?

I've felt this way about myself for awhile now. I've been told that it's all a frame of mind, but then things happen that only seem to enforce it.
This was my last year of high school. and the feeling that i'm a nothing really hit home this year. Some examples of this being; I've played football since my 7th grade year, i've tried the hardest i can for all of them, i'm not the greatest athlete, but i'm still a hard-worker, but even though i tried my hardest, it never seemed to be good enough. I played a total of 5 quarters the entire season, that killed me on the inside. Wrestling came around and i would tell myself "you're good enough" but that never came true, i lost probably 90% of my matches this year.
This affected so many things. Take for instance that there is this girl i really like. I've been convinced i'm such a failure that i am absolutley petrified to ask her out, the small talk i try to make is absolutley horrible, and i have myself convinced that i will get rejected (story of my life).
Also influencing my thoughts is the fact that i do absolutley nothing on the weekends, i sit around a dig myself into a hole of pity and self-doubt. I'm positive i'm not depressed just have very low self-esteem.

What is actually wrong with me? Am i a loser/failure?

If you stayed and read this and would care to help me out that would be very kind of you. I just really want some imput.

Why am I such a failure with girls?

When I was younger, I thought I'd be very successful with girls because I was always told I was a handsome guy and I thought to get girls to like me all I had to do was just be myself. But it seems I was wrong because I'm 26 now and I've only had one girlfriend in my life and I'm still a virgin and most girls that I meet are stuck-up and don't seem to be interested in me at all. And I feel like all other guys are successful with girls while I'm a failure with girls. Like one of my cousins is now engaged to his girlfriend and they're getting married next year and my brother and his girlfriend are now having their first baby. And I often feel like I'll always be a loser with girls and I'll never find the right girl for me and I'll never get married or start a family or anything.

How can I not be such a failure?

My mom did the same thing to me! She threw me a party for my graduation and I told her over and over again I didn't want it, but she didn't listen. Well first of all, talk to a counselor. I used to be scared of telling people I did because I felt crazy, but seriously, it helped me SO MUCH. I always felt like a failure because my parents raised me to believe that everything had to be done perfectly and in order. Then my life went to **** when my parents split when I was really young, and then in '07, my step dad died of cancer. I miss him so much. But what I'm trying to say is, you can't be discouraged. Try moving out, and take a year off from College. Start studying harder, even if you don't feel like you need to. You could get a tutor if you really can't get all the stuff down. Think big :) You're not a failure unless you let yourself be one. No one is perfect at anything. I used to be really hurt when people made fun of me too, it's not easy. There's a big world around you, and in it, you'll find someone who loves you and accepts you, hopefully you'll get a job you adore, and you should enjoy a happy, long life :) Be positive!

I feel like a failure?

Hey! If there is one thing I can tell you, is at least you still have the drive to want to do something. That is one big advantage that you have over others that struggle with depression/social anxiety. I want to tell you something. You are never too old to go to school. Something that has always helped me get more motivated and stop being a failure, is working out. I know it sounds ridiculous when you want your whole life to start and that running around or doing pushups is just stupid, but its not. I can guarantee one thing: you will become increasingly more motivated and INCREDIBLY happier if you exercise. At first, it will feel like hell. But working out releases endorphins, and endorphins are happiness. As you become more motivated, start by looking for a job. Make some money! Set a small goal every day. For example: Today I am going to workout for 1 hour. I will also start a resume (You can totally do a resume even without much experience in anything else). Tomorrow: I will work out for an hour, and then do a job search in my area. Set out little goals, and as you accomplish them, you will feel less like a failure and more like you are doing things! If you ever want to talk, feel free to message me back for more tips! Just apply yourself! This might sound harsh, but you are at the prime of your life. Take advantage! If you don't do anything now, do you really think anything will change in 1 or 20 years? Do you want to live on your parents couch when you are 25? Of course not. You can't say those things will happen eventually. You have to do those things now.

My life is such a failure / joke.?

Every time when it comes to doing a simple thing, I will never do it as good as others. I'm second-rated.
I can't play sports better than others and I'm always losing out on my studies as well.
I feel inferior compared to others, it's not that I want to, but I am not better than them!
I just don't get it, why can't I do things well, get recognition and stuffs like that? Why must I always suffer the fate of losing to others and getting mocked and laughed at?

Sometimes I can see the expression of others and also girls that they look down on me or dislike me. I get picked on in and out of school, I'm the center of jokes, the loser.
No girls liked me, and I got rejected. My life is in a state of mess. I can't seemed to pick myself up.

People always laugh at me, because I'm worst off than them. I am in the last class while they are the tops. I don't seem to have any friends, well, not even one that I can talk to in school. During break, I spend time myself.

It's not that I want to wallow in self-pity, but I can't seem to do anything right. I tried to improve myself, but I'm always not as good as others and sometimes I FAIL badly. I once had suicidal thoughts. But I don't want to die young. I'm still in high school.

Gosh, can anyone advice me?