Is he thinking of me when I'm thinking about him?
It's possible. The problem is it will not probably be at the "same time". Your brain is electric. When you think it sends electric waves out to the world. These electric waves can travel and reach other people. That's why sometimes people in the same room can feel nagative energy at the same time, because they're brain is like a computer and thoughts are like wifi signals. So it is possible that his thoughts traveled all the way to you.The heart sends out 5000x stronger signals magnetically than the brain. If it's a feeling in your chest than it is more possible with this being a fact.
Why can't I stop thinking of this guy I've never met?
Okay, so I guess the best thing to do is start from the beginning. I was minding my own business, and I decided to join 'MyYearbook'. I had met loads of fun people (men & women). I was just looking to chat, nothing more. This guy (let's say his name is 'John') emails me a sweet & short "hello, how are you?" We chat a few times, nothing big. But for some *odd* reason, he intrigues me....why? He's cute, but his looks didn't pop out at me. We chat every now & then when I pop on and see an email. I don't go out of my way for this. One morning, I couldn't sleep. I saw an email and we chatted again. It was normal, witty banter. Mind you, it was 3am & he's awake because he's in the UK. I was annoyed by the time it took to receive an email on MyYearbook, so I politely asked if he would like to chat outside of it. He said yes, and we moved to Text messaging. We talked ALL MORNING via text...and my story begins...we spoke about 85% of the day! This man had me so intrigued! All I wanted to do was hear his voice (it has nothing to do with the accent) majority of my friends are British, as I work for a British airline & used to live in the country. It's only been a week...but it has been the best week of my life, so far! And definitely best week to start the year 2012. My question is, can I 'love' someone if I've never physically met them? I'm head over heels! We both have iPhone 4S's, so we FaceTime every day. He's the first face I see in the morning and last before I go to bed...last night he confessed he's falling for me & he is buying me a plane ticket (if I want it) for my birthday to see him (for as long as I like) I think (actually I KNOW) I am in love...but how? Please, no silly answers. I have friends and family all over the UK and in the same city he's from. So I'm not scared of meeting him. They will all be aware that I'm coming into the country and I'm not staying with him. I'm staying with a girlfriend. :)
Why am I thinking about this guy all of a sudden? What is wrong with me?
I think everyone goes through this at some point. You like him and are attracted to him but logically you know you can't be with him because he isn't trustworthy. Which is a very smart decision. This is your way of essectially protecting yourself from being hurt further by him. However, just because you know what is best for you doesn't mean the other part of yourself just automatically stops liking him. Nothing is wrong with you. You are just trying to do the right thing for yourself and part of yourself wants what isn't good for you. If you just keep brushing it aside and find other things to think about it will eventually get better again. Who knows what made you start thinking about him again. Maybe it was a song you heard or a smell that reminded you or him. Something little can awaken memories that you had forgotten about. The best thing to do is to find a new crush that you can think about instead of him. Good luck.
I can't stop thinking about this guy but...?
My classes started last week, and I saw one really cute guy. And now, I can't stop looking at him. He gets my attention. On Monday I realized that he also looks at me. Like that thing, you're looking for someone and when he/she perceives, you stop looking. He does this a lot. But the problem is, he's that kind of popular guy. I've never talked to him before. And there's a girl that I know she's always near him. They hug each other everyday, as far as I know, they've never made out before. I heard that the girl that is near him wants to make out with him. Today they were near again, smiling for each other, hugging and whatever. But the guy was still looking for me. And I don't know what to do. He's the only one in my class that gets my attention, and I don't know that should I do to get his attention. I really want that guy. What should I do? He's also that kind of guy that gets any girl that he wants. I don't know if I'm the kind of girl that he likes. Well, I'm not saying that he likes me, but I think I like him, and it bothers me a lot. I just can see him, I can't stop thinking about him, I can't stop seeing his pictures. What's happening to me? I've never ever acted this way before!
I can't stop thinking about this guy I 'saw'?
I'm 15 and about 6 months ago I caught a train every morning into town to go to school. And most mornings there would be this guy there who I was automatically attracted to. At first it was just attraction but then I saw him reading books like to kill a mocking bird, which made me like him even more. And then I saw him playing a game on his iPod which I found really cute. And then one day after school, he got off the train with a girl, which made me slightly jealous. So, I tried just to forget him, but i couldn't, and I kept looking at him imagining that he went out with me. And I always wished he talked to me but he never did.. Then we moved house and so I never see him any more but every so often I think about him and hope that he'll climb up mu balcony and ask for my number. So, I never talked to him, and I don't think he knows my name. And I'm really shy and if I ever did see him again I wouldn't talk to him (not that i will see him). I've never had a boyfriend and I don't have many guy friends.. What should i do to forget about him?
Why am I still thinking about a guy I was seeing 8 months ago? He wasn't even my boyfriend.
For how long did you see him? How did he treat you? Did you like him?Why did you stop seeing him? Who initiated the breakup?In any event, the dude made an impression on you. Give it time. You’ll think less about him.
Why can't I stop thinking about a guy I don't even know?
You’re infatuated with him. Simple!The best thing to do is to get to know him a bit.Most of the time, a few short conversations will help you get over the guy so fast that you won’t even believe it.But sometimes, very rarely, you’ll find that they’re a great person, and maybe even fall for them. If you’re lucky, they’ll even feel the same way about you; and the story goes on.Either way, talk to him. It makes things real.
Why am I thinking about my guy friend when am married? Don't judge just read the situation.?
How do I stop thinking about my guy friend and focus more on my marriage. I guess I keep thinking about my guy friend because last summer. We was always hanging out and he was there for me when I needed someone to talk to. He also confined in me when he had problems and his relationship as well. Then the more time we spend the more we both begin to show signs that we began to connect. We was always staring at me, getting jealous when I was with my husband or other guys. He would tease me and smile every time we talk. One day we was talking late in the dorm lounge and he was tired and so I told him to go back to his dorm room but he procrastinated, then after words finally decided to go to sleep. It has been several months and we still can't be in the same room or anywhere else without it being awkward and uncomfortable. Although he has a girlfriend and I have a husband. I keep thinking about him. I told my husband about the situation and how I love him only. My husband is very understanding. He know it really wasn't my fault that our guy friend is the blame because in the whole beginning he was flirting with me. Although he had a girlfriend he still continue to do inappropriate things such as making sexual comments while me and him watch a scary movie. While watching the movie he started to get hard for no reason "I guess". Then one day me, my husband, an him was at the bar and we began to drink and he got a tipsy so he began to flirt and make remarks about me right in front of my husband. Then a few months after he spread a rumor about me and him having sex. Which was a lie. I am just confuse given the time me and the guy friend spend we begin to have a connection and or a bond. What does this mean and what should I do? Help me!!!!!
Why am I thinking more about another guy instead of my boyfriend?
You cannot possibly fall in love with a person whom you haven't even met with. The "spark" that you are feeling for the person you spoke to online is probably infatuation. Your long distance relationship with your boyfriend has created an emotional void within you. Your infatuation for the new guy is merely your subconscious mind's way of dealing with your need for companionship.But think, a person whom you have known only for 4 days, is giving you sleepless nights and is making you wonder that you probably love him. This means either you are not cut out for a long distance relationship or you are too young to be in one. Or might be that you don't love your boyfriend as much as you thought. Think hard and understand what you really feel. If you still think that you love your boyfriend enough then, make it work. But, if you feel that your relationship isn't as intense as it should have been then, don't feel guilty. It is alright to feel that way.Get some help here: It's all about your relationships