Why do men want sex so bad?
This is purely a biological standpoint - it is in their genes to basically impregnate as many females as possible for the continuation of the species. That explains why most men will bang just about anything. Women are programmed to procerate too, but the urge is not so strong because she can really only have one baby a year, so it doesn't make as much biological sense for her to be promiscuous. Women are usually only promiscuous because of some trauma in their lives or some emotional problem. Men can separate sex from love, but women cannot, when she gives her body to someone, she gives her heart as well, all men do is just transplant sperm.
Why are so many young men so bad with women?
Could use some context, but I’ll try as is.Bad as in disrespectful? That’s probably either due to watching how their fathers/other male role models treat women, or buying into “pick-up extraordinaire” stereotypes that think negging women and acting like jerks is the way to attract a quality girl (and big newsflash, boys, it isn’t! You’ll get laid, sure, but that’s all you’ll get!)Bad as in they don’t know what they’re doing? We’re all clueless in that regard initially! Women develop much faster than we do, so when we’re young, we’re constantly trying to figure out the right approach (and almost always failing)! I myself was constantly getting rejected and completely miserable with women up until my later 20’s, when I finally figured out who I was and what my approach was: do my thing, and see which women were turned onto that.Don’t beat yourself up, Tyler! Just remember to be yourself, regardless of what others say, and you can attract quality women!
Why do men treat women so bad?
First, I should note that not all men treat women badly. There are many men who are civilized human beings who treat women with courtesy, kindness and respect.There are unfortunately too many men who do treat women badly, for many reasons, pretty much all of them coming under the heading of Misogyny.1) Many men think women are inferior, meant only for sex, procreation and serving men, and treat them that way, because they were taught this in their family, their peer group, their boarding school, or their religion.2) Many men hate and fear women because they make them feel insecure, and so they have to dominate the women to shore up their own sense of masculinity. As Margaret Atwood said, “Men fear women will laugh at them. Women fear men will kill them.”3) Many men, like many human beings, are selfish. They do not consider the feelings, wishes or needs of their partners and simply use them as a means to get what they want.4) An unfortunate number of men think that women actually LIKE being treated badly, and so they use it as a dating strategy, as in techniques such as “negging.”Women actually prefer being treated well, and men will find they are much happier and more successful socially and sexually if they try it.
Why are men so bad at getting laid?
When I feel like having sex, I can go into any club, any bar, any party and have my pick of the hot guys in the room. I can be picky, have high standards, and only go for the 9's and 10's. Even if I'm not a 10 myself, I can still sleep with them and have a great time. Why then, do guys constantly settle for 5's and 6's and most of the time go home empty handed? Does it bother you that women control the sex and hook-up scenes? We basically have all the control. We decide when and where. We can make the first move and almost guarantee acceptance with no worries. We don't even have to TRY to look hot and guys will still give us free drinks and free admission to clubs. Also, since we don't NEED sex 24/7, it's basically whenever we feel like going out and getting some. It doesn't control our lives or dictate where we're going to spend every night. There are guys who will spend hours of their lives sitting in bars trying to hook up with women only to be rejected, or they will spend all night on their computers looking for a prospective female to talk to. Why are men so bad at getting laid? Sex is so great, it would suck to not be able to get it when I want it.
Is it right that all men are bad?
Well, if I get Judeo-Christian-Islamic theological on you….. yes.Eve turned to Adam with the forbidden fruit and he should have directed her toward God’s command but instead, he failed her (and himself) and ate.And that started the ball rolling (downhill, it seems). Both man and women thought “they knew better than god” and that hasn’t changed very much since.So in that way, yes. But outside of that “original sin” situation, no. Women are just as capable and culpable as men regarding iniquity (ungodliness).But even today, women are better at tempting men than men tempting men or men tempting women. Interesting, I think. Rather confirms that Biblical story.
Are most men really bad in bed? I think so.?
So, I'm probably considered a bad guy by most. I like sex and women a bit too much, and long ago realized that the "culturally correct" way of living (marriage, kids, etc.) was impossible for me. I'm not bragging - I can attract women easily. Its just true. So, in the last year, I have been seduced by two married women (well, I let them seduce me!) that both said I was "like a drug". I've been pursued and caught by a woman in a LTR (7 years, live in BF), another that was single that found a BF and then sought me out again after a few months, etc. Why do they keep coming back? The reason they tell me is that can't give up the sex. I am not particuarly well endowed, but the best part of sex for me is making the other person feel good. Are most men so awful in bed that their wives and GFs will risk it all to be with an ****** like me? Seriously?
Why do I think all men are bad? And how to change it?
A friend of mine have this notion about men. She always say “sab ladke kamine hote hai”. (All men are bastards).This is not true.All the girls out there, your perception totally depends on the context and the circumstances you have been through. You are judging a whole superset of a gender based on a subset of a handful of mediocre, cheap idiots you came across.That hipster who tried to touch you inappropriately, taking the advantage of the crowd in public transport, was a fucktard. And we are ashamed that you had to face this. Maybe you taught him a lesson, kicked his balls. Good ! It was needed. But afterwards don't judge whole male fraternity. There are boys who sacrifice their comforts and stand totally making their body haphazard, dismantled just so that there won't happen an accidental 'inappropriate touch'.That boyfriend of your friend, left her at the peak when she was totally emotionally involved, for a better prospect. You are angry as hell. Your friend was used, played with. You feel like murdering him. Indeed ! He was an ass. But there are men out there who commit to a girl and mean it. They mould their priorities for that commitment.After a few rounds of drinks at the bar, you lost yourself completely. Maybe your guy companions tried to take advantage of the situation. You came to know a day later. You felt dejected, cheated and lost faith on men. Of course ! The situation was such. But please understand that there are men who consider a drunk girl as a responsibility and not opportunity. He would prefer dropping you home safely.You are beautiful. Approached by many. Everyone tells you they love you. But you know that those 'everyones' are telling every next girl this. So you assume that everyone is after your skin. Remember girls, one women men exist. No matter how ugly your skin gets, you are the most beautiful girl of universe for him.In all the above mentioned scenarios, the second part seems too ideal to exist. Infact it is ! But these ideal men are very few in number.This guy is one for sure~I would plead girls, don't put a pathetic stamp over all the males because of a few goons. Telling us that we are all the same, is quite a dent on our dignity. We understand you. We understand that it's difficult for you to digest this. But try seeing the other side of the coin. It is beautiful and will help you change your perception about us.