What do you do if someone calls you a ‘cunt’? What does it mean?
Oh. Well then.That person either doesn’t like you very much at all or has a very close relationship to you. Americans say “fuck” like it’s a casual substitute for a forgotten word, but rarely say the word “cunt.” It tends to be one of those words that denotes extreme situation, or extreme displeasure or dislike of that person. It’s massively offensive, and considered by a vast majority to be a hateful and scandalous thing to say.It’s a special occasion word, used only for those extraordinarily moronic (so that their actions severely impacted others), psychotic, or cruel.Like, the guy who stole $500 from you is a motherfucker, but the guy who kicked your dog, sending him to the vet? He’s a cunt.If it was a woman who received the term, it suddenly becomes all the more fucked as an insult.Why did a part of female anatomy gain such distinction while “dick” is a commonly thrown insult by comparison? With such an offensive misogynistic overtone, it remains a word that truly aims to belittle the receiver. It’s a word that has retained its shock value as a taboo, so using it as such means you genuinely want to empower yourself when used over the other person.I personally think that Western society finds penis related commentary funny, so ‘dick’ and ‘cock,’ while inappropriate, can be more widely used. But referring to sexuality in the States, it’s always tread the line of ‘tits’ are funny (to the point of just absurdly silly- call some one a ‘boob,’ and they are just a cutesy dummy) but beyond that, there’s classical discomfort with feminine sexuality- it has historical significance of a male dominated society. Back in the day, to call some one a ‘cunt’ meant that was all they were really useful for.So, uh… yeah, this is the most I’ve ever used the word in one sitting.
My mom thinks other girls are prettier than me?
I mean there's always going to be someone more attractive then ourselves, which is just a fact, but for your mom to constantly point it out, it's insensitive, and kind of being a bully. And it lowers your self esteem. Your mom is suppose to be the one in your life who thinks your the best, who thinks your beautiful, who's there to help you and cheer you up when you're feeling down. And she does the total opposite. And I'd like to add, you are VERY beautiful, I looked at your picture. Like seriously I think your gorgeous. So I think it'd be quite difficult to top you in looks. To be honest, maybe your mom is jealous of you, and she feels the need to make you feel ugly, when in reality your not. Cause I know when some mothers are envious of their daughters looks they will say anything to make them feel ugly. Don't listen to your mom when she puts you down. Its not even considered constructive criticism. It's just pure bullying. It's abusive in a way really. Yes when you have a daughter you think they're the most precious loveliest thing in the world. I know my mom thinks I'm the most best, most gorgeous girl ever You should confront your mom on this, the next time she does it, call her out on it. You can't keep being surrounded by someone who treats you so wrongly. Who's so negative about you. All she does is make you feel bad, she doesn't even complement you it seems. I know if my mom said this to me, I'd talk to her about it.
I suck at everything I'm a failure at school and life. I just want to end my life by committing sucide?
Take it from a former suicidal person... Life doesn't get better, and it is never easy (that is the truth), BUT you can do a lot to change the life you live. 1) the people around you simply may suck. I accepted that. So I avoid them. What do I do? Find other people who don't suck. You are on the internet my friend. WHATEVER your fancy there are others like you. Build groups of friends. They will be your encouragement and your escape from the people presently around you who are miserable. 2) Think! Intelligence really separates yourself from the others so you won't feel miserable as they want you to. When you know how idiotic and stupid the people are, you honestly do not care what they say or do. When you stop caring about what the world and everyone around you expects you BUILD your niche. Life is like getting on a crowded bus. Nobody wants to give you a seat, even though there are plenty of them, you have to take it, because they do not control who sits where. Don't let people bully you into committing suicide. As a former, I am not going to say the stupid cliche "oh its the cowards way out". No, I am just telling you how to fight. Because You will have to fight back in life. The world is evil, selfish, and honestly doesn't give a damn if you live or die. But then again there are some of us in the world who are not apart of the world, and we do care if you live or die. Before giving up, simply try changing the rules. Don't play by everyone else's. When you are young you may not look the best (as I looked like some Willy Wonka reject (the Gene Wilder version not the Johnny Depp version)). I was once told I looked ugly as sin. So I worked out, got strong, cut my hair, straightened my teeth (OVER MANY YEARS) and I am now better. Wife and 2 kids. Life is still difficult because people are still selfish, but I learned how to fight back. Go get your seat on this bus of life!