How to survive with fake friends ?
this question is for my safe future .... in case i encounter some fake friends .... i have already experienced some fake friends .... as i am a student ... so for the time being i need to survive with these people around me .... because none of my effort is making them my real friends ... my 'yes' makes them happy and 'no' makes them angry .... they play games ... try to hurt me as they know some of the things which hurt me ... they enjoy my pain ...... but i can not move from them right now ...... they are a bit insulting too... i have already left a group of friends, fake ones ..... i just want to give a very kind shut up call to them so they forget about the idea of suing me and hurting me emotionally .... ??? your advice will be appreciated ...
How do you escape the grips of a narcissist?
Educate yourself thoroughly on the condition - Quora is a real eye opener. Prepare yourself financially and emotionally. Seek and retain trustworthy support from friends or family (very hard to find, often).Do NOT ever hope they will change back and be normal and loving (if they ever were).When ready - as everyone else says - NO CONTACT. Do not check on them on social networks. If they call - do not answer - text thme to ask them what they want. Document everything that they say or do, if required for further legal action. Keep copies of messages. Protect yourself, your loved ones - oh and don’t forget to secure any high value items.Stay away until you can think about them with discomfort and nothing more. Concentrate on your self worth and values and stick to these. This will take time, but it is fantastically liberating when you get there. And you will.I would also suggest that you do at least one good thing for yourself every day. Something that makes you feel good within.At the end of the day - forgiveness would be the ultimate achievement. I’m still working on this.Good luck
What ways could I fake my own death to escape from abusive people in my life?
I used to have a similar plan. Instead of faking my death, I was going to stage my own kidnapping. My plan included getting out of the house and running away. Looking back most of it would have worked.I was cleaning up my closet after returning from college and I saw the very backpack that I had ready at a moment’s notice if I needed to run. Thankfully, that pack has sat empty in my room for several years.Find someone to confide in. In my case, I was going to run from the family members I should have been running to. Find someone who will fight for you and run to them.
THERE IS A THIEF IN MY HOUSE RIGHT NOW?HOW CAN I ESCAPE OR PROTECT MY SELF?
IM IN THE BASEMENT AND THE WIFI SIGNAL REACHES HERE TO OUR OLD COMPUTER WE NEARLY USE! IM TYPING LIKE CRAZY! SO I AM HOME ALONE AND IT IS NIGHT AND I WENT DOWNSTAIRS TO TAKE MY MOBILE PHONE BUT I DIDNT OPEN THE LIGHT BECAUSE I WOULD BE THERE ONLY FOR A FEW SECONDS! THEN I SAW A MAN ENTERING FROM A WINDOW! HE DIDNT SAW ME! IRAN TO THE BASEMENT AND I CANNOT LOCK THE DOOR BEHIND ME ,I DONT HAVE THE KEYS! PLEASE HELP ME I ALSO DIDNT MANAGE TO TAKE MY MOBILE PHONE WHAT TO DO? PLEASE ANSWERS QUICKLY!! CAN I CALL THE POLICE THROUGH THE COMPUTER? MY PARENTS A I CANNOTND MY OLDER BROTHER WILL COME IN 3 HOURS AND I DONT HAVE MANY NEIGHBOORS AVAILABLE TO HELP ME THEY ARE ALL SLEEPING RIGHT NOW FOR GODNESS SHAKE THIS COMPUTER IS MY ONLY WAY TO COMMUNICATE RIGHT NOW WITH THE WORLD OUSIDE SO PLZ HELP THIS IS NOT FAKE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP MEEE! . I CANNOT LEAVE FROM THE MAIN DOOR OR FROM THE BASEMENT WINDOW CAUSE IT IS VERY HIGH AND I CANT REACH IT! I CAN HEAR HIM WALKING AROUND THE HOUSE BUT I DONT KNOW EXACTLY WHERE HE IS GOING SHOULD I ATTACK HIM???? I HAVE A BASEBALL BAT AVAILABLE IM NOT VERY STRONG BUT I THINK THAT I CAN MAKE IT ,IM 15 YEARS OLD WOULD THAT BE DANGEROUS?
How should I deal with fake people?
Who are fake people ?People whose words and actions do not match.Who falsely pretend to be virtuous.Who pretend to be happy with your success actually they are jealous.Who would be ready to argue doesn't matter its logical or not.Who is a opinionated man/woman who has a narrow attitude towards life and people.Who are rude and arrogant and always interested into confrontation as if they always have a point to prove.How to deal with them?Ignore gnore and royal ignore.If they call you to some party make an excuse.If they want to talk to you please get yourself excused.If they ask help from you tell them how your unable to help them due to your busy schedule,but tell them various alternatives which could help them.Do not listen to any of their shit and don't ever take it your heart.Behave as if these people do not exist on mother earth.Never trust them ever.Be diplomatic with them neither say yes nor say no.Don't ever discuss life or critical things in front of them they might use it unscrupulously.Best advice is to keep mum and observe. If you do not say anything i am sure these people will get bored of you and frustated and who knows might leave you forever with peace.Thanks for A2A:)
How can I escape from foster care? I hate my strict foster parents?
Although it may not seem like it, 6 months will go by very fast. I don't think you can get in trouble with the law for leaving their hoise at your age, but regardless, your foster parents will still be getting that check from the government every month for taking care of you and that's all they really care about anyway. Are your parents back at home now, or are they in jail? If they're home, you should just go back home and see what happens.
I need to escape from Saudi Arabia because my parents are abusing me. How can I find an organization that helps a woman like me?
Ok I will try to give you some tips and possibillities, this will be expensive though so you will need cash as well.Delete all trails online leading to this page or any related searches: Delete the operating system on any device you are using, reset them to factory, if you are not doing so yet utilise a proxy service (TOR e.g.) If you have a n old computer or laptop use that one from now on solely for this endeavour. keep using your other devices normal as nothing is going on.It is of utmost importance that you do NOT change any behaviour.You will need Cash USD or Gold of the Value, the more the better, but probably at least 250k. This should cover escort, passports and fake ids, it will get you out of the country, if you have more money try to sent it to yourself or trusted friends in very small batches via western union or similar services, keep in mind a lot of amounts from the same area to a few persons can trigger checks of governments and SA is a close ally of the US.once you have that use your safe device (which you should encrypt) to contact some private contractors. (there are Facebook groups you can utilise if you have no other means), they will be able to also get you a fake id, depending on your borders you will probably have to leave on the land way, as the security at airports will be much tighter. I can and will not go into details about how this can be done as this will have to go with preparation in secret and once initialised extremely fast. and sudden, you will not be able nor should you try to take anything with you. Get a free cloud service account and take pictures of all your documents upload them there and memorise the access data, do under no circumstances write anything down.Try to get in contact with a European or Northern American NGO for females in need. Once you are outside of the country got to a US, German, dutch, Canadian or Scandinavian embassy and ask for asylum, do under no circumstances leave the embassy once you entered it. You have to stay in the embassy until they agree to have you flown out, stay calm do not start a scene, try to get in contact with the ego from before as well, they will know how to help and put public pressure on the government of the embassy.This is kept in general for certain reasons but this is a plan you can utilise in order to leave the country.
I recently had a dream about a ''fake'' marriage?
One may want to find someone to be the love of your life really badly. You may want to have a life long partner to help make your life more complete and to share things with. But one can not take short cuts to make this come true. Your subconscious mind picked this guy you are close to as friends as a handy person to play the main role in the dream. This does not mean that he is the right person for you to have a relationship or does it eliminate him as a possibility for a relationship with you in the future. He really did not play much of a part directly in the dream. One does not want to set things up that will not work, like a wedding without the groom knowing about it. One needs to plan things with everyone important to a plan being properly informed about their role. Meditate/pray, do mind-body or other exercise(not excessively), eat healthy, and get adequate rest. so that you will stay spiritually strong so as to be able to draw to you the right types of relationships that will work well in regards to your future plans.
How do you tell the difference between people with fake depression and real depression?
Hi Lenora, Gosh, your question sort of blows my mind because I can't imagine anyone wanting to "fake" something that is so dark & painful. I'll give you my thoughts: Someone who is truly depressed will have signs/symptoms that you may or may not be able to see because we can be wonderful actors for a couple of reasons.. #1 We don't want to worry our loved ones, so we try to pretend we are ok when we really aren't to spare their feelings. #2 We're not eager to let people know that we're depressed because experience has shown us that people who don't understand can be hurtful. Now, as we spiral down it becomes impossible to function normally. Some or all of the following will occur.. We have a change of appetite - either not being able to eat hardly anything or wanting to eat almost constantly. Our cognition starts declining - we have trouble focusing, learning & remembering. We may seem tired - this may be partly because we have likely developed sleep problems so the next day we are exhausted. We may not care much about our appearance - we may not be dressed very nicely, our hair is not done, etc. We have no motivation - things we usually enjoy we have little to no interest in. And one of the biggest, most classic symptoms of true depression is that we have no desire to interact with people - not even our friends & family. So that highlights when it is real so you have an idea of what to watch for. Having said all of that, I want to add one more thing and I can't stress this strongly enough. If anyone ever talks about harming themselves, you need to pay attention & tell whoever is close to them IMMEDIATELY. Even if it turns out they were 'faking it', you can't take any chances when it comes to someone's life. EVER.