How can I stop being jealous of other peoples' beauty?
I've never been considered a dyme or anything, I'm not ugly but I'm not a girl you would see on the street and go damnnnnnnnnn she's fine. Everytime I see one of those girls I remember that I'm not her and probably never will be. I'm a plus size girl this is an issue, I'm biracial this is an issue, and I'm officially an old maid this year~~no kids and still not married. I'm feeling pretty low about myself today, especially at the start of the Fall trimester and these beautiful 21 year olds are gracing the hallways of school. Whats a vette to do?
How can I stop being jealous of other people's beauty?
Hello. When i read your question, I thought okay those thoughts sound slightly familiar, but as I continued reading the last paragraph really caught my focus. I am 14 years old and African American also and I have to say I feel the same way when it comes to people who are prettier. No matter what anyone says, you may never completly stop feeling envious of other women and if you do it wont be until your looks reach a level, that in your eyes, is beautiful. People say the same about me but it is true, what your body looks like is not anything unless you have a pretty face to match. I am not going to got into some long rant about just being yourself and you will suddenly have lots of friends, because that is not very realistic. But bringing out your great features is the way to having less envy and better confidence. If you have really great eyes, then bring them out with light natural looking make-up. And dont use hair extensions, because being fake is never the way to go. EMBRACE your short hair with a nice short syle. EMBRACE your bold features with make-up and styles that bring out who you are. Forget anyone else because in the long run, they will wish they had a great friend like you. Good Luck and i hope this helps a bit:))
Why are most people so jealous of pretty women?
Jenn is right in every way. I'm a attractive woman and get more jealousy from men than women. Men will hate you or be passive aggressive towards you for no reason at all. They will even try to attack you verbally with their friends. Men are that insecure with attractive women. Other women will see you as a threat and hate you. Its also very difficult to make any real friends. Being attractive can be a curse. That's why most attractive people including myself are so mean. Its how the world treat us.
How do I stop being so jealous when my boyfriend looks at other women?
So first I'll say that I'm a straight guy. I was married for 10 years and never once strayed. I had this chance with this smokeshow of a woman once, and I had to physically remove her hands from my ass. I'm not bragging, just a fact. My God she was so hot. I wanted to see her naked so badly. I wanted to time travel back to when I was single and just spend a week banging this girl.But I didn't. I wanted to. I wasn't worried about getting caught. It would have been a perfect crime. I didn't because I loved my wife more than anything. My loyal, loving, gorgeous wife. I could never dishonor her like that, I could never respect myself if I hurt her that way just so I could conquer new territory and have 20, (exaggerating,) minutes of pleasure.So here's the thing. Here's the answer to your question. Even if you are the hottest woman alive. Hot like Angelina Jolie from girl interrupted, your guy will still look at every attractive, and most unattractive women, every chance he gets.It's a defect of our species. It has nothing to do with you at all. I do it completely involuntarily. I'm single now and I don't look at more women than when I was married. I look at exactly the same amount. I want to bang just about every one of them too. But even though I'm single, I still completely forget almost every hot woman I see within about 5 seconds.Know who I'm not going to forget though? The woman that actually mattered to me. She was beautiful, caring, and more than anything, she was the person I chose. You need to understand that if you're the person your guy has chosen, then it doesn't matter where he looks, because each time he looks and takes no action, he's affirming his choice. His choice is you.
Why do people think I have a boyfriend and guys don't ask me out?
girls get angry when pretty girls don't have boyfriends. because that means not only are they pretty, but they're picky....and have taste in their guys.... no worries, just wait til you have a boyfriend. he's gonna be better looking then any guy she could have and then she'll really start calling you some names...
Would you get mad if your boyfriend called another girl beautiful?
No, not at all. He can express appreciation for beauty, strength, smarts, talent, etc. in other people without wanting to dump what he has to go after something that he probably can't get. Same way, I can express that a guy is attractive without him getting all out of shape. If we have a good relationship and accept each other for who we are, imperfections and all, then there's not a problem. If there are insecurities and jealousies between us, then there would be a problem, and the problem isn't that he finds someone else beautiful The problem is the inherent insecurity or jealousy. The emotionally healthy way to respond when he says, "Wow, she's beautiful," is, "Yeah, you're right, she is." (without sarcasm) Then drop it or change the subject