Why are people so mean to me?
It's mainly the people who you hang out with. There are allot of people out there who think they can be mean to nicer people just because they picture nice people as weak. You have to show them that you are not a doormat and stand your ground. If you just continue to be nice to the people who are horrible to you, chances are they are just going to get worse. I'm not really saying that you should insult them back, but just tell them straight out how you feel about how they treat you. Be aggressive and stand your ground, but don't be violent. Try not to actually insult them back though, because that will only make things worse. Just make sure that they understand that you are a person and look them straight in the eye to show them that you are serious. it's great that you are a nice person, but just remember that just because you are nice, doesn't always mean that others will be nice back. If they still continue to that you like crap, then don't even hang out with them or talk to them any more, because in that case they simply don't deserve a nice friend like you, and you definitely deserve better.
Why are people mean to others?
Because it makes them feel better about themselves.
Why are some people so mean? :(?
I don't understand meaness either, Sam. Over fifty years ago when I was still in school there was a beautiful girl, from a wealth family. Now you would wonder why some with it all, would be cruel to other children through out grade school and high school. She could be mean. She made fun of me because I was tiny, wore glasses, and spoke with a lisp. She made fun of a girl with a painful skin condition, she made fun of a boy with a hunch back. Most of us were able to let it go, knowing we treated others with kindness and respect. I have been out of school for over fifty years, have raised a family and stayed married to the same man until he died. The job working at school was so enjoyable, and because I and others had been made fun of, it taught me compassion for the children who were made fun of and I did not tolerate unkindness of one another when I was on the job. If you can take the unkind things that happen to you, and it teaches you kindness and compassion, then you are on the upside. People will like you for the good person you are, and those who do make fun of you are the ones with the problem. Remember the mean girl I spoke of? She ended up in pretty tough shape because she got mixed up with the wrong people. The rough life ruined her looks. She never came to any of our class reunions that we had every 5 or 10 years. Most of those of us who were mare fun of, not all, turned out to be happy and successful people. I hope you can use your experiences to build your character and find success in your life. Right now though, if the teasing becomes intolerable, please tell someone you trust. Do not respond in angry tones to those mean people, because it may anger them and make things worse. Realize that they are the ones with the problem and not you. You know who you are. Blessings and happy wishes to you. I am typing on an iPad so please forgve any auto corrects you see here. :-)
Why are people so mean to each other?
Just like the saying goes, "Misery loves company." Most people today are very unhappy and frustrated with life in general. We are over-worked & under-paid; told that we are not good-looking enough without surgical enhancements or starving ourselves; bombarded with negative events in the news every hour of every day; we're taught that we have no control over our actions and don't have to accept responsibility for our behaviors (it's always your choice); lacking disipline, values and proper guidence; etc; etc. In a nutshell the selfish ones only want everyone else to be as miserable as they are.
Why are people so mean on YA these days ?
I keep getting a lot of mean answers mostly on the weekends from either mean level 7 trolls or Anonymous trolls. I see other people get the same treatment. These creepy Anonymous trolls keep calling everyone " crying troll ". Some Anonymous troll just gave me a mean answer saying I should have sex with my 2 year old daughter WTF. Also some people on here can't read or are blind because some keep thinking I'm a girl I'm a guy. Why are there so many mean people here on YA anymore ? When will it end and where are all the nice users from a decade ago ?
Why are some people mean?
A few years ago someone told me “you spot it you got it”. I wasn't totally sure what that meant but over time it has started to make sense.Ultimately what it means is that which we dislike in others is the thing we don't want to see in ourselves. It a trick of the mind that at the moment I'm not sure how to explain (I'm sick and not thinking clearly). If you Google emotional projection I'm sure you'll find a good description.Ultimately I've had learn that what other people think, say or do has no effect on me unless I allow it. What people think about me has nothing to do with who I am and everything to do with how they see the world. Same thing is true of me how I see other people actually tells me nothing about them and everything to do with me.Fortunately there are a lot of things I can do to change the way I see the world. Today I see a lot more beauty than hate because that is what I focus my energy on.Good luck!
Why are yahoo answers people so mean?
Because they don't have heart. Inhuman
Why are people so cruel and mean? ?
Great question. It is true there sure seems to be so many people who find great pleasure in hurting others and making life difficult for those they do not care for. But there is another side to this as well. We also are always looking out to make sure that we get what we want in life too. Now I understand that most of us do not perhaps go to the same extremes that others do, but we have to at least be honest enough to take a look at the root level of how we all operate towards one another before we can begin to throw stones as they say. Here is one of the greatest videos I have ever watched regarding how we truly feel about other people based on how we feel about ourselves. I think you might find it not only helps in finding an answer to your question, but more importantly as it did for me, show you a whole lot about our own self's and how we "really love" and care for those around us. I wish you well in finding the answers you are searching for. I hope you find the video as interesting as I did, and if so, there is a second link there at the bottom for a free online class that will teach you so much more about human nature and what we can do as individuals to begin to live life the way in which we were intended. Best wishes to you! Peace......River