How can someone feel so much hate towards another person?
Hatred stems from intense emotions in the hater that are the result of unresolved conflict within themselves. Hatred is not rational or logical. People who are secure with themselves and happy with their lives , do not feel compelled to hate or put down others . Hate is a waste of time and energy. It only serves to infuriate the hater and keep him in his own hell. Haters avoid confronting the reality of their own lives and dysfunction, and to viciously hate and keep hating, IS dysfunction. Hate doesn't make you feel good. Hate makes you angry and tense and bitter. Now, we can legitimately be hurt by another person and feel rage , which shares components with hate. Regardless, I've known haters, and they are very negative individuals, they spend an exorbitant amount of time hating, they appear bitter, and they also gossip a lot. I never met a productive or ambitious hater. They seem to thrive on hate, on dysfunction, on advising others why you should hate, too. Hardly happy or secure, they lack self knowledge and never ever see themselves as the problem, but heck yeah, they ARE the problem. All that effort and time hating someone else…..could have been spent doing great things in their lives and in the world. A logical rational person would be able to put things in perspective and deal with it in a more healthy mature way. So, personally, I don't see haters as healthy, mature, logical, or even very smart. When you let your own problems grow and deny your own role in your dysfunctional life, it's the perfect formula for hate and bitterness. Whatever the reason they hate, the reality is, they are choosing to feel that and act on it. Oh, and they like to play the victim, too, when they know their actions are wrong. They will never admit it. They feed off hate. If you come across a hater, run away. Until they grow up, they can only bring you down or bore you with the constant complaining.
Why do people hate a person who drives a nice car?
as a person who drives a well kept and well maintained, regularly serviced tuner car, i guess its more of wat they have missed out on and wat they cant get. ive only had my car just 2 years and ppl act so jealous, even at stoplights! they give me sour/dirty looks, stare and complain i dont deserve my car. most of the time theyre driving sum domestic, neglected jalopy; like a buick, chevy, or chyrsler. most of the time they r driving sum ratty, POS mini-van with sum screamin kids in tha backseat. and then it breaks down, causing tons of traffic. sux 2 b them..... just b glad u drive a nice car most ppl cant even dream of owning and that u dont have 2 put up with the crap they do on a daily basis. i wish i met more ppl who cared about cars as much as i do!
Why do people make fun of other people for no reason?
Now, I live in NYC, so you know how messed up people are, but anyway sometimes people get made fun of, including myself, for no specific reason. Now, I know that I'm not an ugly person. I'm 15 and a lot of adults say how I'm pretty and beautiful. What I don't understand is that sometimes I could walk someplace. Let's say the train, the bus, a restaurant for example, sometimes someone happens to be talking and laughing at me. A person that I don't even know. Like, why the hell is this person laughing at me? Like, what did I do to you? Do you know me and do I know you? I don't think so. I don't do anything wrong in public for people to make fun of me. I don't look funny, I'm not overweight, I don't dress in anyway funny or unusual, I always comb my hair neatly and it's never messy most of the time. I don't bother anybody, but I'm pretty shy. I mean real shy. Shy to the point that I might have a mental condition called social anxiety disorder. But anyway, the point I'm trying to figure out here is why do people make fun of other people for no reason? Is it jealousy? I mean I could never make fun of another person. I wasn't raised in that manner and If I felt in anyway insecure about myself, I sure wouldn't take it out on other people like that.
Why do people like to gang up on just one person?
You were the scapegoat for WHAT? Sometimes a lot of people will join a group where they all have the same identical mentality. It's easier to pair up with people who think the way you do, especially when you have such a narrow mind ^_^. People who present themselves in that manner usually do so because it's the only way they can feel good about themselves. In fact people who ACT superior usually suffer from an inferiority complex and make a habit of projecting themselves on others. THEY feel inferior so they try their best to MAKE YOU FEEL inferior. Then of course you have people who are just plain old mean spirited as well as those who have an inability to think for themselves who usually follow and go along with anything just to fit somewhere. I would absolutely love to tell you this changes as you grow older, but unfortunately SOME women NEVER grow up or become 'nice' with age. So your best option is to completely ignore them. Do not let them know they affected you, because THAT, my dear, is what they feed off of. As soon as they realize they cannot affect you the sooner they will be off to hunt for their next victim. I highly recommend you read 'Mean Girls Grown Up' -Cheryl Dellasega Ph.D. This book basically discusses adult women who are STILL "Queen Bees," "Middle Bees," and "Afraid-To-Bees."
Are people with dementia mean, cruel and hateful?
Dear Sir or Madam, I have a relative who has dementia. He has also had two strokes. His not a nice person and is very hateful, cruel and mean to her family (some not all and is very selective). Do you think he realizes what she is doing to her family? He truely is a coward and all his life nobody has liked him except his wife. And i mean no one. If anything it just has gotten worst over the years. . .he's allways has been mean to his step children and step grand children. We try our best to ignore him by putting on head phones and everything else. He lies, and he acts nice but when he's alone with you he stalks you says things under his breath about you and looks for trouble. I feel like I am up to my ears with him. I cannot and willnot take his hatefulness anymore. Everyone in the family keeps it hush hush. I HAVE HAD ENOUGH OF HIM. Thank you for your reply and kindness. Thank God and long live good people of this world. Sincerely, Mark
What reasons would a person dislike another person when that person hasn't been cruel to anybody?
Envy . Envy is the biggest reason.Fear basically , fear manifests in numerous ways , envy is one, intimidation is another , lack of understanding..Someone fear based is going to get highly uncomfortable around someone fearless. See what I mean? Many times certain people challenge us emotionally and mentally and force us to look at ourselves, and we might not like what we see.When someone is something we wish we could be, we usually resent them.Another big reason I see is just projection. You meet someone that reminds you of yourself ten years ago, or someone that is reflecting back to you something you are. Not everyone does this and it doesn't happen as often as they say but it does happen.Sometimes people can just tell what a person is all about. Some people can read people really well. Sometimes its very simple and someone meets someone and they know, they can tell that person is an abuser or a drug addict or any number of things. Probably because they've experienced that type of person before . So its a mixture of resentment from the past and a knowledge of today.But not liking someone instantly , is always about us. It isnt a normal or typical reaction to have .. its about our fear or resentment or jealousy.In fact I would risk it to say that the more a person does this, meets people and doesn't like them, the more baggage they have. Issues.