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Why Are Some People Likeable By Everyone And No One Hates Them While Others Don

What makes someone become instantly unlikable to everyone he/she meets?

Body language that is out of sync when talking with another person. E.g. when the person fidgets, looks away from the other person's face too much or has an awkward body language. (It is a subconscious process mostly) Arrogance. There is a difference between confidence and having too much of it. No one wants to be with arrogant people. (Unless they do not have any self-esteem at all)Overtly showing your own skills too much can backfire instead. For example, it is cool that you could juggle a few balls, but if you juggle like 10 balls at once, most people would be weird out by it. It could make you less likeable.People who do not know how to joke. Some jokes are good, but they don't time them right so the execution is poor. Other jokes are flat out not good at all.I do not like to say it, but sometimes some people may just dislike you outright just because of your physical appearances, personality or the way you do things. These are pretty unfortunate if you ever meet one.IQ may be correlated to likability. If your IQ is too low, most people are not willing to speak with someone who is considered "retarded". In contrast, people who have high IQ are alienated because they have completely different interest than the general populace. Plus they may speak niche topics that most people are not interested/do not care about it.People who don't listen to others. They would not care about the fact that others are still talking. The oblivious ones that don't know when they should listen are not that bad - compared to the ones that would speak once someone stops talking. Most people (including myself) don't like it.Like 7, people who interrupt other people talking just so that they could have their go. These people lack social etiquette. I especially hate this. Being interrupted by someone is not fun at all.Obliviousness. People who miss social cues that it is their turn to speak, they want to leave conversations, those who keep on staring at you or away from you are often disliked. It may be because of lack of experience in socializing when they were young.Another thing I don't like to say is: Body odour. I know it is genetic, but some people seriously have very strong odour emanating from their body. Most probably won't dare to tell (due to politeness), but it could make you less likely to be talked to. Get some deodorant if possible.

How To be Liked By EVERYONE???

thats a good resolution....but im not so sure its a possible one..maybe u should change it to,try to be liked by everyone.
its not possible cus once u are liked by everyone...people will start to get jelouse by u and that means they dont like u. so just be nice and do the best u can to be liked and be yourself

Which would you rather, be loved by none but liked by all OR loved by one but liked by none?

liked by all but loved by none.

i rather have a whole bunch of people i can turn to than just one person. i dont want to just depend on an individual if i ever need help just because everybody else hates me.

but like the first guy, i dont need anybody cuz i'm gonna make it on my own anyways

Why does everyone like to or why is it so popular to root against Roger Federer?

As with all those who believe successful people should be taken down a notch, they are always the noisiest ones. They generate more publicity, and are much more loud. Take Djokovic for example. After he beat Federer in the Aussie Open, he beat his breasts as if to say "I slayed the dragon", but really, not many were impressed with his antics. There are millions out there like me, who geneuinely root for Roger but do not deem it necessary to diss other players to put Roger on top. There is absolutely no need for that, especially now that he has bounced back from a string of defeats and is holding his head up high again after a bout with serious illness this year.

For this same reason, I truly respect Nadal. He is a good sportsman, and respects Federer so much. While it will make me sad if he wrests Wimbledon from Roger this year, I will not cry, because he is also a likeable fellow.

And yes, Roger is pretty uncontroversial, and boring, much like Michael Jordan off-court. But that's the common denominator about great men, they do not need to call attention to themselves, their brilliance just effortlessly shows. :)

Why do people hate puerto ricans?

EVERYONE LISTENS TO THE STEREOTYPES THAT SOCIETY HAS BRANDED MANY ETHNIC GROUPS WITH, SO PUERTO RICANS ARE KNOWN TO BE IN GANGS, DEAL DRUGS, AND THE LIKES, BUT MY DAUGHTERS,GRANDDAUGHTER AND SON-IN-LAW ARE ALL PUERTO RICAN AND HAVE NEVER HAD A PROBLEM EXCEPT WHEN WE LIVED IN OHIO FOR A WHILE BUT THE WHITE PEOPLE THERE CALLED THEM N******, BUT I RAISED MY GIRLS TO BELIEVE THAT COLORS ARE FOR CRAYONS, STATISTICS ALSO SAY THAT HISPANICS WITH NO FATHERS AT HOME HAVE TEEN PREGNANCIES, USE DRUG AND BECOME DROP OUTS, I CHANGED THAT, MY OLDEST DAUGHTER IS MARRIED AND HAS A 4 YEAR OLD AND GRADUATES COLLEGE IN OCT. AND IS HAVING BABY NUMBER TWO IN JAN. AND MY YOUNGEST IS IN THE ARMY, BOTH H.S. GRADUATES, MY GIRLS NEVER REALLY WERE TROUBLE MAKERS AND I RAISED THEM ON MY OWN, SO PEOPLE HATE BECAUSE THEY WANT TO, SO BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE AND BECOME WHO YOU WANT TO BE AND TELL THE HATERS YOU LOVE YOURSELF AND YOU FEEL BAD BECAUSE THEY DON'T.