Why do most women prefer successful men?
It is very clear to me now, why most girls prefer successful men. It was not clear to me when I was 30 years younger. It was most frustrating. I was reasonably clever and reasonably good looking, but lonely.Achievements came to me at a slow pace. Gradually I rose through the ranks, and gradually I started feeling more and more attention from my female coworkers. At certain point I started to get some quite frank invitations. I was really puzzled by this phenomenon. I was getting older, less energetic, less good looking, but somehow more attractive to the women around me. I started to ask myself, what newly acquired qualities make me that attractive? The only possible answer was that it is my professional success. This success was associated with power and money, but I don't think that these were the main reasons for my sudden attractiveness. It was my professional confidence and my ability to induce confidence in those around me that brought the adoration of the opposite sex.We all want to associate ourselves with success. Being loved by a successful man is important for a woman even in our egalitarian world. From the point of view of evolution it makes a lot of sense for a woman to have a relationship with a successful man, it is increasing the chance for survival of the offspring.But who cares about the evolution when you have all the attention that you were missing while growing up?
Do guys really appreciate modesty? For guys only!?
I give you a lot of credit. You seem like a real classy person. These days, it's (unfortunately) way too common to see girls dressing provocatively in order to get guys' attention. Short skirts and boobs hanging out. It's quite disparaging. The truth is, these girls are attracting the wrong kind of attention. If you are seeking a decent gentleman to capture you, then he should be more attracted to your heart, character, morals, and sense of humor -- rather than lust after your physical beauty. Don't change.
What do you call a confident outspoken conservative woman?
Are you sure this so-called "confident" Michelle Bachmann-type woman is really truly confident when they spew their pimple-pus-regurgitating hated against other people based solely on ethnicity or political party? Are you sure this so-called "conservative" woman is not, in actuality, a religious-fanatic extremist who is part of the ongoing right-wing Republicans' efforts to stage a THEOCRATIC COUP here in the United States, taking "dominion" over every level of government ["the Beast" to these extremists] at the local, state, and federal level in order to cram their idiotic narrow-minded WRONG "religion" down everyone else's throats (pun intended)? Are you sure this so-called "outspoken" quality is not simply INTOLERANCE of others' views and a MILITANT HATE-MONGERING that incites hate-based actions against innocent others? If you can assure us that these elements are as benign as you have portrayed them to be...then maybe a truly confident (not a pretender who is repressed and overcompensating for hidden self-loathings who puts on a facade of self-assuredness) woman who is resistant to or fearful of change (the definition of conservative) who speaks out without hyped or hyperboled propagandized bile-spews would be well-received as a woman of the times. I doubt that you can give these assurances, however.
What's the real reason why young men of this generation no longer the exhibit macho qualities their great grandfathers did?
They are not survival skills that best suit their needs in the current state of society. Also, that is a Western view, and lots of cultures never were like that as a general view of men, and lots of cultures are still like that.I really recommend some world travel. I haven’t done a huge amount but enough to know, it’s different all over.Go to Mexico. men of all ages are pretty macho there and it is considered the general view women should not walk the streets alone. I have some, and they are quite bold about engaging you in conversations.On the other hand, go to Thailand. The younger ones are getting a bit more macho with the Westernization of their culture, (give a young guy a pick up and he’ll act like it’s an extension of his balls), but for the most part, walking the streets felt safer there than here at home in Canada. Men and women alike there, are fairly soft spoken. Self discipline is considered important regardless of your sex.In my case, coming from a very patriarchal home, when I had two sons, one of my main goals was to raise conscientious young men who would put being kind, first and foremost as a human trait desired in all, regardless of sex. I am sure many other women of my generation felt the same about raising the latest generation of young men.Young people forget to appreciate how recently a lot of laws benefiting women and children were created. When I was growing up there was no such thing as emotional ‘abuse’. It simply did not exist. I first got married in 1984, and I think it was in 1985 that the law changed so that a husband could be accused of raping his wife. Before that, anything a husband did to his wife sexually, was acceptable.To be overbearing and macho doesn’t serve the everyday needs of the Western raised men today, but like I said, as seen in Thailand, macho is one of the newly adopted Western traits among young males.
How has the role of women in latin america changed?
women and men in latin america are treated equally
Why don't women fall in love with guys who really care for them?
Read this carefully. It might answer your question.A guy I knew from high school happened to be a “nice guy”. I never was interested in him but did believe he would land a girl just as sweet as him someday. He was so sweet. He and I would talk occasionally. He seemed like an approachable guy who wouldn’t behave like a butt hole like some others I knew. He would help out people a lot and was kind. Sometimes I would think how someone like him could be single. He wasn’t a go-getter type when it comes to girls.This guy never showed any interest in me and went on to date some girls in college. We did not get to meet face-to-face after high school. I once noticed him grinning when a bunch of his friends they made misogynistic jokes on my girl friends. Soon after college, he texted me once and showed interest in me. I was shocked. I never really saw him as anything more than a nice friend. That was all. But alas!I had to respond whether I accepted his advances or not. I rejected him. I was asked for a reason. I told him that I only saw him as a nice friend. He was heart-broken (I believe). He asked me again and again. I denied him each time. Then he asked me the reason as well. I told him with full honesty that I did not like him that way. He once texted me. “The girls; they all tell me that I am a very nice guy.” I was like, “Me too. But that doesn't make me attracted to you romantically.” He is still waiting for me to say yes, even after I specifically told him that I wasn’t interested in him.Did you guys notice it? Did you notice why I outright denied this nice guy?There was the misogynistic take. Any guy, not matter how sweet, if he is misogynistic on the inside, there’s no point.He kept using his sweetness to get me. I don’t like guys just because they are sweet. I have certain criteria which guys need to fit if they want me to perceive them as attractive guys. Some of which include a passion to travel, not being a chauvinist and admit mistakes when he’s wrong, not blindly following someone when he knows they are wrong, chivalry and similar interests as me. He didn’t fit all the categories.Just because you’re a nice guy, doesn’t mean that girls should feel lucky if you like them. Being sweet is a good thing. But if that’s all you’ve got, then your pool of selection will be limited. There is more to life than just sweetness.
How to impress women?
Be intelligent, witty, and humorous and above all respect their desires.