Why can't I feel good about myself?
It is important that you feel good about yourself. More and more scientific evidence points towards a significant link between how you feel about yourself and your overall health and sense of well-being. Scientists have proven that feelings of inferiority have the capacity to pave the way to illness or disease.Our emotional state can be affected by a lot of things the environment we are in, the people we are with, the weather, the food we eat, how much sleep we’ve had, and so on. Feeling insecure, incapable and inadequate once in a while is part of being human, what matters is that you are able to make yourself feel better again.Step 1: Reframe your identity-If you were asked to describe yourself, what would you say? What be the first adjectives that you would come out with?A person’s self-worth can be assessed by the first five words that he would use to answer this question. If you answer with negative adjectives, then you would need to redefine how you think about yourself. Instead of focusing on the shortfalls in your life, bring to mind things that make you special.Step 2: Challenge negative self-talk-Make it a point to conquer self-defeating thoughts with positive and realistic thinking.Step 3: Take time for yourself-In this world where everyone and everything seems to be in a rush, most of us don’t make ourselves a priority.Make it a point that you allocate a certain amount of time each day for yourself to do things you love. Paying attention to yourself has been proven to improve self-esteem and feelings of self worth.It is impossible for anyone to feel perfectly happy about who he is for their entire life. We are all bound to feel inferior or insecure every once in a while. Fortunately, our thoughts and feelings are not permanent and there are so many ways to love, accept and feel good about ourselves.“Love yourself” is what I can say….then only we will be able to love others….
Why does being myself feel so good?
I think that’s the best feeling one can actually feel and live with. Seldom do people truly realize such a simple statement and the meaning behind “feels good to be myself”. That’s because so many people either realize or don’t realize that they are caught up in the hustle and bustle of busy life and find that life sort of slips away. They often live that life only in pretense either to please someone else or are desperate to believe that they can be someone else. (which they really are not). Such people will never feel good about themselves and will always find faults with life and others surrounding them.You feel so good being yourself, because you are true to yourself and others around you. Commonly said, first try being honest to yourself, its only then that you can even begin to be honest to others. In this materialistic and selfish world, people often blame the world for making them dishonest and find it so easy to state “this is what life has made me”. This is just a foolish excuse to hide behind the truth.Very few people find the strength to face the truth, stand for it and won’t be afraid to speak their mind. They are straightforward and hate beating behind the bushes. They have a clear conscious, will not intentionally hurt someone for their selfish gains and will have all the reasons to feel good about themselves.Frankly, life can be so much easier to live it this way - it’s only when you know to live with yourself and be happy within - it’s only then that life can also be seen simple and less complex.
How to make you feel good about yourself?
well i remember when i was like this, to make you feel happy i surrounded myself with people that trust me and that love me for who i am. if you dont have NO ONE, i say try making new friends and try to expose your personality to others and people would love to be your friend. ( i bet you have a great personality!) Also, i think that you should talk to someone about your feelings, its a good way to let your emotions out then just keep them in, the last thing you want is to fall apart. talk to a therapist or anyone! someone that will never ever judge you! ( you can email me if you want :) mrs. matt_tuck@yahoo.com if you ever need help with anything) Hope this helped :D <3 Cindy
Why does it not feel good when i finger myself?
There is absolutley nothing wrong with you. Most women do not get pleasure just out of fingering 1. Because your fingers may not be long enough 2. It is almost impossible to get pleasure from your own skin, take this for example; can you tickle yourself? No, because the nerves of the skin on skin don't know which to stimulate, so it's nearly impossible. 3. It's much more pleasureable if u use the end of a rounded hairbrush, tooth brush, shampoo bottle, bath jets, fruit, etc... It may sound weird but it's much more enjoyable, also u will want to stimulate the clitoris, this will help you achieve an orgasim. By the way, if u run bath water or jets on your clitoris this will probubly give u the best chance at a speedy full on every single time orgasim, trust me, u will feel this rush of electricity every where and ur toes will curl and u will want to scream !!! But right before u get there u will want to stop, but don't, just keep going. Happy masterbating!!!
Why When I finger myself it doesn't it feel good? ?
I'm 14 and I barely finger myself but when I do, I feel it In me but it doesNt feel good. I kinda have small fingers but when I try a pen(non-pointy side) it hurts a little if u go to far but it doesn't feel good. I'm a virgin and I want it to feel good when I finger myself. but why doesn't it feel good? when I have sex when I get older would it feel Alot better then fingering?
How come when I finger myself it doesn't feel good?
for females, its not the sticking in part that is pleasurable, it is the clitoris which is just outside the hole. if you play a bit and find it then start to rub and play with it and that should start to feel good. it is a bumpy/fleshy bit. some people find pinching, rubbing, flicking, etc feel good. do what feels comfortable and natural for you, you will soo get the art of it. Good luck