I can't memorize restaurant menu for job?
1. Start with each page. What is each page about? For example, maybe one page is appetizers, one is salads, one is entrees, one is desserts... Memorize that. Try to memorize what each page looks like, what the pictures are, what the layout is, and the section titles. For example, one page may have a section for soups and another for salads. 2. Okay, Now pick a section and memorize its list of items. Maybe there are 5 desserts. What are they? Maybe there are 8 kinds of cheeseburgers. Rather than memorizing the ingredients of each one, figure out what makes each one different. Maybe they all come with a beef patty on a bullky roll, but some are 1/4 pounders and some are 1/3 pounders. Maybe one has cheddar cheese and another has Swiss cheese. Do this until you can list the items in each section. 3. Now work on those ingredients. Once you know the menu items, it should be easier to remember which has which ingredients. 4. When you take a break and come back for more reviewing, start again at step 1 and go through each of the steps again.
Is this letter to Alan Simpson, Senator from Wyoming, what you are thinking?
Man, can I copy this, it send to all the lawmakers in the U.S?
What are some good songs to listen to while you're feeling depressed?
Incredibly good question Jerald..Two ways to view the question..are you at the introspective end of a run of depression..?Or are you at the “devastating public flogging” end of a run of depression?“Being Depressed” is a funny thing…many take the idea of depressing personal moments as primarily of a romantic question..and a more “daily” depression being more benign and frankly, of a nature that could be construed as “less consequential” in society..LOL.So I’m thinking I’m going to not worry about the “romantic/platonic” question and simply say..The clip below is something I have listened to many times over the past twenty three years..because I’m wallowing and I know I am going to continue to be depressed for hours to come..”introspective”. ..The usual funk/disco sorta’ thing to get myself out of a depressed state is something I will leave for another time.The tune is called “Damage”..it’s about a tragic break-up I suppose..however,the tune has never been that sort of tune for me..it’s just a sad tune that I love ..and indeed I listen to it at these times as I mentioned earlier..the tune is written by the vocalist, David Sylvian.Some may remember his (if you will) New Wave group from the late 70’s/early 80’s..they were called “Japan”.Sylvian is one of the greatest songwriters I have ever heard..and here he is joined by the incomparable Robert Fripp-the mastermind of (arguably) the greatest prog band of all time, King Crimson..along with the great Trey Gunn on Chapman Stick..This song could indeed be called depressed in nature..but brilliant?Absolutely.Incidentally, I also love listening to “The Days Of Wine & Roses” ..an old standard that originated in Hollywood..Many jazz musicians have performed it over the years....and Beethoven’s Seventh Symphony..especially the second movement..and if you can hear it conducted by Karajan that’s gonna’ be a plus.Best to you..
What is the difference between India and the United States of America?
Americans-Americans can do any sort of work such as sweeping, mopping, waiters, etc. without any prestige issue.Parents are not much concerned about their children.Every profession is respected by the people.Parents don’t stick to their children after a particular age.Can wear any uniform or dresses in schools.Divorce and multiple marriages are a common thing.A waiter’s average salary there is about 400$ (₹25,000) a week.They get paid according to work hours and weekly.Their parents don’t beat their children.A small child demands something from his parents. If the parents agree he get’s it, if they don’t he doesn’t.They don’t hesitate in proposing girls or boys.They get presents from their relatives and parents on their birthdays or Christmas.Refunding and returning is not an issue there.Traffic rules are really strict there.Majority of beggars there either play music or show their talents roadside to earn money.Neither children nor parents are much emotionally attached to each other.They don’t care about politics of other countries.Marriage is not a big issue there.Indians-Unemployed people often reject jobs of salesman or waiters due to prestige issues.Parents are concerned about their children more than themselves.People make fun of professions with less salaries.Parents stick to their children at every phase of their life.Have to wear particular proper uniform to school.Divorce is considered a huge issue and society never accepts it.Average highly qualified engineer’s salary is less than ₹25,000.They get paid monthly.Parents beat their children if they don’t eat food.A small child demands something. If the parents agree he gets it, if they don’t, the child lays down on the road.They hesitate while proposing a girl or boy. Some don’t even say them.Majority of Indians don’t even celebrate birthdays or festivals.You will only get refund from a store if you win the argument.Drinking while driving? No problem, just give the police ₹500.Beggars earn thousands of money just by sitting roadside and asking for money ‘IN THE NAME OF GOD’.Indians are most attached to their parents and children.Indians show very much concern about other countries politics.Marriage is a depression for parents in India.RayJay
How do you select figure skates for beginners (adult)?
It all depends on what you’re planning to do and what your goals are. If all you want to do is go to the ice rink every now and then and glide along with the other recreational skaters but don’t want to wear rentals, you can get recreational skates that have small toe picks and a soft boot because you don’t need a lot of ankle support. They retail between $60 and $120. However, if you’re more serious and are planning to take lessons and want to get to the jumps and spins, I suggest a sturdier boot. You can purchase boots and blades separately or together and most beginner skates are sold together. Just take note that boots come with different degrees of stiffness or support levels, starting with 10 for a soft boot and 100 for the stiffest. For an adult beginner I recommend the Jackson Glacier which has a support level of 15 or Jackson Mystique with about the same level of support. There are also instructional skates from Riedell with support levels from 20 to 40. Your best bet is to ask your coach if you have one. You do have to consider that the level of support goes up as you advance your skills so an Edea Piano with support level of 95 will be too much for a beginner because it’s meant to be used for jumping triples and quads. In my own personal experience, I started with a Riedell with support level of 25, moved to a Risport Excellence with support level of 40 and am currently with an Edea Chorus (70 support) and I’m attempting the Axel jump. As for size, about the same that you wear for shoes. Retailers often ask for you to draw an outline of your foot on a piece of paper and then measure it from heel to toe and send it to them if you’re going to buy online. if you’re going to the store, you can take out the inner sole and step on it and there should be about 1/2 inch between your toe and the end of the sole. They have to fit snugly. I hope this helps. Happy skating.
If a narcissist hoovers, the victim doesn't get sucked back in, and this cycle continues, how long will he/she continue to return and hoover again if the victim was a great and likely irreplaceable supply source?
A true narcissist will always play the Hoover game when the relationship ends. Most victims of their heart wrenching tactics will usually respond and that's why the cycle continues. Now, its almost incomprehensible to the narcissist that you will not respond or instantly dive back into their pool of perfection. If the victim doesn't take the bait, then that person is going to find themselves in a whole new phase. The love bombing antics will increase in an effort to prove their love for you. If you still hold your ground by not giving in, you will have just designated yourself as the forbidden fruit. and we are all familiar with the phrase of we all want what we cannot have. So welcome to the not so pretty phase of desperation. The narcissist will amp up their number of calls, they'll come up with all sorts of reasons that they need to see you, they'll cruise your social media almost to the extent of stalkerish behavior. A true narcissist will want to know why you aren't running back into their arms. After all, at one point in time, you centered your universe around their desires. They'll probably assume that you are seeing someone else. The next phase will be the proverbial narcissistic rage. For this phase, you should be prepared for a whole new level of hell. You'll get nasty texts, if you speak with them then you'll probably be cussed out, they'll spread ugly rumors about you to friends and family… the dark possibilities are wide open. And their new goal is now to hurt you because you have hurt them. The hovering will continue for awhile and theres not really a time limit on that. I've known some that have continued the game for years. Sooner or later the narcissist will quit contacting you but they continue to hover because they are looking to see if you are happy without them. They want to see proof that your life is in the shambles of utter misery because you haven't included them in your life anymore. Theres really no telling how long the narcissist will hover. But, tget can't break their own cycle so it's going to be awhile.
My ex-boyfriend of three years left me because he didn’t believe in commitment yet he married the woman after me after a year of dating. What’s wrong with me? Why wasn’t I enough for him?
It wasn’t a matter of you not being enough for him, sweetie. It was a matter of him using you as a regular booty call (with added benefits) while he scoped out the territory. That’s on him.If he had been honest with you about this from the start, you wouldn’t have gotten involved, I suspect. Obviously you have some winning features for him to keep you around for three years. Him saying that he doesn’t believe in marriage is a cop-out, IMHO. Basically, it was a lie. His intentions toward you were not honorable. But how was he going to get what he wanted out of you if he told you the truth?This is a reflection of his character, and not yours. So don’t blame yourself. Three years is a long time to waste on a fruitless relationship, though I suspect that there are many who have frittered away a lot more. Look at all of the questions on Quora from people who have been in uncommitted relationships for five, ten, fifteen plus years only to have the same thing happen to them. At least you didn’t squander a decade of your life away!Next time around, make it clear to the gentleman in question that you expect commitment and marriage out of a relationship. That will sort the wheat from the chaff very quickly.