Help my girlfriend is hurting herself?
Okay, so I used to cut myself as well. All I wanted to know was that someone was there and that someone loved me. I was going through a really rough patch in my life and I got really depressed and the only one I wanted to be with was my boyfriend. Just let her know that you love her and tell someone you trust about this, just to get it off your chest. If you want to talk more about this, email me-bostonreds224@yahoo.com. I'm willing to talk, only because after I went through this my boyfriend went trough this and just like me, he just needed a friend.
My girlfriend said she's going to hurt herself. What should I do?
I’m sorry you’re in the position as there is no way to prepare for how you are supposed to handle something like this. In saying that here’s what handling things the wrong way numerous times has taught me which is this is not your responsibility. I’m not saying you should stop caring about her but you do need to immediately set some rigid boundaries with her. I hope she’s just crying for help or attention and not serious but you see my friend that’s not a risk you can take and it’s quite sick of her to even put this on your back instead of taking responsibility for her emotional well being. This is not ok.My advice would be to go talk with her ASAP and explain to her that you love her but that you’re not able to take the chance and have to live with her hurting herself and you knowing you could have stopped it. Tell her that the next time she says something similar to you you’re letting her know right now that you will call the authorities to come and help her as you obviously can’t. Set the expectations and then the tough part is you must follow through and stand firm otherwise her behavior will never stop. The truth is we teach others how to treat us so start treating yourself better and I believe you will in return start feeling better.
Why does it hurt my Girlfriend to finger herself?
No matter how aroused she is no matter how wet she is it feels very uncomfortable for her to finger herself. She can barly slide any finger in further than the first knuckle and she cant take that even. Shes not coming in contact with her hymen she has no past traumatic stresses in her life and she is increadably comfortable with me even offering to do it sometimes just to turn me on.. ( she still moans from it.) In any case shes comfortable enough to do at least that so its not stress tensing her up and she menstrates so its not a sealed hymen any idea what this could be? im pretty sure its not vagismisus (sp?) Im a little worried for her.
How to stop my girlfriend from cutting herself?
I've been with my girlfriend for a little while now, and I always knew she had a cutting problem before I came into the picture but I thought it'd practically stopped. Last weekend she went to a concert and the day after I was with her and saw a cut on her hip. She told me it was from getting pushed around at the concert and she cut herself on a gate. Tonight, I found out from her that she had actually done that herself. I love her to death and she's the best thing to ever happen to me, without a doubt in my mind. I know it sounds sappy but it's the godhonest truth. I need to know the best route to take. I'm afraid I'm going to lose her if she doesn't stop.
How to help my girlfriend to stop scratching herself?
My girlfriend is 18 and has been cutting for a while now. I finally got her to stop cutting herself. But anytime something bad enough happens she scratches herself. How do I help her stop. I tell her she's to beautiful, and if im around the only way to stop her from doing it is to physically hold her arms and make her either stop or make her scratch me instead. But when im not around I cant do anything about it. Ive told her how much it means to me. Every time she does it she tells me and always appologizes. Does she really mean this or just not want me to get mad? It only happens in really bad situations and she doesnt do it after whatever happened is done with just during it or directly after. This makes me feel horrible, it tears mea apart when she does it and she knows it does but does it anyways. I wonder if she does it and thinks about it or if she just does it like an addiction. Please help! It tears me up mentally when she does it. -Thanks in advance.
My girlfriend is cutting herself. what should i do to help her?
last night me and my girlfriend went to a basketball game and as she took of her sweater i saw a cut mark on her arm i asked her about it right there and she said it was nothing.... then later that night i asked her about it again when we were all alone and she told me that she had cut herself afew weeks ago... what can i do to help her?