Me and my mom argued and I feel bad?
I was arguing with her because I was talking about how I wish she was a family woman that would spend time with her family members such as aunties, uncles, cousins, nephews and nieces on her side and my father side but she would only see her mom, sisters, brothers and that's it, no other outside her family. And I been hanging out with my cousin a lot and she is friends with everybody my mom AND dads side (her mom is my moms sister and her dad is my dads brother) and I'm friends with only half. I just wanted my mom to be like my cousin even though her parents don't of visit family a lot like she does and neither does my dad or big brother. But I realize that the argument was pointless and I feel bad and feel like I argued with her just to be arguing. What can I say to take all back besides "sorry?"
Why does my mom always make me feel bad?
i know she loves me and she doesn't do this on purpose, but it happens all the time. i have asthma and a heart condition that is very expensive to treat. my mom showed me the bill today and said this is what i make her and my dad have to pay. i felt bad so i gave her some money from my savings to pay for the bill. she said she didn't want it and and that it wouldn't help anyways. Also, she always says im trying to kill her, that i don't care for her, and that i want to hurt her. i don't know where she got that thought. if i really didn't care for her and my dad i wouldnt be trying my hardest at school. she makes me feel bad about my appearance, because i'm not the best looking person. sometimes she makes me feel bad and guilty about things i can't even help. I can't help that i'm not the most attractive person in the world, or that i have a heart condition, or that i'm too young to get a job. i just want to know why my mother does this. ive tried to tell her to stop multiple times, but that has just resulted in us getting in an arguement.
My mom makes me feel insecure about my body and that makes me really sad. If she wouldn't tell me I'm fat I wouldn't feel this way. I feel beautiful and sexy but then she makes me feel bad. What should I do?
My mom makes me feel insecure about my body and that makes me really sad. If she wouldn't tell me I'm fat I wouldn't feel this way. I feel beautiful and sexy but then she makes me feel bad. What should I do?Talking about my mom.She is my best critic. Whether I’m not doing well academically or getting fat, she won’t hesitate for a split second to spit it out and bash me.Suppose you are my friend. I really like you and appreciate the way you are. I will never tell you to change yourself, no matter how bad you are. You know why? - coz I don’t care that much about you.If you get fit and healthier:Its you who’ll live longer, not your mom.Its you who’ll feel more confident, not your mom.Its you who’ll look better, not your mom.I can feel extremely good about myself, no matter how fat I get. But does this “feeling” make any sense?When in reality:I am only gaining more fat.Will feel insecure while I stand with a bunch of friends who are all really fit.Inviting tons of diseases.And worst and as a result.. slowly and slowly, I’m cutting down my own life expectancy.When I came back from back home after my first year at college, I was in terrible shape. My mom got really, really mad.She put me in a tight diet control.Locked the fridge at night.Made me run hard on the treadmill and was there the entire time I used to run, to ensure I don’t cheat.Coming home after 8 months being away from her, I expected a lot of pampering, but it honestly felt like a fucking Navy seal training camp. I was disgusted and cried.But later I realized, how I actually did get a bit fat and none of my “friends” ever cared to tell me to stop eating unhealthy shit and how I would have gradually eaten myself to death if it wasn’t for my mom.Your mom is the only one who sincerely cares about you. The rest have 0 fucks to give. The earlier you understand it, the better.When I got back in shape, I was shocked how I allowed all those junky shit in my body. I felt significantly better and lighter. Also currently I take care of my body a lot and I feel extremely lively and energetic. Thanks mom!P.S - Dad on phone on the day I came back to college after summer:“Your mom cried the entire night, she felt really bad she locked the fridge at night and didn’t cook you your favourite snacks.”
I feel bad when my parents buy me stuff?
From experience, you're parents are just fine with their financial situation. Please dont stress. YES, times may be tough but they are smart... they know what they can and can not afford... Trust them, Dont feel too terrible but I know what you mean... Im a tad older than you ... I am getting married in March and I feel totally bad for my paretns.... Im keeping it simple and cost-effective but last week they bought me a car too... sooooo TRUST me..... ! If they CANT afford it, they wont buy it! :) Enjoy your uggs.... give them thanks like go to FoodNetwork.com... find a fun AWESOME recipe and cook them dinner one night.... serve dinner... clean up afterward... show your gratitude! It is a nice way for you guys to be together, have some smiles and laughs and show how appreciative you are for them...That is priceless and Im telling you, they will really have a blast! and you will too! You can also show them your so grateful for them and everything by writing a thank you card - I know tis your parents but trust me its super nice to do... dont feel bad, they are OK. And you will be too.... Technically, in this economy - Im not sure if you are old enough to realize.... but everyone is broke.... :) hahaha.... ! (only a joke ;) )!!!!