Is it ok to ask a guy i like to hang out?
I just met this guy at a show i went to last week. He was really sweet, cute, and cool. He bought me $30 worth of drinks and wouldnt let other guys dance with me and we danced and talked all night. I really feel like we hit it off..he even offered to drive me to my car when i didnt even park that far cuz it was raining. When i got home, he texted me and made sure i got home safely. The next day he texted me and suggested we hang out sometime but he didnt say when..its only been 4 days but i already miss him..should i just text him and ask to him to hang out or would that be too forward? I dont wanna seem desperate.. I might actually like him and i dont want to mess anything up.
If a guy asks me to go to the mall with him to "hang out" what does that mean?
OK, My friend emailed me and asked me if I wanted to hang out at the mall with him on Wednesday and I said I'd see if I could. Was he asking me out on a date or does he truely just want to hang out?
If a guy asks you to hang out, is he asking you on a date?
A2a..."If a guy asks you to hang out, is he asking you on a date?"The real question is, 'Does it matter what you call it'? When is a 'date' a date? When it involves the guy spending money on the girl? When the guy's motives are to get to know the girl better and vice versa?What you want to know is not 'is this a date', but 'is he looking to be romantically involved with me or does he just want to be friends'?The shy way he acts around you, plus the way he gives you attention (getting you a treat, complimenting you on your solo, asking you to hang out, have lunch) are all signs of being in love. His awkwardness might be because he's not used to asking girls out (which is good, you don't want a 'player') and is afraid to be rebuffed/rejected if he's more direct. You, on the other hand, seem to require more direct and unequivocal hints that he likes you. So, go 'hang out' with him and tell him that you like him. Give him your attention and compliment him on being attentive to your needs. He sounds like he's kind, attentive and caring, if a bit lacking in assertiveness. But assertiveness can be learned, while his base qualities are positive character traits.If you need a blessing, you have mine.
Why would a guy friend ask a girl to hang out with him alone?
It is possible that the guy has no interest in a girl but just want to hang out. Then why not hang out with his other guy friends? For me as a girl, I don't want to hang out with a guy alone if I am not interested in him. Instead, I will hang out with a group of friends. Would a guy ever think of hanging out with a girl alone just for friends?
What does it mean when a guy wants to "hang out"?
Hi it could mean a number of thingsIt could be he finds you physically attractive and wants to spend time with youOr he really feels you're a nice person and so found a quality he liked and wanted to get to know youBut chose to hang out which is a more casual term for date when he is not sure where hes taking thisEg if you notice his pupils dilating or his body pointing towards you like feet and he is facing you when you talk he's interested in what you have to say. I was sat with a guy and his legs were spread open and he then leaned in to kiss me after researching that body language sign it meant he felt horny.Another guy was sat with his feet not pointing toward me but then as he got comfortable he began to mirror my body language like folding arms, then he placed hands on knees crossed his legs and then I leaned in to him and his pupils dilated and his eyes showed a lot of love and respect and he kissed my forehead as he gently put his arm round me… That was more loving than lust he used term to hang out because he was shy to say let's date(hook up flags)Hanging out..Taking you out late…Going to watch a movie at hisAt his friends apartmentYou don't want that but how to stop this is say you're simply not ready and if he truly likes you he will wait or if he doesnt just do not get playedSo in some cases the guy wants to hang out because he wants to get to know you as a friend or more than a friend, but dont become friends with benefits just be a friend unless he wants to take you on a real dateMaybe he likes you and wants to do more with you like be your boyfriend but you won't know until you go out on a dateIf you find him fixing his collar, straightening his clothing etc he wants to impress youIf he's fidgeting, sweaty palms etc it means he's very nervous … smiling, hes cuddly but not dirty enjoys pdaThey are all good signs he likes youSome guys like the term hang out, it's cool to say I hung out with so and so, but If he doesnt take you on a date sorry you're just friends
Is it weird if a guy asks about other guys!?
*ONLY PUTTING IT HERE FOR MORE ANSWERS especially since he treats me like A FRIEND? I told him, "you're more interesting than 90% of the people in the store" He said: "And the macho guys?" I told him I didn't know and that they don't talk to me. He treats me like a friend so this question threw me off. Anyways, he didn't make a move and he is not shy. Also, he stated he didn't think he wasn't interesting..and he meant it sadly. Another time I asked for his number and he asked if I hangout with other guys. He is not gay!
When a guy says maybe to hanging out, is that leaning towards a yes or no?
Why not ask him?If I said maybe to hanging out, it would be because I wasn’t very excited about it. For me, it would be leaning no.But everyone is different. Try not to play guessing games. Be honest about things. If he’s leaning no, then no big deal, there’s lots of other guys. Or he might just be hesitating a bit for any number of reasons.What kind of a world do you want to live in - one where people are honest about their intentions and feelings, or one where we always have to guess?Sample conversation:Jody: Hey, Rick, do you want to hang out?Rick: Oh hi, Jody, umm, maybe.Jody: Is that maybe leaning yes or no? It’s okay to tell me what you’re thinking. I don’t want to put any pressure on you. I just want to know what’s going on between us.Rick: Thanks for asking me right up front about that. You see… [gives the rationale behind a maybe answer]RESULT: The two of you are on the same page and won’t have any hurt feelings or confusions.I really don’t know whether your intent is romantic or platonic. Either way, it should be pretty similar.
My girlfriend has a lot of guy friends. They always ask her to hang out alone. Should I be worried?
Thank you for the A2A, @Rochelle Thundercloud.I guess the best way I can answer this is to tell you what I myself would do if I were the girlfriend with a lot of guy friends who were asking me to hang out alone. I would politely ask my friends if my boyfriend could join us. If they said “yes,” well then, great. If they said “no,” I would decline their offer. If my male friends were just my friends and nothing more, I would hope they'd get to know my boyfriend and include him in our plans. If I had a male friend who said, “Hey, let's hang out today, just the two of us,” knowing that I had a boyfriend, I would find it inappropriate.I never had a lot of guy friends, but I had them here and there. I had a close male friend when I was in my twenties. He was unattached for most of the time we were in contact. Sometimes he and I would go to dinner together, just as friends, nothing romantic. When I began seeing the man I eventually married, I told my friend that I still wanted to have our friendship, but that I didn't think it would be appropriate to go to dinner alone with him anymore. My friend laughed and agreed, saying “Of course not! It wouldn't look right!” And it was never an issue.I know how it feels to be on the other side of it, too. At the beginning of my relationship with my husband, he had a female “best friend” who regularly invited him to do things, like parties at her house and going out with her to the bars, and she never extended her invitations to me. She also wanted to accompany him on car rides, like, say, if he had errands to run or places to go. She wanted to spend the day with him if it was his day off from work. From where I was standing, her behavior looked shady, and it didn't make me feel very good. It made me wonder what her motives were.I have also been the close friend of a guy who met a girl and began a relationship. It wouldn't have ever crossed my mind to invite him to do anything without inviting his girlfriend too. I think that inviting him to hang out one on one with me would have made it look like I wanted to be more than just friends. I would have felt like I was disrespecting his girlfriend, and I wouldn't have wanted to hurt her feelings or make her doubt my sincerity.That is my answer. I hope it helps.
Why does my girlfriend keep hanging out with another guy who asked her to be his girlfriend multiple times?
Because youre putting up with it.At the end of the day if this guy has already asked her to be his girlfriend he is not her friend. His goal is still the same and because of his goal he is an enemy to your relationship.You know this, he knows it, and subconsciously she knows it, but you haven't put your foot down and put an end to it so why would she stop?If you had two girlfriends and you girlfriend allowed it would you stop? No, you would continue having two girlfriends. Only when she deemed it to be unacceptable and showed she was willing to leave you if you did not change would you have to choose one or the other. And that's where you are, tell her it's unacceptable and be willing to walk away of she doesn't change.