Why did my ex send such a rude and hurtful response?
Is this the reason why most people are smart enough not to talk to their exes? I texted my ex boyfriend after us not speaking for two and a half months, asking him how he's been. He texted me back saying "It's been good, but I just want to let you know: I'm still not going to sleep with you." Me not putting out until we were completely official is the reason we broke up and why he cheated on me. He dumped me at PROM and proceeded to grind with the other girl he'd been seeing in front of me and went home with her. I've never once in my life asked him to sleep with me. Did 18 year old me learn a valuable lesson? It wasn't even a joke. I replied "Whoa, what was that for? I just wanted to see how you were, since it's been a while...?" He responded with:"I was just making it clear for you. How has your summer been?" It's just mind-boggling to me considering we never had sex even when he tried to get me to, so it's not like I was the thirsty one out of the two of us. BQ: are you friends with any of your exes?
Is replying "same to you" a rude response?
For example if you text someone happy thanksgiving! Merry Christmas! Happy holidays! Whatever do you think it's rude if they only reply "same to you" ? I feel like it sort of is but maybe that's just me. Other opinions ?
I said some really hurtful messed up things to my ex how do I make it right?
I wanted her to show some emotion instead of that passive crap she does so I said some stuff to piss her off to get her go off and stop holding things in. I told her stuff like she wasnt worth loving and my ex before her was way better and just kept telling her she was a waste. During the whole thing she keep saying ok over and over again until the end when she told me I just think I'm too good and to f off and to never ever try to talk to her again. What should I do?
Why did my ex boyfriend contact me with a rude message after 2.5 years? Then blocked me after
People are strange . Sending aggresive hurtful messages is his way of dealing with the hurt he is feeling . Unfortunately, for him ,all he's doing is hurting himself more . It's been 2.5 yrs . He still hurts . Hope u didn't attempt to reply . It could be what he is hoping u will do . By not responding u let him know that you WILL NOT tolerate any abusive behaviour.! Im no expert. Just how I've interpreted your question. Real men don't abuse the people they truly love .
I SENT NUDES TO MY NOW EX? HELp?
I'm so dumb, I thought he'd be the love of my life... I sent him a nude photo of me and the day after, he dumped me.. Does ANYONE have ANY tips of what I should do?! I'm so miserable and ******* dumb ugh why did I do that! And he sent me pictures as well, if that helps at all. NO RUDE REPLIES PLEASE
Why does my narcissistic ex-boyfriend send me such hateful nasty texts?
Because the narcissistic personality disorder person is “fused” to the people him with whom he interacts. This feature of “fusion” — to use the expression of Dr. James Masterson — is unique to NPD. The N feels self-less by him-self. Think about that. He left his true self behind decades ago and has been using you and others to nurture his false self ever since. Without you and the reactions he elicits from you, he has the feeling that he does not exist. Oh sure, physically he exists. But in his mind, the image of himself that he has been presenting to the world only exists if others see it or pretend to see it. He is a reflection of his own reflection. Turn the lights out and there’s nothing to see. And if there is nothing to see, he does not exist. Crazy? Absolutely. As long as you interact with him, the “emperor” has a fine suit of clothing. Once you stop “seeing” the “emperor,” he is naked and vulnerable. That’s why he will not and cannot let go. He is a parasite. He cannot “exist” alone. His nasty comments serve two purposes. They firm that it’s all your fault. By devaluing you, he rises above you, at least in his illusion about himself. His attacks also elicit a reaction from you, which is his life blood. And there is nothing you can do for him. Don’t try. He is preying on your caring about him. You probably do care about him. But showing him that — answering him — is as beneficial to him as giving a drug addict a fix.The day I realized that I could never experience this is the day that I appreciated how profound this mental illness is. Walk away and stay away, 100%. In total silence. You got sucked in. You are not alone. Watch your step in the future. Like many others, there might be something about you that makes you easy prey.
I said some really mean and hurtful things to my ex. Should I apologize? I don’t want to get back together with him, or even be friends.
Thanks for A2A.There was this person who I liked very much and she knew. She always spoke to me when she wanted to speak. Ignored my calls, ignored my messages and when she messaged I had the anger but I replied out of kindness. Once she called me to meet and I had to change my plans to go meet her in a different city.When I reached there and finally called her, it's back to ignoring again, so now I'm not going to know what she does or when she wants me to meet because I'm not friends with her or will never speak to her. I won't receive her messages.I respect you for feeling bad after yourself for scolding him after he treated you that way, see if a man really loves a girl he will try to see that she's happy. If he didn't bother even after you told him you weren't feeling good, then I say, you stay away and if you want to feel good, follow the letter writing and burning that someone above suggested.Don't worry about someone after it's over when they've not bothered about you when you were together just because you're a good person.
Is it rude to ignore your ex text/call when you're moving on?
No. Sometimes it is necessary to stop communication to help your ex and yourself to cut the emotional ties between you in order to move on. If you don’t stop communication, it may establish a long-term pattern of communication that is destructive to future relationships, and may result in clinging or stalking behavior.
Why is my ex girlfriend being such a *****?
we mutually ended things.. or at least i'm pretty sure it was mutual. it was straightforward on my end at least.. and now she's going out of her way to make me angry. i.e. posting pictures of her and her ex girlfriend before me and sending me rude myspace messages saying how she's completely over me and when i don't answer them she calls me and leaves me rude voicemails saying the same thing. why is she doing this? why can't she just be civil with me and let me live my life? it's very hurtful.
Responding to apology letter?
I don't watch the Hills, but I did send an email asking if she received my note, and she did not respond to that either. A mutual friend asked her about the situation and she said she never received the email and did not feel a response to an apology was required...so the friend told her I'm suffering from the situation and she still has not reached out, yet told that friend that she is fine with it and has not given it a thought. If you are a friend and find out your friend is upset, you reach out, right? So this all tells me that she is rude and does not care.