Why would a "friend" stop talking to you?
If you cannot pin down an event that caused the rift, it's usually their problem. Even if their problem is that they don't have the patience for your problems or time to dedicate to the friendship...One thing to ask yourself is how would you like yourself as a friend? Are you adding value or are you always talking about your problems? Now, there are those real problems and then there are those manufactured problems. I'm talking more about the later.I have had two friends chose to discontinue the relationship without any explanation over the past few years. It is emotionally confusing, I know. One of my friends just stopped. Nothing. She just stopped communicating with me and didn't join mutual friends in an outing to see me. I had to let it go. Although our friendship had value, I was pretty dang certain that I had done nothing to incur her distance or prompt this behavior. Confused as I was, I had to decide that my value as a friend meant that it was not up to me to chase her down or try to get a reason for her actions. We had a great time through the years of our friendship, created some lasting memories, and just like high school the time has passed.Another friend, and looking back on it she was more of a "friend", did not show up for me during the two weeks when my husband was in a coma and after he died. She'd talk a good game but was just so "busy". I do understand that death is difficult for people but it is especially difficult for the people who are losing a loved one. In her behavior, I was able to see clearly that we had very different understanding what friendship means. This one hurt. A lot. But in the end, it's all for the best because I feel so clear and respectful of my true friendships and my ability to be a friend. Ya just gotta let some people go. (and the drama along with it)
Why did my best friend stop talking to me after high school?
We finished high school last year and i have known this friend since 5th grade and now all of a sudden he won't answer my texts or if I call him we have been friends for 9 years and now nothing what happened
Why did my guy friend stop talking to me?
Well first you need to figure out whether or not he is being distant with everybody else too. This could imply a personal issue, or an issue at home. Maybe you could help him out with it, if this is the case. I know from experience that when I think a girl is ignoring me, or thinks she is too good for me, I avoid looking at her, showing off, trying to converse etc. etc. This may not be the right thing to do, but it's sort of a natural thing, he may be exhibiting a similar characteristic. If you're interested in him, and he's not talking, YOU talk to him face to face. If he's still distant even after you politely talk to him and he's not implying that it's a personal issue...well perhaps move on. If you REALLY like this guy, as a friend or something more, then impress him, not by showing off or anything, but by being the best you possible: happy, alert, fit,healthy.. working on these characteristics will benefit you as well. So it's a WIN WIN. Anyway, hope I helped and gave you some things to consider. :)
My friend suddenly stopped talking to me. I've tried talking to her, but she ignores me and talks with my other friends instead. What should I do?
Give the friendship a break for a while. People who value your friendship will take the time to make contact with you - you have shown you value her friendship because you have tried to make contact with her. Now it's time to step back and see if she can show the same appreciation. Use this opportunity to explore new friendships and activities, so you are enjoying yourself rather than sitting around feeling ignored. Avoid giving her opportunities to ignore you, and try to avoid talking about the situation with your mutual friends, in case things get repeated and misinterpreted. If you don't hear from your best friend after a month or so, and you still feel upset and puzzled by this, maybe send her a friendly email saying that you miss chatting to her and you hope that everything is okay. Don't worry too much about why she isn't talking to you. Again if she valued the friendship, she would tell you if you had done something to upset her, so that the two of you could resolve the issue. Maybe she needs some time before she can tell you what's wrong. Maybe she's getting a kick out of ignoring you and playing favorites with your other friends. You don't need to put up with being treated like the runner up in a popularity competition.
Why did my best friend stop talking me after i got engaged/married?
I asked several of my friends to be bridesmaids including Suzanne, but i asked her "to be the Maid of Honor". one of my BMs was my sister and i went pass her and asked Suzanne instead. Suzanne right away said 'your sister should be the MOH" and i said I chose who will be the MOH and i chose you. she continued to say she didnt want the position but, also continued to toy around with being in the wedding at all. every BMs got their dresses and she was the only one who didnt. i kept leaving messages asking if she needed help getting the dress and i was willing to pay for it and etc. this went on for awhile until one day...she called saying she couldnt afford the dress...when i offered to buy it then the next excuse was....not to buy the dress for her as she didnt know if she would gain weight or lose weight so she will buy the dress but, it would be last minute....then it turned into i cant get off of work...then it was...my car is having problems, i cant afford to pay for the repairs...
HELP ME my ex boyfriend is talking mad crap about me!!!!?
hi everyone okay my ex is talking crap about me! i found out last week but i barely asked someone what he was saying today and my very trustworthy friend told me. Well first he is saying that im a ***** and that i used to always get into arguments with him and i would be the one who would pick fights. He was physically abusive to me and he was telling people that im the one who hurt myself to make it look like he did it and all that stuff! and that's not true he is the one that gave me the bruises and red marks and all that. Then he is telling everyone that im LITERALLY crazy! and he is trying to turn people against me why would he do this i mean he claimed to love me so much!!!!!! why would he do this and try to turn my friends against me!!! he also asked my friends to give him their number i was like are you serious thats just shady! and well he turned my used to be friend (jesse against me ) jesse is also talking **** behind my back saying im mean and that im a ***** and it's all
I have a friend, and we got into a fight and we stopped talking. I miss her very much, but I don't know if she wants to talk with me again. What should I do?
Same thing happened to me. I made a joke and she just stopped talking to me. May be she felt bad. So i thought i should apologise to her. So i called her, but she being too stubborn didnt pick up my calls. Told me that she is going to sleep and i should text her.I replied that I only need 2 minutes, she still replied to text her, she told me that "Cooler chal raha hain, awaz nahi aayegi" (which according to everyone is just bullshit...what type of cooler would make such a noise that you cant even talk on phone) Still i texted her... And she was online the whole time but didn't even read the texts and then finally I told her "Text karne to bolti hain, reply to deti nahi hain.."She was still online, didnt read the texs and then the next day just gave a reply that she slept...nthg else.. I mean we were so good friends, who would behave in such a way with a friend..Now when we see each other in office, we just ignore each other...act like we dont exist for each other... I really miss the talks I had with her, we were a great team, helping and motivating each other in time of need.All my friends now tell me to let her go as she doesnt need me, she is happy without me...but i dont know the truth..I cant lose a friend like her...Now i dont know what should i do..i have this big interview and her motivating words will definetly make my day...but I dont think she will ever talk to me. :(What u should know is she really worth all the trouble..? Does she always care about you when you need it? Or she only comes to you in need? People will always tell you that ego will ruin a friendship, but what u should know is never ruin your self respect for someone who isn't worth it...if she is worth it...then go and talk to her...she will talk to u..apologise to her..