This girl is hot and cold towards me?
i really like this girl. we both notice each other we had conversations. To make the story short. At times she gives me signals she into me by getting my attention and talking to me. But, last time i saw her she was half way from me she notices me and didn't even talk to me. She usually talks to me and hi me and talks. Whats up with that? BEST ANSWER 5 STARS AND 10 POINTS
Why did this girl act so cold towards me...?!?
I'm a 17 year old girl and today I went to a social gathering and I was meeting lots of new people for the first time and on our table it was all girls. I couldn't help but notice that this one girl was acting kind of standoffish and cold towards me. When I was talking to some of the other girls next to me, I looked up to see her glaring at me for no reason! This happened quite a lot and so I smiled over at her and she looked away. Then, at the end, I decided to go and talk to her so when I was trying to talk to her, I was asking her questions to get to know her and she was answering with short answers and didn't seem interested in talking to me. She seemed kind of annoyed and sad. There were moments of awkward silences because she didn't seem to want to carry on the conversation. Then I noticed that she got on really well with some of the other girls and there wasn't an awkwardness when she was talking to them. Then when I was saying bye to everyone she literally ignored me and looked unhappy again Why was this girl so cold and standoffish towards me..?!
Why is this other girl cold towards me?
I'm a girl and there is this girl who is in my group at church and for some reason she doesn't make as much effort to get to know me as she does the others in the group. When I try taking to her, she doesn't make an effort really and seems sad but when she is talking to other people, she is happy and full of energy. When we are in a group and peoples attention is focused on me because I'm talking, everyone smiles and laughs with me but she just sits there staring at me with a straight face and doesn't smile or laugh along. One time she said to me 'I like your outfit as usual Alice' and said it in a monotonous way and didn't smile or anything. Whenever I'm talking about my achievements or anything I find she doesn't congratulate me like everyone else does, but she just stares at me again with a blank expression. We are both studying the same degree at uni as well Why doesn't she make effort with me? And why is she cold towards me?
Why do girls act so cold towards me?
hi im 13 years old and most girls act really cold and horrible towards me i mean im not exactly ugly and im not exactly a geek or anything either but girls always run up to my friends and hug them and say hi and bye to them but they just look at me and ignore me or say oh no go away why do girls act like this to me and how can i get them to like me ?
Why did they act cold towards me suddenly?
Observe the context of when it happened, what was said, who was there.You have to look for clues. You might have just arrived at a moment where something happened before you got there.
Why is my girlfriend acting cold towards me all of a sudden?
Several possible reasons here:She’s pissed. Whatever you did, apologize. If you didn’t do it, apologize with chocolates.She’s found someone else and simply isn’t that into you anymore. You’ll probably never know the reason, so don’t dwell on it. Move on. Other fish in the sea, etc.She did something she knows you aren’t going to like and doesn’t want to tell you. If this is the case, you’ll probably never know so don’t dwell on it. If she doesn’t lighten up in a day or two, move on. It’s her problem, not yours.Best advice: ask her flat out what the problem is. She will answer, or she won’t. You will be able to clear the air and patch things up, or you’ll get dumped. Or you can dump her. Either way, it may not be a bad idea to consider checking for greener grass elsewhere.
Why is my friend that's a girl acting cold towards me?
I am in this very tight knit group of friends. We have been friends for about 6 years (im 20 now). Ive been in since the beginning with my very best friend who passed away a year ago. When this happened our group came even closer together. The girl im going to be talking about came in the group around 3-4 years ago. I really liked her. Id joke around with her a lot and would notice that she would appreciate how much attention id give her. We were so close that i took her to prom. Yeah, go figure. As a group we all promised to be friends after high school and to keep together as long as we could, and we have fulfilled that promise so far. After highschool we spent quite some time together. We'd go watch movies, eat at places, and i was starting to catch feelings. Oh no! Ive been holding them back because i most definitely did not want to ruin our friendship, better to have her in your life than to never have her at all. Now keep in mind these last two years ive done a lot for this girl. Ive been there to listen to her, i was the brains behind her birthday parties, helped her the whole nine. About 3 months ago, late October, ive noticed shes been indifferent towards me. When i joke with her i cant get a laugh or smile, when i talk to her she seems bored with me. When its time to say bye, no hug, barely a mutter bye, everyone else gets one. That one hurts the most. I dont know what happened. What do i do? What could i have done? I see her all the time when the group hangs out.
Why do girls act hot and cold?
My gf is so complicated. i think she does genuinly love me, shes never been in a proper long term relationship before me - we have been together over a year and we are both 24. She literally acts so f*cking cold and distant to me sometimes and speaks to me like she doesn't even know me and then randomly she will say things to me like 'I miss you so much I wish you could be here with me and we could do all the things we have talked about' and say really genuine heart felt things. Any idea why? Is she just mental? Scared of being hurt? Doesn't really care?
What should I do if a girl suddenly acts coldly towards me?
Hey. Mike here. I'm well familiar with this type of behavior. I get it. It sucks. It makes you question yourself as a human being, your conversationalist skills, and your ability to maintain friends or lovers. Sometimes you'll never get the answer you want because people can be unpredictable. Perhaps she grew bored of the same mundane conversations taking place. Perhaps she no longer felt that spark that originated from the conversation. Or maybe she felt smothered because of the continuous rings of text. Unless you have the ability to read her mind, guessing will be pointless. Sure, you can look over your texts to see where you went wrong, but you'll still be in that continuous loop. Whenever you get yourself in a situation like this, the best thing you can do is accept it and move on. Learn to interact with other people to see how your chemistry goes with them. And if you have trouble with making friends, especially if you're an adult, there's a few good tips on The Adult Guide to Overcome Loneliness and Make Friends. When you wrap yourself around one person's attention for you, it makes life miserable because you're waiting for their reaction to make you feel a certain way. You're waiting for that other person give you ability to feel good because they're speaking to you and allowing you to unleash your positive emotions. Instead, give yourself the ability to feel good by simply living life. Speak to random strangers. Try out new hobbies through communities. Find your people - Meetup is a good place to start. The more people you bring into your life, the less you think about the one person who's ignoring you. You don't need to find a best friend. You just need someone you can speak to and release your most inner thoughts. As you get to know someone, you begin to build a chemistry with them. That's how you establish a friendship. It's not something that appears out of no where. It's through a series of connections you have with a certain individual. And hey. If you still want to speak to that person. Feel free to shoot them a, "Hey. Saw the craziest thing today." type of text. Most people would respond to such a text message. And if she doesn't, don't let it dictate your day. Just shrug your shoulders and move on. Don't share your positive energy with someone who don't deserve it. If you need tips on how to easily keep a conversation going, some good tips could be found in How to Keep a Conversation Going Good luck,MGII