Why are white guys afraid to date black girls??
Ok so first of all.. I am definately not superficial.. can you blame for the way I was brought up?!?!? Dressing preppy and speaking proper IS a part of me and in no way, shape or form and I fake. Yes I do know who I am do you? It just suprises me when people try to tell me to stick to my own race when I go for who I am atractted to. Sorry for disappointing you black men and women who feel that I should stay with my own race... that is a problem you have to deal with...not me!!! Secondly.. to the lady who said "white should be with whites and blacks with blacks" you are ignorant. LOL... like seriously ignorant and stupid of you think that is the right way to go about life. To the guy in kansas.. thanx for the compliment. I just wish people would not judge me because of how I was raised. Just because I am who I am... doesn't mean I don't know about my history. What makes you think I would ever forget about my history???? But this is mel.. this is who I am and sorry I can't change that!
What dod you think of Samoans and Tongans?
Well, Tai, what dod I think? Based on my observations... 1. They're insecure about being Samoan/Tongan whatever, and hence pick on other minorities. Can't blame them though... What do they have to be proud of, seriously. Coconut trees? OK, that. 2. They're dumb. Most drop out of college, and don't further their education, or consider it. They stay uneducated, live on the doll, and their kids turn out to be like them too unfortunately. 3. They act tough, and threaten to beat you up when threatened. Like gangstas. And like rap and R&B. They think they're blacks. Please don't beat me up. Or il gt my cuzies on u, ao. 4. They think they're better than everyone, especially when they're part white. 5. They have a wild mentality. They the loudest anywhere, with the loudest annoying laughs. They don't seem to be concerned with anyone around them. It's all about them. 6. They join gangs and think it's the sheeet. That's what I think of them. But of course, they're stereotypes. I hate stereotypes. I'm sure you do too.
I'm an Asian girl who wants to date a white guy, but my parents won't allow it. What should I do?
Decide how badly you want to date the guy. If you just want to date him and you value your relationship with your parents, I'd say take a pass. If you think there is something more serious there you want to explore, then brace yourself for the consequences - as there likely will be some. Make sure he understands what him dating you will mean for you. I dated (then married) a Chinese-American woman whose parents were opposed to her dating anyone non-Chinese (or at least Asian). She had a great relationship with her mom before she told her parents we were dating. Her mother didn't talk to her for over a year. That was humbling for me to understand what her choice to be with me cost her. If the guy won't get that, or take your sacrifice seriously, then don't waste your time.I lived in China, learned Mandarin, spoke Mandarin with the live-in Grandma, cooked them Chinese food a family I lived with in China taught me how to make, mowed their lawn a time or two, did some home repairs, was respectful, etc and finally won her over. However, I think the good sized ring I bought did just as much as all of the above. Parents want to see their kids provided well for. Asian parents typically believe white Americans are less hard working, less able to provide financial stability, don't value other cultures, etc. To the extent the guy can demonstrate he doesn't fail in any of those typical ways he will stand a better chance.
Why do Black people believe in spanking so much?
Also, this is NOT a racist comment. This is the truth. These are statistics. This is also what I see. I also believe in spanking when necessary to some degree, Just not with belts and extension cords and going "up side" you head and not ALL of the time for every little infraction. This is why the Black community is so violent in America? Training by hitting (call it spanking if u want to) transposes somewhere in the human mind into the beleif that this is the answer to MOST conflict is violence. This is what has been done to you so you don't know any better. This is a slave mentality that has been carried down by our culture from generation to generation. Would you at least be open to a parenting class? I love my race, I just love children more. Could someone who cares please star this question so it can get around? It may help the life of a child.