Do you hang out with people who are attractive?
I'm going to be brutally honest. One of my biggest insecurities is how superficial I can be. It's something I'm growing out of and I'm proud of myself. Growing up and during my middle school days, I only wanted to surround myself with attractive people. That doesn't mean that I would negate the unattractive people, I would just hang out with the attractive people because they made me look good. I was always constantly worrying about how others perceived me. I wanted to be part of the "pretty group". I was pretty cute myself and I wanted to be with people who were pretty. When I got into high school... I still behaved the same way. High school, especially MY high school is a LOT about perception. It's all about looks and how you dress. At first, I would hang out with the pretty girls but then one day I said to myself " Whoa, do you actually like hanging out with these people or do you like the IDEA of them?".. My answer was no. I didn't like hanging out with them because their personalities sucked. They were just pretty faces. I'm so glad I don't think that way anymore. I feel like I've really matured over these past few years. Nowadays, all I focus on is surrounding myself with people who have good hearts and bring out the best in ME. Pretty or not. It's way better. :)
Why are taller people generally regarded as more attractive than shorter people?
There are several reasons why tall people are considered more attractive than short ones;Tall people have better hearts. No, not the emotional one, but the physical. Every 2.5 in / 6.35 cm jump in height, decreases the risk of heart disease such as coronary by 13.5 percent.Tall is seen as more dominant. For many people, dominance is sexy, they want to be with someone who’s dominant.From an evolutionary perspective, ‘larger’ men were able to provide better protection to their families, which increases the chances of survival. Therefore, tallness was and still is desirable by our unconscious mind.Taller men = higher levels of testosterone. Testosterone has an impact in certain pheromones that may attract the opposite sex. Not only that but also high levels of testosterone is vital with sperm count thus the ability of reproducing.The image that media provides. Media has always had its standards, big boobs, big ass etc. When it comes to height, taller is better and seen more attractive, you can easily see that by watching any modelling show, they almost always pick taller men and women.So that slightly tall girls can wear heels. I mean, wearing high heels next to a tall person looks way better and harmonic than wearing heels next to someone with an average height.Ummm… because tall guys/girls can pick you up and throw you on bed? That’s a pretty good reason if you asked me.For me, I like tall people in general because I can hear their heartbeat while hugging. You can hear whether they’re excited or not, afraid or not, sad or not, normal or not, solely based on the speed of their heartbeat.Reaching top shelves instead of you (short ones) doing some ninja moves. It makes life easier.Tall people look more attractive in clothes in general. Because, as I mentioned, most clothing are made to look good on tall people (models). Nice fitting clothes usually increase the level of attractiveness of a person.What’s considered tall is different from country to country. In some countries being tall means that you’re over 185 cm /5′69 while in other countries being more than 165 /5′4 is considered extremely tall. It all depends on where you are or the height of your partner.Most people, specially men, are taller than I am. I’m only 150 /4′11. Meaning that anyone over 160 is quite tall for me. There are people that are shorter than me as well so there’s hope for everyone!Hope this helped
How come attractive women get everything they want?
Not going to lie. Now that i realize, I use my looks to get ahead in life in some situations. Its not like I use my looks alone, I have a brain. I go to school. I take my education very seriously. I use my looks to get free things, and to gain pity from strangers. It always works. I mean, this happened three times, where my Ipod or my iphone broke, and with my iPod i was out of the warranty. It broke, I went in, and they immediately gave me a new one. Thats not right, legally, but its how I used my looks to get what I want. Its happened literally 3 times, the third time it happened, I actually broke my ipod intentionally, I went in, my warranty was void for around, 8 months, and another guy gave me a free ipod. He is not allowed to do it, but he did it for me. I have had other friends try this tactic, it has never worked for them, if anything it only happens once and no more. Not gonna lie, it feels good. But I try my hardest not to take advantage of people like that. I could offer more stories where something similar. But hey attractive girls don't always get treated like gold. I have had specific women randomly hate me when they never even gave me the chance of an official meeting. My best friend is absolutely stunning, trust me, women hate on her a lot. Especially when we were in high school a few years ago. And attractive women are human just like everyone else. We get out hearts broken, we do not get 'everything' we want.
Do you think that Indian men are underrated when it comes to looks?
No, I have seen hot Indian men and some are hotter than most White men. Not all Indian men got tan skin, some have pale skin if they come from Northern India. And they don't always show Italian men or from Europe on media--they DO show Indian men, we just don't know that they are Indian. Last week, I saw this ad of a men's clothing line and the male model that was in it was Indian, he was so hot, he had black hair, blue eyes, and olive skin. And fyi, British men are NOT hot. I have been to England last summer and saw no hot British men on the streets. Most of them are ugly. And that goes the same for British women as well, ugly. Not all guys from Italy are good either because my school is filled with Italian people and some of the guys are fat and ugly. You are judging and discriminating on Indian men. Bottom line is, Indian men are just as hot as White men. No one should underrate Indian men. It just doesn't make sense. And the guys from bollywood are really hot : ) I am sure most people would agree on that one! @Trilingual person: You know nothing you idiot.
Why are some people happy to be in relationships with those who are not physically attractive?
Oh this is an easy one!. When you see ,a cpl and you think that one of them is unattractive…that’s just YOUR opinion that they’re unattractive, not theirs.For example, most men seem to not find large heavy women attractive, where as I do. To me, thin skinny women are NOT very attractive, they seem fragile, weak and lacking in substance. I like gals who are bigger, even chubby. I’ve been called a “chubby-chaser”, a “ whaler”, and more.But for me, larger ladies are solid, strong, and curvaceous as hell!So, while YOU may consider one part of a cpl unattractive…maybe, just maybe, THEY think that person is VERY attractive.