Do all girls feel fat no matter how skinny they are?
The following information came from Why Do Women Think They Are Fat When They Are Not?SO, WHY DO WOMEN THINK THEY ARE FAT WHEN THEY ARE NOT?Because every day they are exposed to messages that tell them they need to be skinny in order to be pretty.They see weight loss ads that make it shameful to be overweight.They hear rude comments about overweight women.They see men checking out skinnier (and more attractive) women.They watch desirable skinny women on TV shows and movies.The damage is caused like this:The more they see these messages, the more they look at their body and see imperfections.The more imperfections they see, the more they call themselves fat.The more they call themselves fat, the more they believe it.It is that simple.If they lived on an island where society didn’t influence how they ‘should’ look, you would find that they would be much more self-loving.Here is something important to remember: Even if you are telling a woman that she is beautiful ten times a day, she sees a hundred messages through media and otherwise that tell her that she is not living up to a standard of beauty set out for all women. This gives you insight into why women ask YOU if they are fat so much…they are constantly being told that they are fat, and you are the ONE person who tells them they are not. So when you get mad at them or don’t answer them, they assume that all the other messages they heard throughout the day were right, because you are not sending them the positive validation that they are seeking from the one person they know they can get it from.And, until women start to believe that they don’t need to live up to a certain image, they will likely feel fat and imperfect for a long time to come.
Why is my girl mad i told her id break up if she got fat?
Because she's planning to get fat later and she expects to pretend you're still attracted to her after she becomes obese.
How bad is it to call a girl fat?
Even if she is in fact fat, I'm sure she still feel embarrassed when being teased esp in front of other people.It's just a defense mechanism if she seemed to take it lightly.If I were you try to avoid teasing her and be sensitive to her feelings. I'm sure you are not a person without flaws either.
What do guys “never” tell girls?
We also get upset sometimes (not too often) and most of time we are just like “koi ni chohd” but sometimes we really want you to say at least a sorry.We are emotional too but our tolerance level is much higher.Don’t try to check our whatsApp photos, It will always contain so many non-veg pictures.Unlike you, we can’t share so many things about you with our friends. Because we know that they will use those things to make fun of us.Too much make up can be a turn off thing (it applies for me). Your soft lips especially with light shades lipstick can be too much seducing.We respect your individuality and freedom. But If you give someone more attention especially in front of us. Then really it makes us angry a bit.Please don’t ruin our match. We love sports.Don’t say veg biryani a biryani. I hate to say it biryani without meat. You must say it just pulao or rice.We have so many problems to look after, So we expect you to not make it more difficult with senseless arguments and fights.Never assume anything, Please ask us, We will tell you honestly.Yes we stalk your profile regularly on social networking sites.We even save some pictures of you for forever. Even we makes double back up in case of any data lost.You can’t even imagine our loyalty.We even ignore some hot girls around us in front of you. Too avoid jealousy.If we say we care about you. Then we means it. Otherwise we hate to agree on everything.We loves to be sorted in our life and sometimes (not too much) expect the same from you.Yes we do watch porn.We don’t promise everything but we always care about your happiness.I would like to share one thing on the behalf of my friend. His girlfriend broke with him after 10 months by just saying “I don’t feel that way now”. So be sure before committing to us.Don’t hurt us to the extent at which we don’t even want to see your face. Yes of course, we can be so rude.Last One: It can be easy for you to move on. But for me It would be the most difficult thing because I can’t even share my pain with anyone. But If you really want to move on then please let me know. I promise you that I will never see your face again.
Why do women complain men like skinny girls over fat girls, but then those girls wont date short or fat guys?
Shut up Paige, you damn hypocrite. Your answer didn't prove anything or show anything of substance at all. You're just butthurt that I called you out on this inconvenient truth and you're doubly butthurt that you can't say "oh you're just mad you dont get any" because for once I, the tall guy actually spoke up on this injustice. My family takes me to church and stuff so I definitely know a lot about fairness, honesty, and trust me todays culture of girls are a bunch of liars. I feel guilt even hooking up with any of you, but at least the hot ones are hot.
Would you fall in love with a fat guy/girl?
Thanks for A2A!I am head over heels crazy and mad in love with this girl who's fat right now.All I wanna do is marry her!Brother I workout a lot so keep in a good shape. But imagine me 20 years down the line. What if I get thyroid or something? Will it be okay if she ditches me then, due to my increased weight?Love is permanent. Obesity isn't :)
I told my girlfriend she was fat (sort of)?
Okay, before you jump to conclusions, I'd like to set the scene. She has a few personal body issues, and I don't think she is overweight at all! I try real hard to get her to feel more self-confident about the way she looks, and it was starting to work! Unfortunately, stupid me, let it slip out that she "got screwed over" because she eats really well, and does heaps of exercise, just cannot lose weight. It made her cry, and get very upset with me...and I was upset, and disappointed in myself for saying this. I was wondering if there are any suggestions for something to say to prove to her, that I love the way she is! ( I've told her this, but she says "what you say, and what you think are different")
Am I wrong to tell a girl she is overweight, in an arranged marriage set-up meet? Scanning her pictures on Facebook, my family found her a bit overweight. I wasn’t concerned, but told her parents. I got a harsh, sarcastic email from her.
Well it is not clear to me in this whole question what you actually thought and believed. Did you not find her attractive anymore after you saw her close up photos or met her in person? If you personally ddint find her attractive of course you have the right to “reject” her. Inner beauty and all is great but my personal experience is people don't change, and heredity of course doesn't. So while the 20% maybe that she will loose weight later, most likely it's not going to happen. Now, your fault is in two places: you didn't allow yourself to think what you really wanted, instead got manipulated by your parents and let them impose their opinion of her on you. The other fault of yours is that you actually told her family or her the actual reason of rejection. I hate it when people do that. As a rule, I always give a vague reason when I reject a guy, and I also tell him all the wonderful things about him so he doesn't feel like “I am rejecting him for someone better”. I have been on the other side. I am sure you have too. With this “positive rejection” and dating I have seen such good results that the jerks have respect for me, and the good guys actually tell me they rarely meet such genuine people who are actually kind even when saying no. Learn how to reject someone without hurting their feelings too much, and without pointing out all their personal flaws. It's an art, but it can be practiced. Guess what, one finger pointing at her has three fingers pointing at you :-)