Why are poor people so violent and angry?
I am a painter and drywall guy. Today I got an accepted bid to repair walls, doors , windows in a really neglected, but also squalid and every single door (those very thin hollow 1960's style) punched through multiple times. Landlord unwilling to rellace, I will repaint them brown, the holes will be covered with heavy duty packing tape before painting. It is a technique I use that costs only pennirs, but looks pretty good. There are 10 holes in walls, skme gypsum ome old fashioned beaverboard. I fix them with mesh repair tape and a little bit of joint compound. Again pennies per repair is how I get these jobs. I get 2-3 per month. This one was held by the same tenant since 1997. White trash, Section 8. In 20 years they never vacuumed. We also do carpet cleaning. Two small bedrooms, large hall and half the living room carpeted. With a commercial vacuum I removed literally 8 lbs of dirt (I weighed it). Just to get the dust under control before we start. They are all bad, but this one is one of the worst. Not in an urban gang area, about 3-4 miles from the gang area, no sign of drug us, we often get "weed houses". Why does it look like such a disturbed person lived there?
Why do people get angry or violent during holidays ?
I've noticed that people act 'funny' at shopping malls during the holiday shopping season. Cranky sales people to violent drivers. One guy ruthlessly stole my parking spot I was waiting and signaling for. Another driver carelessly backed out of his spot and purposely tried to back into me becuz I honked at him for not looking. I''ve been angry for the past 5 days and I really don't know why .Why do people get agitated during the holidays ?
Why do I become violent when angry?
I'm a 20 year old guy, and when I get angry about something I completely fly off the handle and go straight to violence. Most people express their feelings when angry or at least argue with the other person, I can't even do that, my mind becomes a blur and my temper goes through the roof to where I cant think straight and all I wanna do is bash the persons head in or shoot them. It's like there's a missing link, there is no in between, when I get angry it goes straight to rage and violence, nothing less. What could have caused this? I was never abused, and I have a healthy outlet of energy, i'm an avid bodybuilder. So whats the problem? am I a psychopath? is it a mental disorder?
Why am i so violent?
So i tend to get violent when i get angry or really irritated. And i am only 14/15. Snd no, it is not bcoz of my period! Cause this hsppens all the time. I might beat, push, pinch ect. People when i get angry at them. And it is soooo difficult to resist! Espesislly when i get irritated, i really want to squeeze someones arm or something, and no, i can not just use a pillow, it does not let out my rage. This is only getting worse and worse, and i really want tomstop this. But i do not know how. How van i stop being so violent against my friends? And why might i be so violent? If i could punch anyone in the face. I would. I sound crazy, haha
Are all sociopaths angry and violent?
I've been wondering for a while if I am a sociopath, I fit the majority of the traits of a sociopath except I'm always calm. From what I understand, sociopaths can get very angry and violent very fast. This is the only trait that doesn't fit me, I've never been violent before, never got angry or even shouted at someone. Anger seems pointless to me, so I just don't get angry.
Why am I always angry and aggressive?
Believe it or not, but hormones can play a very large part in the way you behave and feel. Your anger problem could also be a chemical imbalance. And often this is the more direct approach when it comes to dealing with anger management. There are ways to deal with anger, but you have to be willing to get it done. There is also medication that can help too, but I wouldn't rely on them too much. I had an anger management problem too, but I've learned to overcome it. So.. I will share some tips that might help you. First, yes.. turn to God and ask Him directly for help. If you are sincere, and keep praying, gradually, you'll feel less angry. Your anger is controlling you. Stop allowing it to. It is ok to become angry, but when it controls you to the point where you want to hurt yourself or someone, you must break free. Second, discover an activity you can do when you feel angry. This should be considered a calming exercise. Sometimes a long walk by yourself can help clear the mind. Third, remember those rules your parents taught? Please, thank you, you're welcome. Practice them to yourself out loud in a mirror. Have a conversation with yourself out loud and record it. Listen to how you sound. If you sound rude, keep practicing at it. Fourth, when you look at people in the eye, smile. This will relax people, and it will relax you. Smiling is hard for some people, but with practice it can be done. Fifth, you don't need to be obnoxious, loud, conceited, and annoying. This won't satisfy you at all, even if you feel that way. Rather, it will make you desire more of it until you become obsessed with making people despise you, despite your wish for the opposite.. Sometimes, a whisper is more powerful than an loud spoken word. Sixth, talk to the same people you have trouble with. I would suggest one at a time. Tell them how you feel and ask how they feel. Tell them you want to help yourself and ask for their suggestions. They might be willing to lend an hand if you only ask. Seventh, consider a form of martial arts if you can afford time and money. This is a great discipline form and can calm down anger if used correctly. I hope you'll be okay in the mean time. Anger problems bite.
What's the best way to calm down an angry/violent person?
Misery loves company.If they are angry about something, maybe the two of you can be angry together.Maybe this person has no other outlet for making friends than lashing out.Sometimes people need calm.Sometimes people need to be angry, and you need to let them be angry.Making connections is really difficult.Anger is suffering pretending to be joy, so when it possesses someone, understanding and empathy are needed more than fear and isolation.It’s possible they don’t even know the real reason they are angry.It’s possible they are angry at you, and would find it joyful to hurt you.It’s complex, but fear is less productive than empathy.
Why does a Christian husband get angry and violent easily?
This is how you know if a man is a Christian if he is living this out in his life◄ Ephesians 5:25 ► Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;Ephesians 5:28In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.Ephesians 5:33Nevertheless, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.Colossians 3:19Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.1 Peter 3:7Husbands, in the same way, treat your wives with consideration as a delicate vessel, and with honor as fellow heirs of the gracious gift of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered.
Do people with autism mostly gets angry in a violent way?
I suspect you’re talking about meltdowns, rather than anger.Meltdowns are an instinctive, reactive fight or flight response. They’re a response to a feeling of being overwhelmed. A response to panic.Now, my meltdowns can sound angry. They do sound angry; my husband says so. My speech is loud, I shout, my words are forced out because they’re said through fear, panic. It takes immense effort to speak whilst coping with that panic and fear, and that shows in my tone of voice. Words shouted with all the power and strength my body can manage, out of desperation.But my meltdowns are not anger. In fact, when I’m genuinely angry my two responses are very different. Usually, I’m the quiet seething angry type. I’ll be angry internally, I’ll think through my anger. You can tell I’m angry at you if I’m very quiet, avoid you, ignore you. Because I’m not someone that likes showing anger. I don’t believe in conflict, if it can be avoided. I don’t see the need to create drama, so my silence stops me from saying something I’ll regret.Now, the other angry response is one I’ve only had twice in the last decade. Spitting out words, loud and aggressive, strong. My husband says that my meltdowns seem like I’m angry. He struggles to work out that I’m in meltdown, and he knows me better than anyone, so how could anyone else tell the difference? And yet, there is a difference. I know there is, because I feel it. And I also know there is because the two times I’ve been truly angry with my husband he’s been taken aback - he’s said “I never seen you angry like that before. That’s a new level of anger.”Truth is, it’s not a new level of anger. It’s the only anger he’s seen.And I’m a pacifist by nature. Hence the usual approach, being silent. I have never used physical violence in anger. I have lashed out in a meltdown, but at objects and not at people - sometimes, the feelings are so intense that I throw an inanimate object to cope. Away from other people, when I’m on my own.But violence? There’s not a single bit of that in me.