WHy all my friends always bully me ???
Dear Sally, Friends do not bully friends, especially best friends. You need to work on your self esteem and find new friends and let new people (nice ones) get to know you. You certainly deserve better than that. Friends are supposed to bring out the best out of us not to make us sad. I heard that no one deserves your tears and the ones who would deserve your tears would never want to make you cry because they love you too much. Good luck! Big hugs
What should I do when my friend bullies another friend?
If you allow it then you are not only being weakened by it, but you are also inadvertently a part of it if you don’t step in.I answered a similar question recently so I will sum this up more quickly.Tell your friend you do not want to see it or hear it anymore. It is not funny, it’s unattractive, and it shows serious weakness.Many people who witness bullying but refuse to step in will often feel negative effects from allowing it down the road when they are older and wiser. Whether you are older or younger doesn’t matter. Let it be known it is wrong and you will not tolerate it. You will be all the wiser today by having nothing to regret tomorrow.
I always get bullied. I'm ugly, 'dumb', friend-less and flat chested.. it makes me want to die. help?
Well first of all, you should definitely seek some counseling to help you deal with your depression and self-esteem issues. It's very possible that your breasts will not get bigger. Smaller breasts run on my Mom's side of the family, and I was VERY flat (LIKE REALLY REALLY FLAT) until I was in college.. I guess my Dad's family's genes kicked in at that time and I went from flat to a C cup (seemingly) overnight. Honestly, I wish now that mine were still little. They do nothing but get in the way, trust me. Unfortunately though, we live in a very superficial world where if you are not bone thin with GIANT "ta-ta's" you are not considered to be "pretty or hot". I tried padded bras for a bit, and I was also very depressed about my appearance in high school, but I eventually just learned to be happy with what God gave me. I know that's a very cliche' answer, but I have come to find out that it's true. You will eventually find people who care for you just the way that you are. Like my Granny always said, "Those that matter, don't care. Those that care, don't matter!" She is a very wise woman. As far as getting bullied goes, I learned to deal with them by simply ignoring their crap. They seem to "feed" on reactions. Just act like you don't care. Don't dignify their superficial **** (pardon my language) with so much as a glance, much less a response. This goes for the emotional and psychological bullying. As far as the physical bullying, I would recommend telling a teacher or other responsible adult. To be brutally honest, I finally whooped the living daylights out of one girl in the 9th grade that was pushing me around. No one tried to mess with me after that. ;) Anyways, I do know your pain, and trust me, things do get better. Try making a new friend or two. Good luck and best wishes! x
Why does no one help me when I'm bullied?
Let’s visualize a fight in the streets between a low life thug with a bunch of his comrades, armed to the teeth and an innocent man who had run into some sort of difference with them.Would you step in to help them ? Sure, you might call the police and that might settle the issue but the thug will be back sooner than you know it, and continue his malicious rampage.That, my buddy, is what a bully is.Bullies thrive on fear and attention. No one wants any sort of exchange with them. No one wants to get in the line of fire. No one wants to be in their bad books.This is why no one steps in to save you. Your only chance at this is if you-Talk your way out. Show them that they don’t make a dent in your life. Insignificance is what every bully thoroughly fears and he will be off your tail in no time.Speak to your counselor/mentor if you must. Bullies are insecure human beings who want to stand out. Your mentor will appeal to them in ways you never could. That might work wonders.As a last resort, change your school/locality. I sincerely hope it doesn’t come down to this.At the end of the day they constitute just another fleeting albeit negative memory you had in school. How you let it affect you, is totally up-to you.
My friend is being bullied. What can I do about it?
Bullying starts when someone underestimates the capabilities and potential of a person. Then he tries to intimidate and overpower him. But they fail to understand that the one they are bullying currently may end up achieving great milestones than they ever could think of. If it is not stopped immediately , it may lead to serious consequences.You have to take a stand for your friend to protect him from the bunch of retards. This doesn’t mean you have to go and fight directly with the persons who try to bully your friend. This will make the situation even worse.My advice : Try to be in the comfort zone of your friend first and make him feel comfortable when you are around him so that he treats you as a genuine friend. Develop a healthy interaction/gain the trust of the people who bully your friend. Then they will start to treat you as a good friend of theirs. They start to value your opinion too. Wait for the right moment to hit the bull’s eye. Initiate some interactive sessions between your friend and the group by treating him well infront of them. While talking with your friend in the presence of the bullying chaps, make them feel that he is a worthy friend of yours as well. Whenever they start bullying him infront of you, try to break the conversation and divert their attention to a new topic. Do not allow them space to bully him when you are around. Then they will surely start treating him better as time passes on.Hope this works for you.Cheers.
I have no friends and no one is like me and bullies me, what should I do?
Stay positive and don’t let haters get to you. Focus on your self and your studies. Talk with a teacher about the problem. Join a new club at school. Study in the library near a librarians desk. Learn about assertive communication.Sign up for a self defense/martial arts class to begin to build skills and confidence. Avoid negative people as much as possible.
Why do i always get bullied/picked on? Do you know how i can stop this?
I get bullied A LOT : [ People are always picking on me. I feel like their picking on me because of how short i am. I try to be my self but i always end up getting bullied...i feel like i'll lose all of my friends :( i'm only in high school though. Two girls in english will not STOP bullying me. if i have my cell out they'll be like "chrissy put your PHONE away". but when they have their phone out like always i never say anything. they always pick on me too and they always laugh at me :( i think im gonna be a loner at school :( i always cry at home liike every single day. it sucks. i hate it. and now i'm too scared to post status's on fb because i think people will make fun/tease me :( please help me and please tell me how i can stop getting bullied or teased :) i would appreciate it.