Why do some girls mess with guys heads?
Plain and simple you said it, some girls are just B******. Here are a couple of reasons why they do it. 1. They really don't realize they're doing it. Some girls are just trying to be friendly and in that they don't realize how badly they get a guy to fall for them. Then when they realize what happens, they try to change their behavior so that the guy gets the message. 2. They think it's funny. Some girls just think it's a fun game to play. If they can be attractive provocative and so on, they will. They get a rush of hormones to the pleasure center whenever they ditch a guy and after a while it gets addicting. 3. They're picky. I had a girlfriend who was completely unfaithful. One day she'd love me and the next she didn't. Some girls don't really know what they want and rely purely on physical attraction and even act on the way a guy makes them feel at the moment. Sometimes it's even just the thrill of the catch. It was fun chasing, but when you get him it's not. 4. They're soulless. There aren't too many like this, but there are the select few that really need to get a reality check. Some girls know they're beautiful or know how to make themselves attractive. They use guys for the convenience and sometimes do it just to crush them. The best thing you can do is to stick by your guy friends and tell them when you spot the wrong one. In the end, that's about the most you can do.
Girls why do you like guys that treat you bad?
I'm just asking cuz every time I talk to my friends they arelikehe cheated on me or he called me fat or its always something. Then they break up with them then 2 days later they are back together and I am like WTF but all the good guys like me and some other guys would treat a girl nice buy her gifts and stuff compliment her everyday but they wont give is a chance. Yea I mite look mean but I ain't I'm like probably one of the nicest and smartest Hispanics at my school. I am 16 and I have all pre AP classes I'm a member of the NHS one of the best clubs of all for college I have straight a grades I volunteer at the local animal shelters I have a job. But the girls go for the low lifes if you think oh then your probably ugly well idk if I am a lot girls say I'm cute and stuff but yea I just wanna know why y'all like the guys that treat y'all bad Heres a pic of me if u think improbably a fat nerdy kid haha well I am not Here's the link http://s1181.photobucket.com/albums/x434/lopezmark4991/?action=view¤t=5870eb7b.png&mediafilter=noflash
Why do I always feel so much pressure in social situations? And how could I get over it?
I had this same issue but feel much better now that I am free of it. The first step is admitting you have a problem good job step one complete. Step two research which you are currently doing asking this question. I looked at every option I could for finding my self-confidence. Most regrettably I started looking at the PUA sites and watched the show (mainly I wanted to be better socially to talk to women). There is a small value in those from learning just to get comfortable going up and talking to a bunch of people. Also it shows some of the dynamics of social situations like girls thinking guys are creepy if they are out alone. Then I stumbled upon a PUA with a different approach of just learning how to talk to people in general and actually engage with them making a connection. The best example was say you want to talk to a fisherman but you've never been fishing. You should ask something like "so why do you like fishing is it the peaceful atmosphere or being out in the nature?" then that person explains and you have just made a connection based on something they really care about. Learning to listen to advice was a big part of making that research valuable. I even listened to sleep tapes meant to build up confidence which did feel like it helped it may have been a placebo effect but it is still an effect. Step three is practice get out there and start talking to people. The more you talk to people the more you realize it really isn't as hazardous as it seems. People are often to busy worrying about their own insecurities to care about yours. If they do it is because you are doing something wrong or that person just wants to draw attention away from their own flaws. If you mess up a conversation who cares we all make mistakes and no one will give it much thought. Once you start realizing that your confidence is what you make it a weight starts to lift of you. Hoped this rambling helped thanks for the A2A.
Why does good guys turn into bad guys after breakups?
A2ATo begin with, the question should be “Why do good people turn into bad people after breakups?”Apparently good guys do not turn into bad guys after break ups, it is the bad ones who were trying to be good before break up and turn back to their normal self after break up.Good guys remain good all the time, when they are pursuing you, when they have you, also when they loose you. It is the bad one’s who change with the changes in relationships.And lets not keep the gender bias here, there are girls too who change with change in relationships.It is human nature, to change.All of us change with changes in our surroundings. It is no big deal.Just like a good relationship change you, makes you strive for your best, a bad relationship/breakup makes you strive for the bad in you. As a matter of fact it is all the hormones in your head, feelings have a very little role to play. In simple terms, falling in love secretes the happy hormone in your brain and you seems to enjoy life, love the people, love that one person who loves you. During break up, the quantity of happy hormone decreases due to the stress you take, and hence you feel depressed, good for nothing.So the good people always stay good to everyone, be it starting of a relationship or the end. If someone you know is turning bad after a breakup, know that they were just trying to be good when in relationship.
Help! guys trying to pressure me into things.. ?
A lot of teenage girls feel that way, don't worry you're not the only one. The best thing you can do is just say no. Don't give excuses anymore. say "no, I don't feel comfrotable doing that and I don't want to. You're too old for me and it creeps me out". One thing you will learn as you get older is that guys just DONT GET IT. haha. They really don't though. This is how you need to view guys: they are ALL equally dumb until proven otherwise. If you beat around the bush and say "well, I really cant go out today..." thats his que to think "okay, i'll try tomorrow". You have to be stern with ALL guys and say "no, I don't want to and I never will" it's mean, but it's the appropriate action. They'll know they can't mess with you and that you're strong. As for the suicidal thoughts...you also arent alone there. I think most teenagers go through it - I did. As long as they are just THOUGHTS and not actually going and trying to kill yourself, it's not that bad. Also, if you are severely depressed, always looking at the negative side, feeling down on yourself all the time, not able to eat, or gaining weight, having trouble sleeping, etc, it is also a reason to be worried. But for just suicidal thoughts, it's normal for your age. Hope I helped
Why Do Girls Treat Nice Guys Like Crap?
I don't get it but girls treat me like crap over and over and over...it's like the freakin Energizer Bunny. I've had countless girls treat me like crap countless times. I've never had a girl treat me like crap. What's ironic is that I'm not a jerk type of guy (I don't care about the sex, I don't cheat, I don't disrespect girls, I don't play girls, I don't do any of that stuff) yet girls still treat me like crap. I'm just sick and tired of it. I've just given up hope now and I just want everything to end :// I want everything to go away. Yesterday, my ex and I started having feelings for each other again. She has treated me like crap sooo many times in the past, I literally lost count after 20 times. But it's hard to let her go. I've gotten close to letting her go sometimes and forgetting her, but she'll text me and I'll text her back, and I'd be stupid and start getting feelings for her again. But anyways, we told each other we loved each other in text yesterday and she told me she liked me. And we planned on hanging out today. So today, in the morning, we hung out. It was great. At least I thought it was. We both cuddled with each other and it was the first time for both of us to do that. And we kissed, the first time I had kissed a girl in about two years since they treat me like crap. And we listened to "our" song together. But tonight, she texts me saying "Forget about everything that happened". And I said "What???" and she said "Please don't hurt yourself" and that's because I've held a gun up to my head wanting to end my life before because she had hurt me so much. But she said she didn't feel any "sparks" or anything at all this morning. And I don't get it because she was smiling the whole time I was looking into her eyes and we told each other we loved each other in person this morning, and that was the first time I ever told a girl in person that I loved her. I just don't get it. I get hurt again and again and again and again. And I ask God why He is doing this. Is He trying to make me stronger? Is He wanting to bring me closer to Him? What is He doing? I'm just so confused and in so much pain. I literally can't even cry anymore that I'm used to getting hurt by girls and because I've cried so much.
Why do I always end up in dysfunctional relationships? I have not been in many serious relationships but those that were usually always ended badly.
Damn. This is heavy…I was exactly *here* a few years back. Idealistic, expecting the best of others, no care in the world, living like there is no tomorrow…That's where it all starts: expectations.After a string of failed relationships, and too many poor decisions that, cumulatively, impacted on my self esteem and on many people closest to me for many different reasons, I was forced to look in the mirror. Look at the only constant in each and every one of my past relationships - myself.The way I saw myself reflected on the women I chose - and they reflected on me.I didn't like what I saw. I was so used to deny or hide my misgivings, it was like second nature to me. But I couldn't hide away from it anymore. When we keep making bad choices, they will come back to bite us. Keep running from it all your life and it still catches you up one way or another.This was some 3 years back. Now I'm like a different person, not necessarily better, rather more realistic and cynical at times. I still have my flaws. I just accept them. From then I started to put all my effort in improving who I am in any possible way. Career, relationships, hobbies, goals, etc. To stagnate is not an option. I know now that I need to actively choose to do what is right for me and make the best decisions possible- every single second of every minute of every hour of every day. All it takes is being honest with ourselves.
Why do many men stop being romantic in a relationship?
Why do women stop having sex in a relationship? Often because men stop being romantic.Like someone else said, men are goal-oriented. Once the goal is met (marriage), the romance generally stops. But that’s also because they don’t understand women and how women need romance every week, at least. Men don’t need to understand this, they just need to get ’er done! Romance her! It’s worth it.Many men have had bad experiences where they did romance their SO, and got nothing in return. In that case they need to 1) stop generalizing and look at their current SO as a different individual, 2) leave the past in the past, 3) ask what makes THEIR SO feel loved, and do it. And in some cases the man needs to drop the unappreciative, nonreciprocal dead wood and find another SO.Like Nike says: Just do it.Women want to feel special, and they want you to show that each day. My and my wife talked about what we both need to feel loved, and we make it happen, no excuses. Here are some ideas if you haven’t yet talked about specifics:Get her a surprise card “just because”.Get her surprise flowers for no reason.Make her something SHE would like, just to show your love. I carved a granite stone with the date of our first date. It took me 5 hours with a diamond tip, granite is really hard!. And she really liked it. It will last for several thousand years, because granite.I take her out to dates spontaneously.I rub her back when she’s had a bad day.This isn’t all one-sided, she does things for me, like scratch my head, which, surprisingly, has a very big effect on me.For the women: don’t wait for the man to be romantic. Talk about what you need, and start things off by doing things for HIM. Men are not as emotional as women, but they still have feelings and need to feel loved and appreciated. Some ideas for women:Tell him he’s a smart man when he fixes something. Tell him he’s sexy when he’s working under the sink or something, and you are glad he’s helping the family.Tell him he’s sexy when he takes the kids for a day so you can go shopping or be with friends. Show your appreciation with actions. Men tend to like actions more than words, cards, or flowers. Ask what your man likes, never assume.Rub his back after work, or whatever sore part he likes.Men tend to be very focused on their sexual attractiveness, so include that in some of your comments. See above.If you both are willing to communicate clearly, you can solve this.
Why do guys make fun of me and harrass me?
Hey, I'm a sophmore girl in highschool and I have a problem; guys in my grade CONSTANTLY tease and bother me for no reason at all. They laugh at the way I walk, how quiet I am, and they say I look like some really ugly rapper. They try and set me up with their ugly friends as a mean joke, and spread rumors about me. I can' t do anything thing without them harrassing me. Just yoday I went to the bathroom and english class and when I came back they were all laughing and talking about me. Also these guys are really creepy and I dont like to be around them.They're so mean to me and they won't leave me alone! They treat other girls fine but when it come to me, I get the **** stick. Honestly, the constant bullying and harrassment made me attempt suicide earlier this month I swallowed nine pills and hoped that I would die. Also I have struggled on and off with self harm. The bottom line is, these guys treat me horribly and I don't know what to do! Any advice?
Every guy I talk to ends up falling in love with me. What do I do?
I have never heard of this happening in real life but I believe you’re telling the truth, which is why I am going to ask you a series of questions that if you answer in the affirmative might help explain the situation. So, let’s get down to business. [Question]: Are you this woman? If yes, then mystery solved. If no, then we can rule out the possibility you are Poison Ivy or Uma Thurman dressed up as fictional villain, Poison Ivy.[Question]: Are you a vampire from True Blood?If yes, then mystery solved. Second, if yes, can I get a gallon of V [1]for a friend? If no, too bad, I’ve always wanted to meet to a vampire. By the way, if your Deborah Ann Woll (pictured), it also might explain why men are falling in love with you. [Question]: Are you a Siren from Greek mythology? I didn’t think so but I had to ask. If you answered yes, then I can’t help you, being a Siren from would be ridiculous. [Question]: Are you Alison Brie? If yes, can we go on a date? This was thrown into the mix because I assume all men fall in love with Brie Alison, for the obvious reasons: she is Brie Alison.[Question]: Is it possible the candy bowl in your living room, isn’t really candy but this?If you answered yes, well, you should edit your answer or people will know you have a candy bowl filled with MDMA. If you answered no, damn it this is the hardest mystery I’ve ever tried to crack. All I can recommend at this point is upvoting this answer and taking someone else’s advice. I did my best, asking the questions no one would have asked. Good luck, with your awesomeness and sexiness. By the way, if you ever consider using your powers for evil, say, to dupe rich men out of money, let me know, that’s an opportunity I’d be willing to get in on. Footnotes[1] Vampire Blood