Friend requesting on myspace?
Why do some people leave a friend request pending? (rather than denying it) and gets mad when it shows back up (like someone re requested them) when actually a pending friend request reactivates after a person opens up "sent messages"... So in other words a person doesn't re request but the request reactivates once viewing back in "sent messages"...
Denied Friend Requests?
I now that this is going to sound EXTREMELY high school and lame, but does anyone else feel sort of hurt when somebody (especially someone you thought you were once cool with) denies your friend request, or just doesn't want to talk to you period. I mean, its like 7 or 8 people who are doing me like this. Its not like we weren't "BEST friends," but we talked and I thought we were at least on speaking terms. Anyway, I know it was childish, but I created a fake profile and added all the people that denied me the first time and they ACCEPTED the fake profile. I know some of you are going to say, if they're acting like that, you don't need to be around them anyway. And I KNOW this, but I don't FEEL it. I know I shouldn't care about people who don't care for me, but for some strange reason I still do. Maybe I'll grow out of it........even though I'm a senior in college. Haha. So, really I guess my questions are, has anyone (or more than one person) ever done you like this, how did you deal with it, and how do you just NOT care? (One of my problems is I care too much but I try to act as if I dont.)
Why do I feel very bad when someone rejects my friend request on Facebook?
Let's be honest that all of us feel bad when we get rejected period! But let us take another look at your specific case. You are really talking about "friend" request on Facebook. Friend request on Facebook is superficial, it really has no meaning or substance to it. I have people on my Facebook that I barely even talk to and there are "certain" people that burned their bridges with me that I would not want them to know anything about my own "personal" business.There was an experiment someone did that (Saw it on "Right This Minute"), he literally went to people's homes on his Facebook friends list and knocked on their door and see if they really treated him like a friend. Some people flat out denied knowing him when he showed up (clearly shows that Facebook friends don't always mean they are your friends). Some people he barely knew actually opened up their homes and was a good host to him, which was surprising and it was comical at the same time. They gave him a room to sleep in and fed him and they watch sports together :).Facebook is a way for some people to brag about their lives to people they know. It is a way for people to feed their own "ego" and get validation from the world that they are "cool" or "popular." Yet, in reality, there might not be any substance or meaning to it because they will always be constantly seeking that attention and constantly feel the need to exaggerate how "fun" their lives are. Constantly chasing for something they cannot catch. Sometimes, in reality people's lives are not very interesting or exciting as it seems. Some people's lives are interesting and exciting. But do you know where it starts?It starts within (self esteem), and sometimes, they are just good story tellers. They don't need to seek validation or confirmation from others to make themselves feel good.
Why do people decline your Facebook friend requests?
Well, since FB in their wisdom decided to abolish the "send message with friend request" feature, the person may never indeed even see the message to respond to it. Messages from non-friends usually get shuffled off into the spam (present terminology as of March 2016: "Message Requests") section of your inbox.If someone turned you down once, they have already decided, for whatever reason, that they don't want to be FB friends. There are innumerable possible reasons for this, some of which might have nothing to do with you—for instance, I get along quite nicely with the court staff with whom I work, but I do not send them friend-requests nor would expect them to accept mine, to avoid the appearance of a conflict of interest. Perhaps they find your content tiresome. Perhaps they don't even know you and aren't up to having strangers as FB friends. Perhaps they simply don't want a lot of FB friends. Perhaps they haven't opened their FB in three years. The Magic 8 Ball reads "Hazy" on this one.If you actually know the person outside of FB, ask them why they declined the request outside of FB. And if not, chalk it up to "oh well, they don't want to be your FB friend, time to move on." You can't make someone want any sort of relationship.
She denied my friend request? wtf?
So there's a group of people who I'll sometimes hang out with and within that group there's this girl who I'm not really close with but I always say hi and am nice to her and stuff. I sent her a friend request on facebook recently and she denied it... I guess there's no way to really know for sure but what are some reasons she would do that? Should I be insulted? I don't know how to act when I see her now because I feel she probably doesn't like me. I've never in my life been rude to her and it's not like I barely know her I realize it's just facebook but I think it still says something
Do you feel guilty or bad not accepting a friend request in Facebook from someone you once knew?
I don't deny I just don't do anything.
How do you feel when your Facebook friend request goes unanswered?
If anyone sends me a friend request, I often accept the same, and sometimes for courtesy only. Over a period of time I observed that my Facebook friends list was over 100.Some of them were preoccupied with updating their photos only.Some were not responding to my content by liking or commenting.Some were only engaged in posting the photos of Indian Gods and asking me to like them.Several friends shared no common interest with me.I did not like the content of several Facebook friends.So half of my Facebook friends had no common ground with me except that they were my acquaintances or colleagues at some point of time.So it occurred to me that why my content should reflect on their Facebook pages if we had little common ground and nothing valuable to share.So I unfriended all such Facebook friends.And I know I offended them in the process.
Why do people on Facebook leave friend requests pending?
When I send people friend requests on Facebook, they don't respond. If they don't wanna be friends with me, then what is so hard about just denying the friend request? Facebook makes it very plain and clear when someone has a request. So I know they see it whenever they log on to there home page. It's right there in big red letters on the top of the page. And also when they do that it makes facebook think your adding random people and they block you from making friend requests even though you know the person you're adding. So why don't people respond one way or the other? To me it's just plain rude and inconsiderate. And also it could get the friend requester banned altogether from Facebook. So why do people do this?
My crush denied my facebook friend request!!!!?
Stop with the facebook crap, I was trying to communicate with a girl that I had a crush with on facebook, and the only thing that did was backfire, it's best to have face to face interaction with someone. It comes across you as being a stalker, or just a really weird guy, and creeps women out, and it's really hard for them to move past that, and you're stuck feeling down on yourself because you know the impression they have of you is wrong. If you were going to talk to her than you should have walked up to her, it's over now, you need to move on, there's really nothing you can do, anything more you do, you'll make it look worse.