Why do I feel like everyone is out to get me?
IMOOnce you take a defensive stance, it is often that others can see it and see you as weak. As much as we don’t like admitting it, social interaction is anywhere from a coarse to fine balance of prey/predator in who has the upper hand.Yes, some people eventually learn to do very mild tit-for-tat reciprocal interchanging (often humor is used) to see who is more clever, smart has more informed or higher authority than the other. Some might deny that of course, but they are in denial or haven’t examined it carefully enough yet.So this can explain how some folks can keep “pushing your buttons”. You display an “I’m easily to push around” sign in your behaviors. You might need to get some assertiveness training. You might wish to find “magic dust” to get everyone to be nice to you. But not in this lifetime, unless you go into near seclusion.We could talk about why some folks are assertive alpha types and others are mild beta types. But knowing about that won’t help transform you into a more resilient (and happy to be more resilient) person.
Why do I feel like everyone knows me?
Maybe they like your clothes, maybe theyve seen someone who looks like you, or maybe you're just paranoid
Why do I feel like everyone hates me?
im so sorry for what your going threw, trust me i went threw the exact same thing. reading that was like a flashback for me and i dont want anyone to feel like that. deppression is like a wall holding you back and you somtimes cant help it, your teacher does care about you and so does you mom, deppression makes you think negativly alot unfortunatly. i thought it would be impossible to be happy again but what helped me the most was just starting with one thing at a time. i used to hate waking up in the morning and getting dressed so id look like crap and go to school horribly and not talk to anyone, thats all people saw was how miserable i was. lets say you hate being home, well make the best of what you have at school, put on ur makeup and a nice shirt and show people the real you, of how caring and nice you are. compliment other people and you will recieve compliments. its true people dont always like to listen to your problems but they dont hate you for that. if you have a best friend talk to him/her about ur problems but also ask them about whats going on in there life so they know you care about them too. just think that everydays somthing new and its going to be really good one day. i know school sucks cuz i got bad grades to but another way to interact with people is to ask them for help on that stuff thats how alot of people make their friends. just look at what you want to change in ur life first and start with that. good luck :) ps. i had a cousellor and i thought theyd could change things for me but they cant you really just have to help yourself before you can help others
Why do I feel like everyone is better than me?
I wouldn't say it is weird for you to feel this way, because many people feel the same (I have myself at times). But obviously it isn't healthy, and I don't think you'll be able to stop feeling like it by simply 'telling yourself' you are a better person. Even though you are, without doubt, a better person than you think you are, you need to actually prove this to yourself. You probably have a vague idea in your head of how you would like to be, and you are comparing yourself with that. Perhaps you should realize that at only 19 years old, you haven't yet reached your full potential. So don't worry if you aren't yet the person you would like to be, because people develop at different rates and discover who they are at different times. I have studied a lot of psychology, particularly personality types, and I am guessing that you are an "Introverted Feeling" type (I don't know if you have heard of 'MBTI personalities' before, but I think this could help you -it isn't astrology!). If you are interested, there is a description of this personality type here: http://personalitycafe.com/nfs-temperament-forum-dreamers/3065-introverted-feeling.html Some of it may not make sense to you, but I think you'll relate to a lot. Especially this part: "they seem to show signs of disappointment at a very early age, and a certain distrust of life. Owing to their inability to express themselves clearly, and to bring their ideals to reality, there may arise a feeling of impotence and inferiority. They are apt to seek the fault in themselves, and may suffer much from a sense of guilt on this account. Here, also, feelings have a tendency to extend their influence, with the result that their whole being may be plunged into depths of unhappiness; but at other times a genuine emotional contact with someone will once more fill them with a quiet and enormous delight. Now they will look at the world again with new eyes, and a feeling that is almost religious will embrace both nature and man." In other words, I think that once you have met people you can freely communicate with, as you said, 'in a meaningful way', you'll feel much happier. And even if you don't manage to meet such people any time soon, you are sure to understand and like yourself better naturally with time. ...sorry, maybe I've made the answer a little too long!
I feel like everyone hates me?
I over analyze peoples body language, even my close friends. If anything changes or even if they seem to talk to me less I realize they now hate me. I feel like people I don't even know hate me. I have even told a few of my friends that I have a "hate club." That is actually how I realized I may have a problem, my friend pointed it out. Everyone is always giving me dirty looks, or so it seems, and I can almost hear their whispers as I walk away. One night I was laying awake thinking of all the people that really do hate me and I started to cry. That wasn't the first time unfortunately and it probably won't be the last either. I worry a lot about this! I am always nice to everyone and I'm not a judgmental person at all so I like to think my worries are irrational but still I can't stop worrying about it! I admit I have made some mistakes but is that really a reason to hate someone so much? Do I have a real, diagnosable problem or am I just over thinking?
Do ever feel like everyone's the same?
Yea everything seems the same about people. The new trend is that everyone has OCD ADD ADHD and most of the time they don't be they think they do. Everyone IS dressing the same. Look what's being produced in the clothing market. Everything's is name brand clothing like Aero postal and others and whatever they come out with everyone wants to wear it. It's not that they know what we want in the type of clothing, it's whatever they come out with we want. Any trend that comes out, everyone automatically wants it. It's the steriotypical way of life. It started off with one person trying to be unique so he decided to have OCD or something, then it caught on and somebody else tried it. It moved down threw society like the trickel down economics, it started at the top and moved down through the rest of us. So yes I feel like everyone's the same because it actually is.