Why do I feel like I hate everyone today?
It's normal to go through phases like that. Everyone does. Or at least I know I do.. But I really don't think that the reason why no one seems concerned about you right now is because they don't like you. I think it's probably because they're going through busy stages of their lives, or their minds are just focusing on other stuff. I'm sure you've gone through that before? When your mind is always preoccupied even if you aren't busy. And the small things, like phone calls to see how a friend is doing, don't even cross your mind. Don't take it personally. Soon, you'll be going through a phase where you feel almost like you're getting too much attention and you just want it to stop. And on the other side maybe one of your friends will find themself in your situation but you won't even know it. Everyone has that.. It's life :) My advice would be to just get out of the house for a bit. Go for a walk, go do some shopping, go pamper yourself. Get a new haircut maybe? Just to start feeling better. Then how about you give one of your friends a call and ask if they wanna meet up? Once you start socializing and seeing people again the plans will start coming too. Good luck. :)
Why do I hate everyone?
Because you don’t respect yourself.I hate to break it to you, but you are suffering from a delusional mindset that only sees the bad in people. You overlook anything that makes somebody decent or interesting, and you choose only to focus on the shit. This is self-deception. It is a way of thinking that only recognizes what you want to see (the negative) and casts away everything that you do not (the positive).Hating people is often a form of self-hatred projected onto the world. Your life is not good enough, you are not properly fulfilled, and you lack something essential for your own happiness.Because of this, you see yourself as a failure, and you feel the need to bring others down to your “own level.” It’s much easier to tear others down than to give them credit where its due. Somebody that is out of shape, and doesn’t respect himself because of it, is going to hate seeing somebody who is. It’s so much easier to just say “Oh that guy is an asshole” instead of “He is where I want to be.”We hate feeling inadequate, and people that have what we want, or have become the person that we want to be, are seen as a target. They call attention to our own flaws, and we therefore associate them with any negative feelings that they make us feel about ourselves.I used to think the same way. Guys that were sexier than me or got more girls than me or had better grades than me or had more friends than I did…..I hated them. Not because there was any legitimate reason to hate them, but because looking at them made me realize everything that I wasn’t, and it made me feel like shit.I didn’t respect myself enough to avoid playing the devil’s game of comparison, and I hated everyone as a result.Want to know the solution?Love yourself. Improve yourself. Work on the things that will level up your life, and soon enough you will actually start liking who you are. Once this happens, the hatred disappears. Once you start working on yourself, going to the gym, starting a hobby, or getting really good at a new skill, you cease to give a shit.There’s no room for hatred once you like what you see in the mirror. The self-love extends beyond just yourself, and you realize that we are all flawed humans just trying to make our way.Love and respect yourself, and your life will change forever.
Slowly starting to hate everyone?
I don’t feel alone. I do feel sad. I don’t feel suicidial. I don’t hate myself. I’m not anti- social but I’m not extremely social either. But lately I’m starting to hate everyone. Like my friends are becoming annoying day by day. I feel as if I’m putting on a fake smile. Most days I want them to leave me alone. I don’t remember the last time I had an genuine smile on my face. My sister died recently but I don’t feel as if that’s why I’m like this. When I’m walking around the school with a straight, emotionless face on...I’m not thinking about my sister. I just want to be alone without anyone bothering me. And it’s not just my friends that are annoying me. Everyone. Everyone around has done something irritating to me and it kind of brings my whole mood down and I don’t even know these people. They could just be walking slow and I would literally want to scream. Everything in my life I feel is going down hill.....my parents are on the verge of splitting, ive been sexually abused when I was younger, my bio father was never really in the picture, I’m losing family members by the minute. I’m 17 and I have to think about college and what I want to do. I just feel like I want to push everyone away so I can be in peace but I can’t. Then people start asking what’s wrong and if it ok and I’m not mentally ready to answer those questions.
I hate everyone. It's like I have no feelings anymore. I lost close people in my life. Is this normal? Will I always be that way?
Hate is a feeling.Do you actively hate everyone, or simply not care anymore. If you don't care, that sounds like depression and you can definitely get help with that. You shouldn't go through that alone. If you actively hate everyone, it might be helpful to find out what's behind that.Ask yourself "Why do I hate everyone? What is the belief behind that?"It will usually sound like, "Everyone is _____" or "I am ________." Each time you get an answer, ask "Why is that? What's the belief behind that?"This helps you get your feelings and beliefs on the table so you can deal with them and start to change them. Beliefs are much easier to deal with when they have been pulled out of your subconscious and are sitting on the table. Good luck! Don't give up. Things will get better. They always do.
I lost control of my life, I don't have friends, I feel like everyone hates me. What can I do?
When I was 17, I lay in bed all day and regretted every moment. We had moved; my “new friends” had their own social structure going on. I didn’t fit in so well. I got stoned every day. Every day seemed hopeless and empty.And then I got an aha. What if I got up in the morning! and went out the door and just did my day. I greeted everyone I met pleasantly. I felt like a freshly peeled eyeball, but I forged ahead. I picked up a free newspaper, found a bench and started to read it. I did this every day during summer. People started to greet me genuinely. A few started to talk with me, casually at first. I listened. I didn’t try to be funny, charm them or be a jackass. I just listened. My own story was so FUBAR, I wouldn’t have known where to start or end it, and why scare the children with my tales of woe and dread.Soon enough, my mood shifted. Oh, it took weeks, but by having a routine that was easy to do, daily or near daily, and seemingly random in purpose, I found a settling in myself that replaced the turmoil.The chaos, the internal wailing, wise-sarcastic wit, porcupine, self indulgence was put aside, not fed and diminished. People who knew me as a failure or a pariah saw something different in me when we met again. I didn’t find the need to explain myself, which fearfully might have cracked open a window to the self focus I was setting aside.Pick one thing you like about yourself. If you define yourself by the reflection of others, you will become one battered little ping pong ball. Don’t focus on what you want to be or do, just one good thing about yourself.Are you honest? Loyal? Good listener? Take stock of your character. Do well in your endeavors. And sometimes just get out of bed, one foot in front of the other, and do well. Don’t talk about it, don’t think about it, just do. Take what is in your path and make it better for your having passed by.If you can find worth in yourself, you won’t measure so heavily the vapid evaluation of others. Keep showing up in life and find small moments that matter. Life is a page turner, you never know what will happen next. Get outside and do something, anything, a stroll down the street can become an adventure just by your showing up.
I honestly hate people... Why do I feel this way?
Whenever I am walking around I literally try dodging people like they are annoying little bugs. No one interests me. I cannot find entertainment talking or hanging out with anyone. I hate when people try talking to me. They all just seem so fake. I always want to be on my own unless I am drunk, that is the only time I can bare being around people and socializing. I avoid all potential friendships and feel so uncomfortable around everyone. What is wrong with me?