Why do i feel so lonely and depressed?
You can pray about your life. Tell God about it. Prayer can change you and help you feel better. Know that God can help you live a better life if you want Him to help you. You can have a personal relationship with God by saying the prayer below. God is our Creator, all-knowing, all-powerful, eternal, holy, love. God loves us and sent us His Son, Jesus Christ, so we can go to heaven if we know and follow Him. Forever means without end -- time on and on without death. Forever is what happens after we die. Either we go to heaven and be with God forever, or we go to hell which is very bad and painful forever. The good people who are saved believers in Jesus Christ go to heaven. The bad people go to hell. We need to know and follow God in this world to get to heaven in the next world. We follow God by loving and obeying Him and loving others for Him. Jesus Christ, God's Son, is our bridge to God. Jesus died on the cross to cancel our sins. We need to accept Jesus into our life as our Lord and Savior forever to receive God's blessing and forgiveness plus go to heaven to be with God forever after we die. This is about being a born-again Christian. Faith in God is a gift from God. You can pray for faith in God. Just speak out and ask God for the faith to believe in Him and to follow Him. Some people find faith in God when they realize the beauty in the world is made by God. Evolution can't explain the world's natural beauty, for example, the parks in the world, animals, flowers, peacocks, sunsets, butterflies, rainbows, etc. After you have your faith on, you can pray a sinner's prayer to be a born-again Christian. This prayer is very important and should be said with a sincere heart and faith in God. This is the prayer: "Dear God, I know that I am a sinner and that Jesus Christ is the sacrifice for our sins. I have done the following sins (state these out) and I pray to discontinue these sins. I pray to receive Jesus Christ into my life as my Lord and Savior forever. In Jesus' name, amen." I'm Lutheran and I like the Baptist churches too. You could check out a Christian church and also see about their weekly Bible study group as a good way to learn about God's will for your life. You can pray to God about your daily life and have a Christian church pray for you.
Why do I feel alienated?
First, you’re not a freak. You’re unique, just like the rest of us (as ironic as that sentence is). However, you are setting yourself up for unhappiness with your current mindset.Don’t expect one person to satisfy everything that you’re interested in. That’s like expecting to find someone perfect. Perfection is impossible, we just need to learn to be happy with the imperfections. So expect less and be satisfied with what people have to offer. Be satisfied when someone comes to understand one part of you, even if the rest is a mystery to them. Learn to enjoy others differences as much as you enjoy what you have in common. But don’t give up hope that you might actually find someone who matches your higher expectations eventually.And don’t be afraid to keep searching. I’m sure that there are communities online of people who like mixing topics the way you do, making connections between disciplines (which, honestly, sounds really cool to me). Or if there isn’t, make one. Even if it’s mostly just letting you put all of your thoughts and feelings into text to begin with, you can probably attract others who will contribute eventually.And don’t be afraid to talk to a doctor or a therapist about your concerns. There could be underlying health issues that are part of why you feel this way, such as depression. It could be that people understand you better than you think, and something is just preventing you from seeing that.You are a great person, you are unique, and you can be happy.
Why do I feel alienated sometimes?
I am not the best person to answer what is wrong with you because for almost 22 years , I have been trying to understand what is wrong with myself. I have the exact symptoms, only in my case , I have realized that the faults that I find in most of these "friends" are not always real, sometimes little mistakes on their part turn into big issues on my part just because they did not pass the test of my expectations. Exactly,what I have figured out by now is that whatever the fault is the fault is in me, because-I am a tough person to understand, I seldom let my guard down. I am never completely free. There's nobody I trust more than me and my mind. As a result , I have seen people hesitating to talk to me. Even though they know that they may get help if they come to me directly, they do not prefer that option. The complaint against me was never "She is selfish" ,but it was " I don't understand her", Nobody wants to be friends with somebody you don't understand. Also, I only speak my mind when I want to, So the other person has no clue whatsoever which little mistakes of theirs pissed me off.I feel this about myself that I suffer from multiple personality disorder. The case is never severe, that's why I have never been to a doctor. Actually what happened is that when you grow as the only child in a problematic family, You grow a tortoise like shell and you begin to isolate yourself from the world, Then by a twist of fate, you are thrown out into this world where wolves will tear you down if you don't speak up. Then, you decide to do away with introvertness, and boom! it happens, now you are a missing link, You want to go out and talk to people but you want them to behave in your way, the way you imagine them to behave. Now, that's only possible in your dreamsI am sorry, I can only share my experiences, Maybe, your case is entirely different or maybe some of the situations, you will find similarity. But whatever it is, I think it will console you to know there's another person on this earth, who is suffering from the thing as you. Best of luck for life!
Why do I feel so alienated?
I feel the same way sometimes. In high school I talked to people here and there, and no one had a problem with me and I guess i didnt have a problem with them either, but I realize now that I kept every one at an arms distance, and never really got to close to any one besides a good friend of mine. I thought all the girls were really catty and shallow, but I wish now that I would have got to know more of my class mates. Im now in college and Ive met alot more people. I know this may sound shallow, but smile. Smile at people, or just smile when your walking around school. It makes you more approchable and easy going. Really it makes all the difference. Just try it one day smile at every one, but not just a fake smile, think of something that makes you happy and smile. Look for the difference. It worked for me.
Why am I so depressed and how to get out of it?
There are many things you can do to help treat your depression. Moderate exercise for at least 20 - 30 minutes, daily, and up to an hour. Brisk walking is good, and try to be mindful of the feeling your foot makes as it hits the ground: it is a relaxation technique. Also use daily, one of the relaxation methods in sections 2, 2.c, 2.i, or 11, and/or yoga, Tai Chi, and/or the EFT, in sections 2.q, 2.o, and section 53, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris whichever works best for you. Take 4 Omega 3 fish oil supplements, daily: (certified free of mercury) it is best if consumed with an antioxidant, such as an orange, or grapefruit, or their FRESHLY SQUEEZED juice. If vitamin E is added, it should be certified as being 100% from natural sources, or it may be synthetic: avoid it. Also take a vitamin B complex which is certified as being 100% of natural origin; a deficiency in vitamin B9 (folic acid, or folate) is known to cause depression. Around 30% - 40% of depressed people have low vitamin B12 levels. Depressed females using the contraceptive pill may benefit from vitamin B6 supplements. Occupational therapy (keeping busy allows little time for unproductive introspection, and keeps mental activity out of less desirable areas of the brain). As options, if desired, either a known, effective herbal remedy, such as St. John's wort, (a German variety, if possible; local ones may vary in efficacy; take with a meal) or supplements, such as SAMe, or Inositol (from vitamin and health food stores, some supermarkets, or mail order: view section 55 at ezy-build ). Initially, at least, some form of counselling, preferably either Cognitive Behavio(u)ral Therapy, or Rational Emotive Behavio(u)ral Therapy. Co-counselling is shown in the first 3 pages of section 2, or online therapy, or even talking with someone you feel comfortable with, and a much more detailed post is on page R. Also see young women's depression, page V, and eventually the rest. Cut your soda consumption right back, and get out in the sunlight for at least 30mns daily. Weight loss is addressed in section 56, and also view section 99. Get a timetable: phone the bus co. I manage on a cheap prepaid cellular mobile phone.
Why do I feel so alienated from myself and my peers?
The reason that birds fly south for the winter is that they feel uneasy where they are. The reason gray whales swim north for the summer is that they “get the urge for going”.For tens of thousands of years people of your age have felt dissatisfied with their surroundings, embarrassed by their parents, and alienated from their peers. These feelings motivate them to go out from their comfortable surroundings and seek their fortune over the mountain or down the river or at the next island or the next desert oasis. Some young ones died on these quests, but others prospered — and those were the ones who made the babies that have been our ancestors all these many thousands of years.In today’s world it is not possible to run away and seek your fortune at 13. There were some in my circles that tried, and the results were not healthy. Society demands that you do your time in school and knuckle under to demonstrate your compliance and reliability. It’s totally contrary to human nature. Getting to high school graduation is like a jail sentence with six years to go — when you haven’t done anything wrong.All you can do is make the best of it. You can live a life of isolation, playing computer games, watching every film on NetFlix, making youtubes, studying calculus or Dark Matter or langauges or the history of 13th Century France. You can study the great poets, or the great blues musicians, or the great impressionists. You could learn to refinish old furniture, or to reupholster old chairs. You could paint or do computer graphics. You could debunk conspiracy theories.You could plug in with school a bit more and see if you like the chess club or the debate society or the robot club or the drama society. Several young people of my acquaintance found building the sets for stage productions very interesting.Exercise is a good thing. Maybe join the swim team or the track team.You’re stuck with it, guy. The way of nature pretty clearly was that at 13 young women ran away from home and before long became mothers, and young men ran away and mostly got killed—or worse!— by the older men that were impregnating the young women. Modern society does its best to thwart the ways of nature.Six years seems like a long time when you’re thirteen (it’s half your life) but you can get through it. Thousands of generations of your ancestors had exactly the same feelings, and your existence is a demonstration that they got through it.
Why don't I feel like myself when I am depressed?
Probably because you aren’t yourself.When I was 20 my mother died of cancer, which I know recognize resulted in me experiencing complicated grief, which, couple with a developing hypothyroidism (and drug abuse), resulted in me falling into a depression.For about 5 years I didn’t feel myself, like there was some dark cloud dampening my personality, and I found myself pushing loved ones away out of a fear of loss (specifically of loved ones dying), which only exacerbated the situation, forcing me further into my introverted side (I’m an ambivert). Introversion is not good for a depressed person, especially if they’re normally extroverted (they may not have the psychological tools to cope with isolation).Depression is a condition that effects how you perceive the world - and if you don’t feel yourself it’s because you remember how you were before the depression set in and desire to be as you’re meant to be (that’s how it is for me now that I’m out of the depression but find my social life in shambles). Even trying to reconnect with old friends is a challenge.It’s difficult for someone who hasn’t gone through it to understand but it’s real and it fucking hurts.
Why do I feel so lonely and depressed even if I have friends?
Hi, asker.I don’t feel confident enough answering any question on here, but now, I feel like I’ve gained enough personal experience for this one.First: how long have you been feeling lonely/depressed? A few weeks, a few months, a few years? Do you feel it’s part of your personality, or is it something out of the norm for you?I personally have a condition called Dysthymia. It’s like a Major Depression, but milder and longer-lasting. This means I’ve probably had it since I was 10 years old but just never knew because “you’re just a kid/it’s a phase/you’re being an emotional teenager”. I’m 22 now, I can tell you, it was not a phase. Anyway, don’t feel scared to tell your doctor about it. It might turn out you are feeling depressed and it can have many causes.Having friends doesn’t really matter if you suffer from depression. My boyfriend always feels very hurt when I tell him I’m not happy because he thinks I SHOULD be happy because I “have nothing to be sad about.” and it angers him that he doesn’t make me happy.Other people can’t make you feel happy and shouldn’t feel like they have the responsability. I suggest you research some of the depression-linked conditions and do some tests. Those tests won’t give you a definitive answer, but they will give you a preview of what might be going on. Don’t feel bad that you feel sad. It’s okay to feel shitty. Try and talk about it to a doctor, if you don’t feel comfortable telling your friends.One last thing: don’t ever let anyone tell you that you have no right to feel shitty. It’s the worst thing people I’ve trusted have told me and until this day it infuriates me. It’s like kicking someone in the nuts and then telling them to stop crying because it doesn’t hurt. Bullshit. And remember, “alone” and “lonely” are two different things that have nothing to do with each other. It is very possible to feel lonely in company.So, good luck to you! I hope you will find an answer to your questions and a light to guide you through the dark.
Why do i always feel so angry,hateful,and depressed?
Ryan, welcome to America. So many people, like yourself, are in dire need of help , and are poor and in serious debt too. Nothing is wrong with being a virgin, since when is that wrong? You are young and you have tried so hard to go to school. Everyone has school debt, its awful, as you say. The scary thing is you need some help , and medication? You need some attention for your nerves and feelings. Your feelings are raw and tender, and need help, you see? Living in America is very hard, and the last eight years were absolute hell. This is the outcome of those horrible 8 years of political mismanagement, corporate greed and covert agendas. We were all victims. We all hurt. We are all poor. We all need to help each other as much as possible. You don't have to ever look back at the past. You can learn from the lessons. Say" what did I do? what should I do now? What worked and what didn't? what will work ? " you said you messed a lot of things up, so you know what NOT to do! Thats really a good start. You are quite young, and I am speaking from an older age than you, you have a LOT to learn. Dont' be afraid to fall in the mud , just get up and clean up and move right on ahead. You aren't in life to "get the past back" , you are in life to " move forward! to a stronger and better place" . Also, if you can find ways to be kind to others, you will see how it will light you up inside, knowing you made someone else's life a bit brighter. Its hard to get along with parents at this age. They want money for the utilities, and money to help keep the roof over your heads, and they try to tell their offspring to not waste energy . It is good to help them with finances. Lots of people are having to drop out of the higher education because of job or home losses. We are struggling as a nation . I hope you will talk to a doctor about getting you free help and medication. You know , they have to help .
When I'm bored I get depressed?
depression you say that so loosely. Depression is an emotional disorder and serious in so many different ways it effect people across the board. Have a look at what makes you happy, list it. Read it and if you have a few things to more then you have a good start on life's purpose. Work on it. Think through what is making you unhappy write it down , speak to someone that you trust. Is it when you are bored that you start to think of the negative thing that are, can, will or could happen in your life. You need to draw a line under these and work on them. Life can be something different to what we want, expect, wish sometimes but its okey we can learn and change those times if we have the ability, strenght and wish to. Best wishes maureen.