What do I do when I feel broken?
We all feel this way at some times. I have personally had many traumas in my life that left me questioning whether or not I could go on. When I have felt this, I try my damndest to pick myself up and find something that excites my imagination and use this to remind myself that I still have a lot to live for and give to others. One of the things I do is help the less fortunate. If you look about there is always someone worse off than yourself. It doesn’t have to be a big sacrifice, or expensive. You can bake a cake for an elderly neighbor, or go through your clothes and donate to the homeless, etc. The possibilities are endless. If you have been rejected, I always remind myself that there are billions of people in this world, and many of them are just waiting to meet you! You are a special, unique person, and no other person has your qualities and gifts. So, get up, go out there and present yourself to the world!
Why do i feel so broken & empty?
My life at the moment just seems to be going no where and i have been feeling like this for a long time. I don't know how to deal with it although i do cope with my feelings day in day out, but that's not how i want it... "coping" with things. It seems that when someone does comes into my life they walk straight back out i'm starting to think it's something they see which they don't like, it's like i don't even deserve an explanation as to why the people who i thought i knew, the people who i thought knew me don't wanna know anymore. I'm only young but their was a point in my life where i completely closed off from everyone and the slightest bit of happiness which i was experiencing... well I guess i took it to seriously because now i feel worse then i ever have from knowing i tried to be happy succeededed and now back to square one, like everything that i was experiencing was a waste of time, I thought i was an alright type person but the way things are panning out i'm slowly beginning to realise this is my life people walk in and out. This question doesn't really have an answer just some thoughts on it i guess. Meaningful or meaningless i don't mind. I just felt i had to vent my feelings somewhere.
Why do I feel broken?
Imagine many delicious dishes kept in front of you.Now if you are hungry - I am 100% sure you wouldn’t be able to hold yourself and you would jump on it and eat it. And if you are starving, you may even push or fight with someone to eat this food.However, if you are absolutely full up to the brim, you wouldn’t want to eat. And if you have over-eaten, you may even get disgusted to eat anything.So hungry is when you are without food or nourishment.In the same way, being broken is when you are without emotional food or nourishment. When either your body or spirit or emotions are experiencing a void.Once however, you get some “delicious nutrition” for your heart, spirit and mind - you will be ‘unbroken’ and ‘fixed’.Take these statements from a guy who has been broken in every way possible and that too from his own lover, his own father and even his own mother. But survived and became stronger.Loy Machedo
Why do I feel broken inside?
Ahem - I get fed up of people diagnosing other people without real knowledge of this mental disorder. So don't immediately claim to be depressed, when there could be a simple explanation like hormones :) they play a big part in our lives as we grow. If you need anymore advice; please contact me: http://jowiie.myfastforum.org/
I feel so guilty, I broke my hymen?
Don't feel guilty about it at all! First of all, I guarantee you that your future boyfriend won't even think to look for that. (Seriously, boys are dumb.) Second, by the time we're your age, most of us have our hymens worn or torn by other things, too. Bikes, horseback riding, tampons, gymnastics, fighting - all kinds of things can damage that part, but that isn't a bad thing! In fact, a lot of them just wear away over time. It isn't a measure of virginity, either, which is really just a concept and isn't even the same for everybody (some people say that you can only lose it to a penis; others say it's any time you have your first sexual experience, penetration or not. It doesn't matter; it's up to your personal definition.) Your first time won't necessarily be the same as you've heard. You might rip your hymen a little more than you already have; you might not. You might bleed, or you might not feel anything, or you might have a grand old time with no problems at all! Every body is different. Don't pressure yourself to live up to old myths you've heard. Oh yeah, and one more thing - if the first guy you're with thinks you've "cheated" on him by accidentally tearing your hymen - which, like I said, most of us do - he's an idiot. Besides, it's none of his business! Good luck :)
I feel so broken without him.?
we did talk he said he still loved me and this and that. I asked him to choose and he picked her but he calls and talks to me. he told me at the beginning he still wanted to kiss me and stuff. i could have broke them up but i was so confused then. I didn't do it in time so now i don't know.
I feel useless and broken... what should i do?
Hey! Please don't let this get too far out of hand. I felt like this 4years ago, and was going to end my life. Let me tell you girl, it is NOT worth it! Things will turn around, I promise! I still have my down days, but I wouldn't give up for anything. I have a beautiful little girl, I have found the love of my life, and my family is so supportive. Get out and go for a walk. Draw. Listen to music. Take guitar lessons...you can get a cheap guitar, and they have all sorts of stuff on the internet that will help you. Write. I found that if I keep a notebook, journal so to speak, it helps ALOT. PRAY. Please, if nothing else, go see your doctor. There are medications and therapy, that will help you feel better. These all take time, but let me tell you from experience, it's worth the wait. Hang in there!
How do you heal when you feel broken on the inside?
It takes awhile. Whatever your situation to cause this, let me say I am sorry. I promise you the day will come when it doesn't hurt. The day will come when you don't wonder how much longer is this going to last. Until then if you need to cry, find a place and do just that, if you want to rail and scream, find a place and do just that. If you think you want to write a letter about how you feel, find a place and do just that. If it seems to much, go to a mental health facility and let them assess you, they can provide the assistance you may need temporarily. Good luck and God bless.