Why am I feeling frustrated?
Remember that world is a tough place. There is no free lunch; not even free breakfast. Things are not easy for many of us. You are not alone. Tolerance level, however, varies person to person. Your 'itchiness level' may be higher than others. You have to convince yourselves impediments are part of the game. If that convincing part appears difficult at the outset, slow down and ease yourself a bit. Take long breaths. Drink a glass of water. Rub your face so that tension in the facial muscles does not distract you and feel perturbed. Do not let your neck to get stiff. That will allow relatively better blood supply to brain areas. If sitting, get up and walk a little. JUST THINK THAT NOTHING IS GOING TO HAPPEN, IT IS SIMPLY ANOTHER TOUGH DAY AHEAD. Frustration is within our control, at least for most of us. Why cannot you be one of those people? With open mind, see what is the problem. Then concentrate on how to counter its effects. There are many solutions; do not go for partial solutions. Look for the best possible, long term and satisfactory end result. Once you have reached that stage, steadily growing frustration will start melting and vanishing. THIS WILL BECOME A NORM AFTER MANY SUCH BOUTS. After some time, a frustration-suppressing circuit in brain will take over the job to relieve you of consciously taking care of the above process. Without medication, I truly believe your problems would solved, at least to the extent of frustration and level of annoyance.
I feel so frustrated with life, what can i do?
how dare you complain you feel so frustrated with life how can u even say that? Life isnt fair, but at least this is something YOU can change over time but me? No, will i ever be able to bring back my dead mother who died in a car accident, or my father who killed him self over her loss, my 22 yr old brother who is locked up in prison. only me and my 25 yr old sister remain, what the hell do we do huh? we keep pushing the hell on, you arent grateful for what u have, because u dont understand what u have, or what others have lost. you spend your nights crying by your self? over what?? what the hell could i have done to deserve this? your right it isnt fair, but you will never understand the pain and the loss i have experienced. think you have no personality? can u imagine ur self after my tragedy? mine is gone, i feel completely empty inside. i dont think i can even cry anymore, after so much crying, every day for about a year, the ability has just left me. so much hate and rage drives me the only reason why i havent went ahead and killed my self, get rid of this pain and this hurt, is because my sister is still here, im all she has and me the same to her. and not to follow in my fathers footsteps idk how my sister and i are going to pay for college, thats just another dent that will become a problem in my life. im 18, its been a couple years since all the hell life has put me thru i would love to trade places with you if you think you have it bad, remember someone else always has it worse
Why do I feel so stuffy and frustrated?
That often happens due to expecting something and being shocked with anthor thing totally different ..... may be in work may be expecting somethingfrom a person may be waiting for a special event a lot of things .... here are steps that may help .. hope so First take a deep breath and calm down Think of the reason .. why I am so frustrated like that ?!Mostly you will find out that there is no reason or there is an unreal one If yes then apologize if you had hurt someone's feeling If no try to solve the problem using your mind and not only your anger and your mouth . Remember to calm down always.
I'm so frustrated with life?
You've gotta think positive, no matter how hard it is! Always look at the bright side of life, force yourself into it! Do something you enjoy that will cheer you up. For example exercise is a great thing to do! It relieves stress and it can be done anywhere! Grab some stairs to climb, skip rope, run some laps, do push-ups anything helps! Everyday, look in the mirror and say that you are beautiful. Smile, and reminiscence about the great things you've done to make yourself happy! And take it easy, life is hard. If you think positive, (think about the great family, friends, skills, hobbies, food you love in life!!!) you'll be in control in no time. Think that you are significant and that the world wouldn't be the world without you! Pretty soon, you'll find the ladder out of that deep hole, climb up it with confidence, and enjoy life once more! Its part of life to feel frustrated about EVERYTHING, its natural. Just put your head back in the game and believe you can do it! I know I'm with you! And I believe in you! So good luck and enjoy conquering life! :D
Why am I so frustrated from being horny? & why do I feel guilty for feeling this way? Will i ever be able to find a boyfriend?
I know this question has more than one question in it, but i just feel hopeless sometimes. I feel so horny like I just need a guy right now. I just turned 20, and even though I've been feeling this way for a few years now, I hide it and never told anyone not even my mom that i want sex. I feel guilty because my family is sort of sex-negative in my opinion, and i just feel guilty. They think I'm so innocent. I am a sweet person, but like I want sex now more than I ever did. And now masturbating almost doesn't fulfill me because it feels like I need something inside. (Sorry for being graphic). My body craves touch and sex so bad now, it doesn't matter what I do. I feel like I will never meet a guy, or fall in love, or have sex. I mean, every person I meet tells me I'm pretty but i guess I don't believe them, as I am super self-concious. But anyway, i used to think everyone has the experience of love at least once, but what If I will never find someone? Or someone I can have sex with because my body is going crazy?? And WHY is my body going this crazy?? I just don't know what I am going to do if I can't find a guy to be with but Idk WHY all of this, andWHY I even want someone. WHY I cant control my body, and WHY I feel guilt sometimes. I just do want Real sex and want to not care about everyone around me that has been negative about sex my whole life... Anyway, thanks for reading this long thing!! Please be nice in your answers :-) . XO
Why do I feel so frustrated when it comes to this girl I like who keeps sending mixed signals?
Hugs for you, brother. Mixed signals are the worst. I try to be as clear as I can with my intentions and feelings and, given your question, I get the feeling you are too. Mixed signals come about when a person: A) knows what they want (or don't want....in this case any deepening of the relationship) B) loves the ego stroking gratification of leaving another on a string. ....Or the prestige of leaving you trailing after them. ....Or if you got cash, or can provide some other benefits maybe some of that too. ....Or maybe they just don't want to feel alone so even though they dont want you they also don't want to tell you plainly as then they'd have nothing. It sucks and sending mixed signals is generally a horrible way to conduct yourself. Especially when we all know how hard and nerve wracking it is to make a move forward...at the very least if someone stated an interest it should be responded to honestly and with dignity. Unfortunately the person you chose isn't at a place in their life where they can give others honesty and dignity. This means you are going to have to create honesty and dignity for yourself. Spare yourself the confusion and the pain of false hope. ... These are not mixed signals. They are an answer of "no". I know it may hurt to hear.....but I want you to picture yourself in a few months when you stumble across someone else you like, someone new... ...You make a move and they blush a little and admit they liked you all along too. Then picture a relationship where you give out love and positivity and it is returned in equal measure. ....how happy will you be then? So screw these mixed signals and save your energies for the one who is coming someday soon. Seriously, the best you can ever get from mixed signals is a damp washrag of a relationship....not the fire of truly connecting as passionate equals. And congrats on trying. It takes some real balls to overcome fear and make the first move. Not all moves work out, but not all moves are meant to. Keep trying and only accept the one who returns your fire with fire of their own.
To all the ladies TTC...who are frustrated and feel hopeless, how long have you been TTC?
23 months, just went through my second chemical pregnancy in that time. I completely agree with you, for us girls who really have a hard time conceiving (as opposed to the girl who gets upset if it doesn't happen first try) it is unhelpful and hurtful to tell us to 'just relax'. I swear I WILL rip somebody's head off the next time I have to hear yet another happy anecdote about a couple who gave up trying after their third IVF attempt and then suddenly conceived, so that means 'not trying' and 'relaxing' must be the holy grail of baby making. When people tell those stories they never stop to consider that for every woman who conceived after she stopped trying there is at least one woman who didn't conceive until she DID try everything in her power to conceive. It's like these people think we are charting temperature and observing physical signs of ovulation and peeing on sticks and undergoing invasive fertility tests in some kind of subconscious attempt to sabotage our chances instead of to maximize them. Don't they realize that their advice, to just let things happen, is the FIRST thing we tried? And that apparently things just FAILED to happen? Almost forgot: CONGRATS!!!