I'm so insecure.. can anyone help?
I'm always picking at every single detail about myself. I think I'm too fat (5'3 and 114 lbs; trust me, im not anorexic, that's scary), I think I'm really ugly, stupid, gullible, short, my eyes are crooked, I'm too hairy, my hair's weird, I'm extremely irresponsible... the list goes on. I cry often and I have a boyfriend but I'm so scared that he doesn't think I'm good enough for him or he wants to dump me or something... he tells me I'm beautiful and I yell at him for lying to me.... and it's so hard for me to be with him because he's getting straight A's and I'm getting only 4 A's, 2 B's and a C. I don't think I'm good enough for anyone. There's something seriously wrong with me. I'm sick of feeling so down and worthless all the time. Any advice, personal experiences...?
Why am I feeling so insecure about my height?!?
this probably won't help, but... this is kristin chenoweth http://images.eonline.com/eol_images/Entire_Site/20080224/293.chenoweth.kristen.split.022408.jpg she's won a tony award, had her own sitcom, starred in pushing daisies, and is just an amazing 40 year old woman. she is 4'11 just rock ur height! not all of us can be 5'11, but don't most guys like girls shorter than them?
Why do I feel so insecure and down on myself everytime it's that time of the month?
Well I am usually a really fun, funny person but every month right before my period I flip out! Inside and out. I feel like my relationship is failing (even though nothing bad happend no fights ..nothing!, I feel so ugly and fat and mean and become so defensive and so sad and frustrated with myself. On a daily basis I am confident in my relationship I have no doubts I know he loves me I love him we're getting married we have a future together but once that time hits it's like bam he doesnt love me anymore he's cheating on me he's gonna make me leave and this drives him crazy (reasonably so). Also I am not concieded but I am a fairly attractive woman (far from gorgeous but pretty) I am not as thin as i used to be (two kids) but like before once that time hits the only thing I see in the mirror is fat fat everywhere. To the point that it makes me sick to look at myself. My question is why on earth do I get like this and what can I do to stop this irrational behavior and feelings.
Why do I feel so insecure? iM A SAGITTARIUS FEMALE?
Your sign is a very good one. You should be conscious of it and of your possibilities and take things calmly.; Sagittarius people are very apt to be misunderstood. They see so clearly, think so quickly, and because of this natural intuition are so sure of being correct, that they very often strike squarely against the opinions and prejudices of those about them. This leads to discussion, unrest, and perhaps serious quarrels. They cannot bear to see suffering. The first impulse is to relieve it, and they spare neither time, money, nor strength in this work. This labor is always one of the heart, but strange to say it is usually repaid with ingratitude. Their generosity and goodness are constantly taken advantage of. This is the cause of great sorrow and bitterness, and wounds so deeply as to almost paralyze all effort and all desire to be of use.